I am not ugly, i am not boring, just totally underestimated by everyone around me. It's like the girls I want to be with I can't because they don't take me serious. I have high expectations in myself, and try not to expect to much from women, but still I have nobody. I think what hurts the most is that the girls i used to like, the girls that blew me away aren't around for me anymore. I've blown off pleanty of women in my day because they weren't as beautiful as the what i've had in the past. It's like God is punishing me. I feel like the enemy. I guess i'll appreciate women alot more the next time i finally meet someone, but other than looking brightly in the future i feel horrible. It's like knowing the answer but not getting called on because of past drama. I'm going crazy if someone has something to help me make it through this please help. I don't go to school anymore all i do is work for things i don't enjoy. How can life be so misserable for me??????
2006-11-20 21:42:42 · 13 answers · asked by secretsofthe end 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may be a hard thing for you right at this moment but it must be said. Put God first. Everything that is available in this world that you find good came from God and you will find in him.Seek first the kingdom of God and then these things will be added to you.This is very hard for someone with a broken heart I know but it is an absolute truth. God wants your attention and anything that comes between you and God will be taken away. God is sufficient for all of your needs. Now do not hear what I am not saying God wants you to be happy and God is aware of your needs even before you ask. He also knows what is good for you. it is necessary to trust him and seek him and put him first and he will lead you in the direction you should go. Continue to pray and understand God has purpose for you be patient and trust him. Trust God he is not punishing you. He knows your needs and he is there for you.
2006-11-20 22:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by djmantx 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
((())) Everything will be fine. Sounds like you used to be a jerk, my friend. Now stop looking desperate, and forget about landing 'the one'. Go out and join some sports thing that you enjoy, do other stuff that you enjoy that gets you mingling with people, (I don't particularily care for the bar scene way too much expectations there) usually something that will keep your mind occupied is best. This is great for lots of reasons, first exercise, (sports) then it should get your mind off of all this dating stuff, next you will meet new people. Slowly you will transform into another person and one fine day without even trying, you'll meet her.
2006-11-20 21:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes and just go for www.fling.com is the best way to survive the death time. You can feel good about yourself, have no obligation and be happy something nice is around you.
If you're in good mood and think positively, you see the better world around yourself - and boom you got the right one just behind the corner walking on you.
2006-11-20 21:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life has its dark periods. Channel your energy into something personal, provide for yourself, and wait for someone to appreciate the result.
2006-11-20 21:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by lair_dweller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a life for yourself, you must be happy with yourself, before you can make someone else happy. do things, and stay so busy you don't have time to get lonely. Happiness like anything else , you have to work at, it doesn't just come to you
2006-11-20 22:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to realize women arent games you score with but treasures and you feel lonely because you need someone to love go find a church group, worked for me during that period keep loving god and he'll eventually give you "the one"
2006-11-20 21:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by A.F.J.D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mebbe you're tryin too hard. Relax and realise that when the time is ripe, she will appear. In the meantime, pay for sex...
2006-11-20 21:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by thrag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Jesus.... Try reading the Bible... Worked for me...
he definately takes care of everything....
take this advice seriously
2006-11-20 21:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by richard k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all feel that way at one point in time there is nothing youcan do to make yourself feel better, but stop looking you will meet someone when you relax.
2006-11-20 21:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as plenty soreness as i'm in,,,i enjoyed it yet my soreness is worse in my abdomen: yet skycat i think of the real tale is "God made Adam first" scratched his head and suggested "i'm able to achieve this plenty greater effective than this "then he made "eve" so there=)
2016-10-04 05:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋