My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago. He and I were talking last night and there was a lot of flirting going on between us. Like when were talking we were holding hands and weaving our fingers though each and others we hugged a lot like really close. Before I left I kissed him on the cheeck .He told me that he misses me and misses me being around. He said that we should hangout soon. The funny thing was we were talking about jobs and when were dating I was talking about getting a job at the bank down the street from his work and he brought up the whole thing saying "you should try to get the job at the bank near my work and I can drive you and then you can walk up to my work and wait for me to drive you home" I don’t know whets going on. He told me when we broke up that he didn’t love me and that he didn’t want a gf right now. Now after last night I don’t know what to think. I mean is there a good possibilities he wants me back? Could he finally be realizing that he let something really good slip away? How should deal with this?
2006-12-11 00:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself why you guys broke up at the frist place?
He wasn't ready before but now he is and he came to you and he sounds really confused yet knows how to play with you too.
I think he sound like he knows what he wants but just do urself a favor don't hurt yourself...be careful because some guys just can know how use a women and get to her.
The best thing is to become friends and talk about what happen before because you seem more confused than he does but don't fall for everything he says though...don't look at the way his lips move...lol just look at his eyes and thats all and he knows that your serious and you can tell if he really wants you or something else cuz if he was serious he would look straight at ur eyes and say everything 2 your face not to your body..
Good luck hope he is serious and ain't playing around but go along with it okay ....Smiles
2006-12-11 01:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Unknown_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not what you are wanting to hear, but I am not going to sugar coat it.
I don't know how "intimate" you got with him while you were a couple, but my sense is not that he misses you, but rather, he misses the sex (or whatever you did).
Point blank, he is stringing you along to get some. Nothing more. He told you he was not interested in a girlfriend, right? Well tell you what. To prove my point you should ask him about that the next time you run into him. Either he will confirm that and say that he doesn't want at girlfriend OR he will lie and say that he would consider it (odds are he won't say he wants a girlfriend). And believe me, you will be able to tell that he's lying.
The bottom line is, when he broke up with YOU he said he "didn't want a girlfriend"..... Translated that means... He doesn't want YOU to be his girlfriend. And there really is nothing you can do to change that. If you try to get back together with him you will most likely get your heart broken. My best advice is to cut ties with him totally so that he can't string you along any longer, and you can finally let these wounds heal.
Best of luck,
Laura
2006-12-11 01:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the man realize that you are a good woman and something special to have. Ask yourself this question: Did he break your heart and if the answer is no, then by all means take him back; but if the answer is yes, then don't take him back and let him suffer a bit before you take him back.
I pray that this will help you!
2006-12-11 00:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by Doc Rick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the image you paint makes all and dissimilar you come back in contact with to be evil or depraved. the well-known denominator in all of your complications is you. no longer to be harsh, yet you sound like you create your own complications. i'd recommend some remedy to communicate your concept of the international.
2016-11-25 20:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him come to you...he seemed confused about why you guys broke up..but he if he wants to be back with you let him call you let him plan a date..cause if he does want to see you or talk to you he will do this.
2006-12-11 00:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it's just early to say.wait and talk with him again.find out his intentions!
2006-12-11 00:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋