Singles & Dating - 4 December 2006

say you're in a really good relationship. you're both real happy being around each other. you're in your 20's(boy 22, girl 24) and you've got a lot in common and are good for each other, balance each other out and such. You know you'll continue to be happy with each other but you're wondering if you two should move in together. You don't want to complicate things but you've been together long enough that you feel you should take another step getting close towards marriage.Is it better to not live together and then move in together after you're married. how should this work out so everyone stays happy?

2006-12-04 17:10:51 · 7 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1

plissss answersss

2006-12-04 17:10:40 · 10 answers · asked by edgar f 1

I know this girl but I olny see her a little bit in the hall ways and at the bus stop, We say hi and all but I wanna get past just hi.

What should I do?

2006-12-04 17:10:25 · 8 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3

If you thought your bf/gf had a mental illness that wasn't being treated (or was being ignored altogether), how would you convey your concern and suggest they get help? I care A LOT about this girl, we've dated for some time now, but, looking back, I have always known there was something odd about the way we relate to each other. I think I know what is REALLY going on (though she hasn't told me). I do respect her privacy, but I also care for her a lot, so I am torn about what to do. Half of me says to let her come to her own conclusions while the other half instinctively knows she will just continue to blame herself for the disintegration of our relationship b/c of this potential condition and, therefore, am almost willing to let her hate me (for bringing this to her attention) in the hopes that she will eventually agree w/ me (even if she never talks to me again) and get the help she needs. What would you do? We are supposed to get together today.

2006-12-04 17:09:23 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6

Just curious if this even humanly possible

2006-12-04 17:09:00 · 2 answers · asked by Jay S 2

Just to see what alot of people opinions are, I am curious

on a first date,
should you kiss the girl /boy
go to restaurant if so , what kind of food
movies
park
etc.. (favorite destination)
attire
etc.. and anything else you would like to add

2006-12-04 17:08:59 · 5 answers · asked by lambo003 1

2006-12-04 17:07:59 · 29 answers · asked by der1880 1

i realy like going out with my gf, i we are both realy attracted to eachother. i want to take our relationship to the next lvl and have sex but she doesnt she cant decide if she wants to wait till shes married to have sex.just to let you know im 16 she is 15.

2006-12-04 17:07:25 · 8 answers · asked by duaneo 1

Your really cute what does that mean? Ive been call cute by alot of girls in my school and mess around with a few too many. I know what it actually means as in good looking or w/e but to a girl what is cute? What kinda guy fits that description? Also this 1 girl has been driving me crzy. Ive been ditching so many girls and buddies to be with her. She really likes me which I'm sure of but she really dosent know me all to well from what I heard from her own lips when I ask her if she like me. I dunno she has done so much in her life and has so many stories where she has been and the crazy stuff she did there. I never even left my own city or move to a different neighbourhood. I dont know what to say to impress her I party everyday with alot of people which is dumb but fun to me and I really want to impress this girl? She loves to party like me but I want to share more than that in common. She loves the same music as me and a few other thing but how can I build a faster bond between us?

2006-12-04 17:07:09 · 3 answers · asked by bob m 1

2006-12-04 17:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by lolo 1

2006-12-04 17:03:59 · 6 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3

In an internet only online and email relationship what would you REALLY do:

Would you be stupid enough to fall for a gay crap set up which may not be REALLY that person on the other side?

or

Would you trust your instinct and believe that person without REALLY knowing all the truth about them?

or

Would you forgive them for all the lies they tell and start fresh?

2006-12-04 17:03:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy and we are friends, at least we talk to each other. My friends tell me not to be too interested because he is "naughty". He seems really sweet when we talk...is it possible he would not, you know, try to do it with me? We're only 14 and I am so not ready for that til I'm like 20 at least.

2006-12-04 17:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by unoulvme 2

2006-12-04 16:58:28 · 7 answers · asked by tddybrangel55 1

if the guy is a player and dosent take any girl seriosly how do you make him fall in love with you

2006-12-04 16:57:40 · 4 answers · asked by Ad-adriana 2

actually we haven't talked yet... but i think we already broke up.... how come you don't want to receive im or emails?

2006-12-04 16:57:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not really trying to prove a point here and honest answers would be appreciated. I do think some women like it, but I also see a growing distance from it, particularly from the younger women, say under 25. Maybe I've got too much Frank Sinatra and Humphrey Bogart in my blood but I think other men from this school of thought have noticed the same. Maybe it's a good thing the romancing is leaving and the newer approach is better.....you be the judge......both men and women responses are welcomed.

2006-12-04 16:57:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd prefer answers from men over 25, but all answers are welcome. Also, we're Christians, so sexually themed answers won't help me, since we're trying to be good. ;) What are some ways that the woman you love can make you feel special and that you are "the man", so to speak? I want to submit to my boyfriend because I love and trust him and want to make him feel special in little and big ways. Besides the obvious- loving words, sweet cards and gifts, good lovin', what are some small ways that your lady has made you feel super special? What are some things you'd like her to do that would make you feel respected and honored? Thanks in advance!

2006-12-04 16:55:46 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer W 2

I've recently developed a crush on this guy in my class. We've been flirting for a while now, he gives off all the 'signs' and we get along fab. I've heard many different opinions on what guys do when they like you, the most recent being that he won't show any intrest at all unless he likes a girl. He goes out of his way to help me when I ask him too, even if it's inconvienent for him. Last week he came up behind me at put his hand on my arm when he said hello, i just brushed it off as being friendly, was I wrong? I just don't wanna screw this up, so I'm trying to let him know I do like him, with out being too forward. I'm being myself and decided to kinda just go with the flow. But should I take it up a level and say something? Any help would be great.

2006-12-04 16:53:58 · 8 answers · asked by Josslyn G 1

what are some signs that he does or signs its not like that. Guys help would be great.

2006-12-04 16:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by coochie1 2

I am a junior and I'm 16 yrs. old. I had a really big crush on this guy last year when I was a sophomore. We always talked and stuff, since I have known him since my freshman year. I started to like him a lot, but I didn't want him to know about it. But one day, I had band rehearsal and he went into the band room to get his skateboard(since we both have band).I went into the closet room to check my hair and he followed me in there. At first we were just talking, but then he went right up to me and kissed me. Of course I kissed back, then we just started making out. After that, we would always make out. The problem is that we never went out like a couple, which I thought was stupid. At the beginning of this year, he told me he did like me too.That is so stupid. Then he started going out with this freshman girl,which I didn't like that much. I eventually got over him,but this past Tuesday, me and him just started to make out again. I really dont know what to do anymore with him.

2006-12-04 16:53:21 · 7 answers · asked by redcheerry 1

2006-12-04 16:52:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i thought im in love coz, i use to miss him badly cant even wanna go out without him.cant even eat.cant even sleep it seem i fell like to hang myselfe coz i miss him so much i want to be with him always etc.but when i though of marrying and thinks about for the future i dont want him to be mind dont like it . humm...coz he is doing nothink younger then me and also he is not that rich because of that i dont want him for the future but i love him at the moment presently cant live without him /.help me out.

2006-12-04 16:52:01 · 14 answers · asked by babygirl 1

2006-12-04 16:48:44 · 24 answers · asked by sexypunkgrrrl 2

i have been with my girl now for years now and i chated on her 3 of the 4 and she knows. and is not money because she makes more.

2006-12-04 16:47:10 · 18 answers · asked by do dirty 1

What does true love mean to you..?

2006-12-04 16:46:41 · 7 answers · asked by B to the E 1

I forgot some details..

me and my crush both are seniors at high school
I finally decided to make a move..so I asked my crush to a "all day" movie (well its about 3 movie and food)
she said yes
It is near xmas and a week before I saw her all stressed out… so I want to make a day where she can relax…
now she told me she is going to bring some of her "girl" friends along...
does this mean she feel uncomfortable with me and therefore dont like me?

2006-12-04 16:45:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is what i do. I like a girl. Once i figure out girl's interested too, i don't like her anymore. After we've both moved on, i wonder why i stopped liking her. cycle continues with a new girl. happens all the time. strange. Why and how do i fix meself? it would help more if you can relate.

p.s. never been in a serious relationship before.

2006-12-04 16:43:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

thank you. thank you. thank you for helping me. I am almost 16 and have a problem that i smell. Before you state the obvious, know i already use a great antipersperant, and the problem ISN'T that i sweat too much.
Well, I even smell after showering and I use a soap or body wash and this makes me sad :(
What can i do?!?!?! (a pill, new type of antibacterial soap, etc.)
it's hard to go to the doctor because I am embarrased to talk to my parents about this.

2006-12-04 16:42:39 · 9 answers · asked by thank you come again 2

I love my boyfriend but I lust to be in the arms of another man, should I go for it? I just want to try him out!

2006-12-04 16:39:35 · 19 answers · asked by LAKIA G 1