Isn’t it unfair that if ever you are the one angry he also gets mad, but if he is the one who is angry, he just feels like making me apologize many times..
2006-12-04 22:40:37 · 15 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A lot of men do that; get angry because you're angry. It's actually a very good strategey if you think about it. Do it back to him & see how he likes it ;)
2006-12-04 22:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, I KNOW that feeling. I am recently out of a relationship in which I felt I was never allowed to be upset about anything. Every time I had a problem, somehow it was always turned around so that it was my fault I felt that way, but if he had a problem, that was my fault too! Tough place to be... just keep your ground, and don't apologize for things you know you didn't do wrong! If it continues, you might consider whether or not the struggle of this relationship is worth it. Good luck.
2006-12-04 22:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by michymlj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly belive that yolu ar right in the situation, stand by it. Don't EVER feel that you should compromise on what you believe to be true!!!!
Stand true to yourself, if he doesn't measure up, time to re-evaluate your relationship.
Relationships are about understanding each other, not "giving in" because you feel you should.There is a time to let things go and a time to stand firrm. Choose your battles; but din't apologize for how you feel.
Apologize for yelling or whatever, but not for how you feel. He needs to respect how you feel even if you disagree.
2006-12-04 22:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by zkiwi2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem with my fiancee but it's solved now, so my solution to you is real and working,
choose a time when you are both ready to talk openy and also you both should be mind clear, make sure to make him feel goo and at the same time blame him for being that way with you and also tell him that you understand his feeling, convince him to promise to try to explain the problem to you before getting mad.
And you should be nicer, quieter, more forgiving with him, we have that ability and that's how we became moms
Good luck
2006-12-04 22:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 21:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is unfair. He needs to learn things are not always going to go his way. He needs to suck it up and stop being a baby about it.
2006-12-04 22:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not fair ,,but that is whata lot of them do.It''s actually called reversed phscology.Try and not make him gett to you all the time cuz in the end he may just be always using your head
2006-12-04 22:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him make you feel guilty for being mad. If you're mad and have a valid reason to be, then he's a jack*ss for trying to flip it on you like that.
2006-12-04 22:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called double standards
2006-12-04 22:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That mentality of the loudest, meanest one wins. Ughh...I hate that.
2006-12-04 22:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋