Singles & Dating - 20 November 2006

Lots of whales, there are loads of crazy-a8ss mad-looking fish in there too, but is that what you want?

2006-11-20 23:09:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

He lives 2.5 hrs away,he does not leave me the cute messages anymore very rarely calls but acts excited to hear my voice.I am only allowed to see him on my weekends off.Which is every other one.I know he is not seeing anyone as of yet.He says I am more advanced in the relationship then he isBUT.Before he bought the house he use to tell me he loved me,he has not said that since he bought the house.He is 49 and I am 51,could he be having a mid-lice crisis?The sex is still AWESOME he acts fine when I am there when I leave this is when he changes to Mr Cold.

Please Help Me I Love This Man
Lost and Confused

2006-11-20 23:07:49 · 4 answers · asked by Ftprintz 2

I like a guy who's 31 this year. I am 21. Do you think our age gap is too wide?

2006-11-20 22:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2

2006-11-20 22:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by hazie 1

is there a certain age gap between 2 people to be classed as a toyboy or is it just a term when a man dates an older woman?

2006-11-20 22:54:27 · 9 answers · asked by tel922001 1

should u love less then?

2006-11-20 22:52:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 22:51:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

did it affect your ego in dateing a future partner?

2006-11-20 22:48:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i loved her very much.she also loved me very much.allthe friends use 2 say that we r made 4r each other.butthey said wrongb'coz ilost her

2006-11-20 22:45:49 · 16 answers · asked by don 1

In the world of relationships, when someone gets treated unfairly by their partner, do you think Karma exists and bad things might happen to these people so they get what they deserve for being unfair?

2006-11-20 22:45:10 · 13 answers · asked by rainbow 1

I hear a lot of women say that them wasting time on bad boys is their lamentable choice and that chasing attractive women & having affairs is men's lamentable choice, and that these tendencies are part of each gender's nature. Men almost never seek out high-maintenance, we sometimes tolerate it for a while because of the woman's hotness.
So rarely do I hear the slightest apology for some women's taste for bad boys, but I hear so much judgement of and venom towards men for following their natural tendencies.
I would also disagree with the initial premise. I think it is far more all men's nature to seek the most attractive mate they can. As opposed to women's seeking of bad boys being more short lived and more likely with young women & women with low self esteem. And as for the cheating by men, it's far too overlooked that so often the man finally decided to cheat.......not just because he wants variety, but because his woman is being a beeeach.

2006-11-20 22:45:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its been two months since our split. His made it clear no reconciliation and I even of last week felt like a reformed women – going to gym, nails hair all in check looking after myself. … at night whilst in bed I pray that we reconcile. I even cry sad slow tears as I remember the good days although I know he was very nasty to me during the whole brake up. But I don’t know why im so low some times and on a high on others. I actually think my mental health is being effected and im going a little loopy over the whole thing. What do you think? I even come on yahoo answers as I feel I have no other to talk to unless and being judged. My family- sweet n bless them ask me everyday if his called. My best mate even states you still have him – what how is that then! I just feel so alone n trapped. I feel the high days are an act without me even knowing am putting up a front of everyone around me.

2006-11-20 22:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by apple 1

Its okay that he dont love me as much as i love him but i dont feel any love from him.Is there anything i can do to make him love me. He always said that he love me but he cant give the only thing i ask from him.Time... Im always last in his priority. Gosh this feeling is killing me.. Help please...

2006-11-20 22:39:56 · 11 answers · asked by anne 3

A very simple question yet can have very complex answers.....

2006-11-20 22:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by Software_pro 2

2006-11-20 22:37:51 · 7 answers · asked by debbie d 1

Well thats what I do by the side in Geneva.

2006-11-20 22:37:04 · 16 answers · asked by shaggy 1

What is the nicest way to turn a guy down your not into without hurting their self-esteem or seeming like a *****?

2006-11-20 22:34:10 · 11 answers · asked by smoksta_ko 1

i luv this guy alot.. i wish he was more understanding.. he is soo possessive that he wanted me to stop talking to my very old childhood friend (nearly 10 years of friendship )of mine... we had an huge argument on this and he finally asked me to choose one.. i felt what he was asking for was meaningless.. and is not able to understand a simple thing.. he said words like "you r spoiling mu life" ... i just luved him and was waiting for him from one year rejecting all the marriage proposals which my parents bring me.. and this is what i heard from him as a result.. well we finally desided to breakup... but i luv him like anything.. and its been 4 days i din't talk to him.. but i'm waiting for him call 24/7... i miss him alot... many times i felt like calling him but i remember the words which he said and stop myself..

HOW DO I OVERCOME THIS... kindly suggest...

2006-11-20 22:19:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always take him for granted and I would like to do something which doesnt involve money really, I have done the usual like cook for him I was just thinking of any ideas really! Bearing in mind its cold out! Also, what can I buy for his dad for Christmas! Thanks

2006-11-20 22:17:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Cuffed To The Bed...

If Your Wondering... Its When Ya Go To Fart But Shyte Comes Out Instead.

2006-11-20 22:13:34 · 20 answers · asked by Romeo 2

where would you go...why and who would you take with you???

just dreaming here...lol...;0)

2006-11-20 22:04:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

He can be quite talkative and flirty with other female colleagues, but he seems to act abit uptight towards me which makes me feel like a weirdo. He can be shy at times because when i talk to someone near him, he will immediately mellow or mumble something else to the person he is talking to.
He is a fun-loving guy. Thus, how do i know if he is interested in me too? I know this question is flooding the whole yahoo! Q&A , but can anyone pls advise?

2006-11-20 22:02:07 · 3 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2

when, in your opinion, are people ready to settle down?

2006-11-20 21:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

I had concerns about my car and I asked the mechnic if it would fail on the road and his reply was that "I''d even have my own mother drive it"

Was he being flirty? Why use his mother as an example?

2006-11-20 21:58:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We met when I was 20yrs old. We were together for 12 years, engaged the last 2 years. And in those two last years he cheated on me twice. The first time he cheated, he said he was sorry and that he loved me and would like to still make things work out for us. And well I forgave him but my heart was wounded and my trust in him was gone. I was still in love with him and me myself did not want to loose him. I think the problem was that I loved him more than I loved myself. Anyways since the trust was gone, next thing I know I was all double 007 on his ***. Cheking his cell phone when he was sleeping and checking his computer his wallet, etc. Well I found out of his myspace account. I managed to get his password and hells no, the *** was using the site to hook up with girls. Well to make a long story short, HE left me for someone he met through myspace. He wanted nothing to do with me anymore and 7months later Im still hurt. He didn't ask for the ring back. But should I just give it back?

2006-11-20 21:58:30 · 13 answers · asked by SANDRA H 1

what would you do if you had a guy who from the beginning, i knew he didnt trust me but he promised he would try to change and i thought he did.
then recently he went out and got another e mail address just to see if i was honest . i talked to the guy ( him ) coz he told me he knew my brother so thats how the conversation started then, he asked me if i knew this other dude and i said yeah so therewas no raw deal there.
today morning he sends me mail telling me how unfaithful i have been he knew i was cheatn on him and i cant do anything to change his mind.i guess what made him mad is that i talked to the other guy and maybe he dnt want that but now he doesnt wanna listen to me.
whats worse is that he's in india and i aint.
what do i do coz i fell in love with him but i guess he doesnt believe me right now

2006-11-20 21:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by valery p 2

nearly Christmas now every body get ready for Christmasgo out with family or one love and happy with song. my family is quite big but i feel very lonely every day. i don't know when i go out and see the lot pretty light i will happy or not. every thing look far for me,even my love is faraway. alot of people ask me what i like to have for Christmas presents but i said i don't want any thing i just only wish, wish him to come back where he was with me i know is impossible to be true. the nice sky with the stars, the sky look gold but my life is look dark i don't even see any thing in the future, i don't know where i gonna stand.Chistmas last year so beautiful and ful with love.
On Christmas this year i wish him to come back to me i don't want any thing else only this wished

2006-11-20 21:47:25 · 8 answers · asked by 2Q 3

I'm in a long-distance relationship and my boyfriend, who can be categorized as healthy jealous, is trying to convince me that I shouldn't wear many of my sexy clothes because I'm alone in a new city. He says it's up to me to decide but he's just letting me know that he's uncomfortable with it knowing that I'll be getting all these looks and people will be hitting on me. I keep telling him that clothes have nothing to do with that and he shouldn't worry, but he isn't convinced. And although he leaves it up to me, but I know he's upset over it. I just don't want him to be upset over a silly thing like this, at the same time I don't wanna feel tied up and I'm worried he'll have the habit of doing the same thing when he's around... HELP!!! What do you think I should do?!

2006-11-20 21:45:47 · 9 answers · asked by JustAGirl 1

I am not ugly, i am not boring, just totally underestimated by everyone around me. It's like the girls I want to be with I can't because they don't take me serious. I have high expectations in myself, and try not to expect to much from women, but still I have nobody. I think what hurts the most is that the girls i used to like, the girls that blew me away aren't around for me anymore. I've blown off pleanty of women in my day because they weren't as beautiful as the what i've had in the past. It's like God is punishing me. I feel like the enemy. I guess i'll appreciate women alot more the next time i finally meet someone, but other than looking brightly in the future i feel horrible. It's like knowing the answer but not getting called on because of past drama. I'm going crazy if someone has something to help me make it through this please help. I don't go to school anymore all i do is work for things i don't enjoy. How can life be so misserable for me??????

2006-11-20 21:42:42 · 13 answers · asked by secretsofthe end 2

love is meant for only what....

2006-11-20 21:42:42 · 12 answers · asked by unleashedmeer 2