Singles & Dating - 4 December 2006

Hi. I have this problem. I'm working with a really nice guy. He's a real player and a flirt. We've been working in the same building for 3 months now, and traveling home together every day. We always had friendly conversations and he told me privat stuff, but as a friend. But he started flirting with me the other day, about 2 days ago, and now i dont know how to handle it. I'm dating a really nice guy and i like him very much. I think i also like this guy.

What do i do???

2006-12-04 23:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Lizzy 1

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2006-12-04 23:23:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 4 weeks ago i have tryed to contact her friends to find out if she is ok and tryed to find out why but come to no that she just fell out of love with me which is hard to accept but i have.I am a very shy person and can not see myself with anyone in the future at the moment but do not want to wait for my ex but i do but we have talked and agreed we are over and that we are freinds and if i have any problems apart from us or dealing with the break up i can talk to her or hang out etc; thing is her friend told me that "do not cut her off i don't want to build your hopes up but there could be a chance in the future shes just got problems to sort out at the moment(anarexica)so my mind is messed up i love her with all my heart and think i should give it a chance to see because if i don't i will regret it there are other women out there but this is the one for me i will move on but how do u stay friends how often do i call or meet her!!

2006-12-04 23:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been in 2 interracial relationships now, they were short but they were nice while they lasted. Thing is i am an african, but am more attracted to white guys (essentially its "something new", just the opposite happening) but in canada here, it seems most guys would much rather jump off a burning bridge than date oustside their race, and when they do date they are always second-guessing themselves. They never seem confident, and if as a man you aren't confident i get turned off (quite easily). I can understand if he is uncertain and unsure, and i have read articles discussing interracial datings and what not, but if i make a commitment to date you and it doesn't bother me that your'e white then why can't the same be reciprocated...It's just so damn frustrating. Edmonton is huge but guys here say one thing and turn out to be completely different.....sometimes you want to scream out loud "GIVE ME A BREAK"....i donno just my thoughts on it.......would appreciate answers, thanks a lot

2006-12-04 23:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by meekmami 2

I'm so hurt by my ex. He was so horrible to me. And ever since I been very rebellious and very anti-male I feel like I alomst hate men in a way. I've been doing a lot of bad girl activity like having sex with strangers, getting into fights, and doing drugs. I used to be a sweet and good girl.

2006-12-04 23:19:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your seeing a guy casually, not dating, and he asks you about your ex cause he knows you ended a serious long term relationship with him a few months ago, is he thinking of you more than just a fling?

i havent slept with this guy, only kissed him.

he also asked if i had "been" with anyone else since my split. is he trying to find out if im over my ex?

2006-12-04 23:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1

when me and my boyfriend got together, he told me to keep our relationship secret.
I asked why but I got nothing but unclear asnwers until one day when he told me the truth: he has an OBSESSION FOR HIS EX (with whom he was together for only 2 weeks) then we split up but now he wants me back.
we are back together but he said I shold keep myself from falling in love with him for now as he doesn't know "what his (=mind) will come up with next". meaning he doesn't know for sure he can carry on in his decision to forget about her. meaning also that now we are on a certain "probation", we are "trying to be lovers".
he kinda likes to be trourmented by his past. . .which I find strangely self-punishing and ill. I got to tell him the key is for him to really want to forget her and only he can have controll over this but I want to help him more.

please tell me: how can I cure him from this obsession so that the both of us can be happy?

thank you!

2006-12-04 23:18:18 · 12 answers · asked by porcelain heart 2

I'm short and I wish I were taller. Are there guys out there that find short girls attractive? Plus, I overheard this guys saying "damn that girl got nice legs on a J-lo booty" and I see guys checking out tall girls alot. I got no J-lo booty either. The guys talking to his friend about that girl didn't even notice me and I thought he looked pretty cute but being I am polar opposite to the attributes he gawked about that girl, I had no guts to say hi.

2006-12-04 23:17:29 · 12 answers · asked by kowalley 5

I use to love him more than every thing before but it seems the love is no longer there any more. please can someone tell me why is like this. I don,t have anyone else.

2006-12-04 23:16:53 · 5 answers · asked by chizoba n 1

2006-12-04 23:15:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need friends that i can e-mail if you guys or girls (we can be friends) are interested please leave me your e-mail in a answer form THANKS!!!!

2006-12-04 23:14:10 · 10 answers · asked by cangri girl 2

I've been going out with my boyfrined for 2 years and he cheated on me several times and now we are not together anyone. I still love him but I feel so hurt and broken.

2006-12-04 23:13:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She said that she wasnt happy and that she wasn't sure if she wanted to be my gf anymore , but now she misses me and its a total different ballgame

2006-12-04 23:06:13 · 12 answers · asked by Zach M 1

i don't need a second invitation for sex, so i don't get it when she says she is not in the mood

2006-12-04 23:00:32 · 22 answers · asked by BB 1

2006-12-04 23:00:24 · 8 answers · asked by kan 1

2006-12-04 22:59:46 · 8 answers · asked by king of spain 3

2006-12-04 22:58:04 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6

what is it wen im nervious i get sore stomaches and i blow gas throw my back end i hate it and its not nice but i always try to stop it from happening i think it will effect me in later life if i dnt find a way to stop it! but wat would it be called??

2006-12-04 22:51:16 · 5 answers · asked by justaguy m 1

my friend asked me what she should get her bf for xmas, so im asking on here coz idk. They are both 16 ish years old. Whats a good present?

2006-12-04 22:51:15 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6

..well, im planning to see ds girl and i know that i can take her to bed; the problem is, how can i make this nyt a nyt she'll be wanting for always?

2006-12-04 22:48:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met up with this guy i liked for 6 years a few months ago and we saw each other for 2 months and texted all the time he told me he was just out of a long term relationship and didn't want to get into another i feel his relationship ended badly. i told him i couldn't be with him as i feel i am going to end up hurt as i felt he had enough to contend without me adding to his problems as i want a relationsip with him i am mad about him. i pulled away to give him time as i didn't want to be his rebound or his fun while getting over his pass relationship he said his had enough of relationships, he went out with a girl for 8 years in the pass it also ended and i know he took this bad as thats when i first met him it always seems like the wrong timing, does it take time to get over a long relationship. am i doing the right thing i am mad about him should i text now and again or just leave him. please help

2006-12-04 22:46:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known this girl for about a month, we get on really well and there is definately the possibility of something happening between us.

It's her birthday very soon, is it too early for me to buy her a gift, something small like a CD. Or should I stick to a card?

2006-12-04 22:46:03 · 23 answers · asked by Swan 1

2006-12-04 22:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by king of spain 3

Isn’t it unfair that if ever you are the one angry he also gets mad, but if he is the one who is angry, he just feels like making me apologize many times..

2006-12-04 22:40:37 · 15 answers · asked by angel 1

I am 23 and an ad professional, who is looking for a break outside my home state. I am business graduate and network a lot. One of my contacts happens to be a young guy, who was a guest lecturer. In his class, my best friend and me often sat together and he used to often look at her and say " I lucky to have such pretty faces in my class".

I kept in touch with him for professional purposes even after graduation. Now this guy is flirting with me fulltime. The issue is he's 30+, married and has a kid. And im not used to this kind of attention. Is something wrong with him? How do i ask him to back off with out being rude?

2006-12-04 22:40:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He calls me really crappy names too. I'm still in love with him though, its amazing I know. My bffs tell me that he still loves me too and thats why he's treating me this way...if he asks me out again should i take him back? And what can i do about him hitting me?

2006-12-04 22:40:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, heres my dilemma... me and my friend who i work with everyday always have some sort of bet going, he gave me 2 weeks to get laid and as a joke i asked him if he wanted to have sex, i got no answer, but i think he took it seriously, so how do i get out of it and still make myself look good and not look like i flaked out.

2006-12-04 22:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by beanie g 1

i'm fall in luv with my brother's fren and i'm so scared to tell my bro about this. because he is so scary when he mad! a couple days ago, i text messages his fren without told him my real name! wat should i do? should i tell him the truth about myself???

2006-12-04 22:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

it started off at a wedding then the next day we had a couple of sms back and forth so the next day i called but she didnt pick and didnt call back later or even the next day and i really like her and i am sort of stuck not knowing my next move shall i call again or wait ???

2006-12-04 22:30:14 · 21 answers · asked by stranger 1

2006-12-04 22:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by tommy 1