He calls me really crappy names too. I'm still in love with him though, its amazing I know. My bffs tell me that he still loves me too and thats why he's treating me this way...if he asks me out again should i take him back? And what can i do about him hitting me?
2006-12-04 22:40:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, he doesn't love you because if he did, he wouldn't hit you or call you names, period. secondly, he's only getting away with it becuase you let him and every one else is probably too scared to do anythng either. and thirdly, dont ever take him bak because he would see that as an excuse to carry on with his despicable behaviour. trust me, i should know what i'm talking about as my dad done the same to me and my mother and we left my dad because it wasn't on, it wasn't right. what you're going through with this guy is domestic violence and you don't deserve to be in this position. i know you may not like what i say, but i think you need to hear it. i just hope you have enough confidence and courage to walk away from this creep for good and as for your friends, if they where truly your friends, they would tell you to leave him for good too.
2006-12-04 22:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by tribalgirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the Police and you should get a restrain order. A man should never hit a women, clearly he is neither a gentleman nor a normal person (mentally). He is a psycho, that is abusing, can't you see that? I can understand where you're standing (the fact that you still love him), but what if he goes off one day, your life would be at risk. If he hits you once, he will do it again and again, and the next time he would probably threatening you with a knife or something.
By the way, do not take him back, if he really loves you then he should treat you the way you want to be treated. Name calling is considered as an assaults and I am sure that you do not want to be having all this "crappy" names the rest of your life if you decide to go back with him
2006-12-05 06:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by England_Rules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's hitting you he's a total immature asshole. Wait for him to get out of school sneak up on him and bash his head with a 2x4. There's no excuse for hitting anyone or calling them names. If he thinks this type of behavior is love I'd hate to find out what he thinks hate is. I'm just kidding about the 2x4. But never let anybody hit you, that's disrespectful and abusive.
2006-12-05 06:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't think that any man should ever put his hands on a women or disrespect a women by calling her a name.Also if he is doing this in front of people then he has no remorse for hitting you and that truly he doesn't care for you.Another thing you should stand up for yourself tell him not to do it or hit back don't wait for someone else to help you or let someone know maybe no one has seen it.
2006-12-05 06:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Oompa Loompa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young lady you are in a dangerous situation tell your parents right now and get a restraing order before you get hurt. You can not love someone that hits you. Convince yourself of that too. No excuses EVER for someone to hit you and call you names it just sets you up to be in a really bad place.
2006-12-05 06:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What he is doing is assaulting you and if your so-called friends think this is how you show love they are sadly mistaken. He should be arrested for hitting you. Do not repeat NOT take him back. If he will hit you when you are not going together he will do even worse if you are going together. Please show yourself some respect and report what he has done to school authorities, your parents and if it continues to the police. This boy is dangerous to you.
2006-12-05 06:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on, are you serious? Keep in mind that a man should NEVER hit a woman. Do not, I repeat, do not take him back. He is an a**hole for even raising his hand to you much less actually comitting the act. protect yourself. Get pepper spray or something. You need to set him straight.
2006-12-05 06:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
je sus women r u totally mad??????????????????
sorry to ay this but that guy doesnt desirve any1 let alone u! u totally desirve better and how can u still have feelings for him if he hits u!
heres my moto!!!>>>>> never laugh at the same joke twice, because its never as good as the first time and us had to have broken up for a reason! maybe because he hit u b4!!! be wise think of ur safety what will happen if u end up living together i could see a "broke home" SOrry!
2006-12-05 07:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by justaguy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of those times he hits you may not get up from DUMP him, there are others that would go out with you and treat you a whole lot better, unless you are into this thing of getting knocked around and called names,
2006-12-05 06:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by rich_below 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't listen toy your so called bff.....u should not be looking for him to get in trouble either....leave now, trust it'll only get worse no matter how many times he says he's sorry and it wont happen again.......if your truly in love then you wouldunderstand this is not the best decision in your life....is he an athlete
2006-12-05 06:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋