I am a junior and I'm 16 yrs. old. I had a really big crush on this guy last year when I was a sophomore. We always talked and stuff, since I have known him since my freshman year. I started to like him a lot, but I didn't want him to know about it. But one day, I had band rehearsal and he went into the band room to get his skateboard(since we both have band).I went into the closet room to check my hair and he followed me in there. At first we were just talking, but then he went right up to me and kissed me. Of course I kissed back, then we just started making out. After that, we would always make out. The problem is that we never went out like a couple, which I thought was stupid. At the beginning of this year, he told me he did like me too.That is so stupid. Then he started going out with this freshman girl,which I didn't like that much. I eventually got over him,but this past Tuesday, me and him just started to make out again. I really dont know what to do anymore with him.
2006-12-04 16:53:21 · 7 answers · asked by redcheerry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you need to tell him that you don't want to make out with him if it isn't going to be more than that. If he won't make it more than that, then move on. Find a guy who wants values you and wants to be with you. Trust me, i know this from experience. I finally stopped my "adventure" and found another guy who is absolutely amazing.
2006-12-04 16:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, welcome to candid camera, you are officially a friend with benefits! So this guy probably doesn't take you seriously at all...and far as he knows, he's cool to "cheat" and then run back (you kissed him when he "ditched" you last time). You just need to refuse a kiss and when he asks why tell him the fun isn't worth it for he's running off with other women now and then (drama is, well, I can't do expletives on here)...and he's going to have to either step up and get to know you or step back.
And if you do "go out as a couple" just don't do anything nasty like game him about paying for dates/gifts, making you look good in front of your friends, or crying on his shoulder a whole lot (if by any chance that's what you wanted from "going out"). If he's a self-respecting guy under that, he'll just say "I don't do soap operas...doesn't leave me with any time to have fun...It was just good for the loving, I'm better for the next girl and I'm out of here".
But hey, if you're looking for mutual fun & thinking about this guy's fun as much as your own go for it & have a blast!
2006-12-04 17:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by M S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called obsession and you need to get over he guy. In the long run, it's not going to work out, unless you are really into sharing guys. . The first 'no' is the hardest but after that you get used to it. just don't give in everytime he asks you. say no, and walk away. stay away from his a while if you think it'll help. life is no romance story where ppl get swept away by other ppl. you have a will, use it. you're young. try to go out and meet other ppl. not jerks
2006-12-04 17:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still going out with the other girl and making out with you he is a jerk so move on.....if he isn't going out with her anymore and realizes he should have started going out with you then talk about it and see where it goes.
2006-12-04 16:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is going with another girl and only making out with you it sounds like he's in the mood to make out and he's using you to do it because you always make out with him .
find someone who cares about you to make out with you deserve it .
2006-12-04 16:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either stop making out with him or get with him.
2006-12-04 16:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Profanity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him hang. live your own life without him.
2006-12-04 16:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by lovey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋