Hi. I have this problem. I'm working with a really nice guy. He's a real player and a flirt. We've been working in the same building for 3 months now, and traveling home together every day. We always had friendly conversations and he told me privat stuff, but as a friend. But he started flirting with me the other day, about 2 days ago, and now i dont know how to handle it. I'm dating a really nice guy and i like him very much. I think i also like this guy.
What do i do???
2006-12-04 23:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Lizzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all follow your heart but if he's a player ,just get him out of your mind and continue being a co-worker only ,stay with the other nice guy !
2006-12-04 23:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... you could be unfaithful to your boyfriend and hook up w/ the player... or you could tell the player to go find someone else who doesnt care about being respected. If the player is really a player, then that romance won't last very long. Don't let go of your boyfriend, because you might end up w/ nothing but a broken heart.
Personally...i'd tell the player to go find someone else, unless he was truly a nice guy inside.
2006-12-05 07:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by sarahbabe315 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a typical whore, you know what i hate about you girls, the fact that you already have a NICE guy and you are still trying to justify have another relationship and trying to taste the bad guys too, you guys have this evil part of you that hidden inside that tells you to suck as many bad boy c00ck as you can, on the out side you are all good Christian girls but in the inside you are all evil, dose this perhaps answer your question you wh0re. I just wish that this bad boy thing work for you and you break it with the good guy and end up having your heart broken by the bad boy, and loose it all, I just hope,
2006-12-05 07:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Choose one! Do NOT cheat on your current boyfriend!! I'm a guy who has been hurt like that before and I can tell you it's the most painful thing in the world.
If your boyfriend is great than tell this guy upfront that you are taken and to please try not to be flirtatious. If your boyfriend is a looser then dump him first before making a move on your co-worker.
As a side note, I can tell you that dating co-workers is generally not a good idea.
2006-12-05 07:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just said the guy that you work with is a player and a flirt common since would tell you to stay with the guy you are with and leave the guy you work with alone you answered your on question i would think
2006-12-05 07:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by yours truly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the nice guy you have now.
2006-12-05 07:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say that he is flirting with you. you wouldn't want to ruin a good thing so just stay were you are.
2006-12-05 07:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but honest and tell him you like him but you have a bf and you don't want to hurt him so you think you guys should just be friends.
2006-12-05 07:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to flirt with him then go on
or tell your boyfriend about this he will handle it if he loves youy
2006-12-05 07:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by alone l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋