I've known this girl for about a month, we get on really well and there is definately the possibility of something happening between us.
It's her birthday very soon, is it too early for me to buy her a gift, something small like a CD. Or should I stick to a card?
2006-12-04 22:46:03 · 23 answers · asked by Swan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A CD and nice card would be fine:)
2006-12-04 22:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Don't make the gift too personal, like jewelry or lingerie, but a nice CD of a group you know she likes would be a perfect gift, or a book you know she might want to read, or even a gift card to a store you know she likes. I think that is perfectly acceptable and as a women, I would be touched by it. Of course, you can always buy her a card too!
2006-12-05 06:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by michymlj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I started dating within a month of my birthday. He knew I liked wine. So for my birthday he got me a bottle of my favorite wine and a nice card. The gift was a thoughtful gift but yet not too personal. Very appropiate.
So go ahead and get her that CD or another nice small appropriate gift with a nice card. She will like it. I did!
Good luck!
2006-12-05 06:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, buy her a gift, but stick to something small and thoughtful. Too big too soon just creates unrealistic expectations and sets you up for disappointment down the line. Good luck!
2006-12-05 06:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by adeleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A small gift like a CD sounds really perfect.
2006-12-05 07:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never too early to buy small gifts for someone you like i think!! It'll come across as very thoughtful and i'm guessing that's what you want!!
Good luck x
2006-12-05 07:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by gorgeous_ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at the start of our relationship, my guy bought me a silver chain and not as a birthday present or anything. He just said he thought it would look nice on my pretty neck. I was really flattered and thought 'Oh what a lovely generous, thoughtful guy'.
That was in October .... 1988 and we are still together today and more in love than ever!
2006-12-05 06:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's be very disappointed not to get a gift from you, however small it might be! Imagine, on your tenth wedding anniversary, when she says, 'Remember when it was my birthday after we'd first met, and you didn't get me anything!' A delicious little something is perfectly in order. Good luck!
2006-12-05 06:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she likes, and buy her something that goes with it. It will be thoughtful and considerate. But yes, keep it small. If things work out between you two then there will be plenty time for big presents.
2006-12-05 06:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can give her a card and a gift too. because already u spent one month with each other. so there is no wrong if u give a gift to her. but give her something that she likes. take care
2006-12-05 06:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by karan v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A CD would be fine, as it's not a large amount of money. But a small piece of Silver jewellry might be appreciated more. Silver is reasonably cheap and girls love neclaces or earrings. Good Luck in Love.
2006-12-05 07:09:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋