i have been with my girl now for years now and i chated on her 3 of the 4 and she knows. and is not money because she makes more.
2006-12-04 16:47:10 · 18 answers · asked by do dirty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have cheated on her 3 or 4 times, do you plan on cheating again??? She obviously thinks you will change your ways. She needs to change her way of thinking you will change. I dont mean to be cruel but she seems somewhat forgiving, too forgiving if you ask me. Women stay with cheating men for different reasons. I stayed with mine because I felt I would be doing wrong by my children if I left. You know, the whole... together for the kids routine. That doesnt work in the end and then there is " well, no one else will love me. " Well, he doesnt love you now so why not leave and find someone who will. Then there is the " where will I go??" There is always somewhere to go... better than being with a man like you.
2006-12-04 17:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by texaslady78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
2006-12-04 18:14:09 · answer #2 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously in love with you. And has some distorted idea that you are going to change. And begin to treat her with respect and love her as much as she loves you. She will get tired of it sooner or later. When she grows a self esteem. You are a creep by the way! God bless****
2006-12-04 16:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls stay with cheating guys because she is afraid that she won't get anyone else, she needs companionship etc.
Dont worry, soon she'll wise up and dump your sorry as$ for treating her so badly
2006-12-04 16:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, basically she is probably not aware of her own worth and that she doesn't deserve to be treated like that.
My question to you is, why would you continue to do this to her? Would you like it if she cheated on you? Don't you have any compassion? She just wants to be loved and you treat her with such disrespect. Shame on you.
2006-12-04 16:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you love someone so much you forget to love yourself and in doing so you allow them to degrade you and cheat on you and you have lowered your self esteem so mmuch to you think well at least he's here with me when in reality he's not so i would say lack of self love
2006-12-04 16:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by Fabulous Divaness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easier to stay w/i a familiar situation rather than start all over from scratch. Perhaps she isn't worried cause she is doing the same??
2006-12-04 16:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by layajean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your name says it all, but I guess she loves your dirty drawers enough to risk her own health messing with you, because one day you'll poke the wrong fire and get burned, and so will she! You'd better get right before you can't get any, if you know what I mean!
2006-12-04 16:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Nille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are scared to be alone, for the kids, or think that you are the best they can do.. or that they are the reason you do it.. i my eyes becouse i have been there it is all or above with no self esteam.. if you are cheating leave her and stop hurting her.. it is ok and you both will be happier.
2006-12-04 16:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say it's because of love, but it's also out of fear of being alone. I would have dumped your stupid a*s already. She will eventually if you don't start treating her right.
2006-12-04 16:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by shortcake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋