2006-12-04 22:58:04 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really think I've ever needed to. Actually that's not entirely true...when my bf and I were at our worst I did say "I'm done with it." I don't know if you can call it "unable to" or not but it's pretty difficult to tell someone goodbye when you really do care about them and someone who has, under every other circumstance, been a strong, calm pillar now looks like you have literally ripped their heart out (yes I know what literally means and yes I literally mean they literally look like they are missing a vital organ and are clinging to life as they look like they are in physical as well as emotional pain), and you are genuinely fearful for their safety. I guess fortunately for myself I can still sorta say I've never needed to because all the problems that lead to that meltdown I am very happy to say have been now absent for almost 6 months now. I guess people (myself included) really can change. I guess I don't say "I'm done with it" much because I like to stick with something and work it out. Capricorn =)
Man, anyone would be lucky to have me.
2006-12-05 05:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did it once with an ex GF but she suffered from schizophrenia and severe mood swings and i really had no choice, it was either do that or go insane myself. It was not so hard because i did not love her but with my fiance Sherry there is no way i could just walk away because i love her so very much and would do everything possible to make it work. Other than relationships then i think i could just walk away no problem in fact i am trying to do it right now regarding my heavy drinking, i have decided i'm done with it.
2006-12-05 18:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by rabcarr12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tremendous patience and can go on forever, but sometimes one has to make a conscious decision and say 'enough' and walk away. My divorce was one of those times.
2006-12-05 14:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation,my husband is mr perfectionest, if he does something it has to be right, me on the other hand,Im a little handicapped so my ideas about perfection is ,it will be there tomorrow, what I cant accomplish today I will do tomorrow, my husband jokes and says tomorrow never comes ldp
2006-12-05 07:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... it took quite awhile... my bf dumped me and i was cut but we remained friends and then he started flirting with one of my friends and i got all jelous and he wasnt 2 happy with me... so i decided that i had to walk away so i said sorry 4 over reacting and i moved on... we are still friends but ive never been jelous again... and im happy 4 him when he has a gf =)
2006-12-05 07:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when I'm absolutely, certainly, possitively sure that i can do no more. and I'm exhausted.....then I'll limp away, looking back all the time to check for signs of change!
2006-12-05 07:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by artistry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess..first bf..after given many chance and he blew it..i just walk away....second hes the biggest temptation i ever had but never see the future in it but have the guts..never contact him ever...
well..it takes lots of courage to do it and never ever look back...
good luck!
2006-12-05 07:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by reena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES......sometimes it is really hard but you will know when it's the best thing for you to do....be firm, think of your health and well being and just do it....good luck
2006-12-05 07:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would be possible but I haven't been able to. at least not yet. I always have that glimmer of hope.
2006-12-05 07:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, do the best that you can, knowing that it's the best that anyone could do, and walk away.
You can only do what you can do.
2006-12-05 07:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋