Singles & Dating - 20 November 2006

I have been seeing this guy for 3 weeks now. Everything was perfect. Great chemistry, affection, tons in common, we laugh alot and then all of a sudden he gets scared. He tells me the last woman everything was perfect with, up and left him for no reason. He says he wants to take it slower and maybe he is not good enough for me etc. I told him no problem, I would take it at his speed, that I cared for him very much and would rather take it slow than lose him. My question is now how do I act and what is the best things to do to ease his fear and have him want to make that commitment. Serious answers only please, I have never dealt with this situation before. Thanks in advance for your help.

2006-11-20 01:09:55 · 14 answers · asked by Amber 6

2006-11-20 01:09:40 · 16 answers · asked by rebel_hottie 1

How was your weekend? Mine was great! My aunt went out of town and I watched her house for her all weekend. I also watched her 150 lb. dog, Damien!! He's a bull mastiff, he's huge!! Well anyways let me know how your weekend went!!! 10 points to the most outrageous!!

2006-11-20 01:08:51 · 12 answers · asked by Amber R 4

that they miss having someone to sleep with right?

2006-11-20 01:08:28 · 11 answers · asked by deeperthensix 1

I am about 30 lbs overweight, with all of it being right in the gut. What can I say, I like my beer! And plus when I'm bored I tend to eat more as well. What do you think--should I say goodbye to the spare tire, or should I keep it around?

2006-11-20 01:07:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's been wanting me to have a threesome with one of his best friends ( a guy) for quite some time. When I told him that I was having my time of the month, he said that he wanted his friend to go first (cuz he's had one b4) and then he will some in. What do you think of the situation?

2006-11-20 01:06:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 01:05:28 · 4 answers · asked by Lucie 1

I hate the feeling of not seeing him. we txt and talk on the phone throughout every day but i really hate not having him with me. what can i do to get over this feeling, im tempted to go to his every night after work but dont want to over crowd him. Help!

2006-11-20 01:03:10 · 10 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5

I was at the store yesterday and this guy wouldn't quit looking at me. What does that mean?

2006-11-20 01:02:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine smells like a chocolate starfish.

2006-11-20 01:01:56 · 15 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1

2006-11-20 00:53:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

eye. That way I can stop thinking of someone I am not supposed to think about!!

2006-11-20 00:53:11 · 15 answers · asked by Collared 4

Hey..!! Ok met this gal, 1st date we had was kind off a blind date...was really good. 2nd date we went out for a night out on the town, on friday.. the next date i want to do sumfing that doesnt involve drinking/getting p*ssed... So i have just asked her to come with me to a aquarium next weekend to look at fish and stuff !!! is this a good date idea, or would you want sumfin abit more ???

Ta

2006-11-20 00:52:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is it with me and bad relationships? Is it me or the guys I date? And there is this one guy that really does love me but lives far away and I keep hurting him for jurks here but when they hurt me he always does something to get me back. I think that I really did it this time tho what would you want me to do to tell you I was truly sorry? Sorry this is three questions.

2006-11-20 00:52:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with someone for 3months and he makes me happy.....ish. But, he is in the army and rarely makes contact with me...partly because he cant and sometimes, i believe, through choice. Recently, I have got to kno another guy and he really is lovely. I have no idea if he feels anywher near how I do, but I really really care for him. I hope this doesn't make me sound evil, but I juts don't know what to do. Please help!!

2006-11-20 00:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by Miss F 1

2006-11-20 00:50:36 · 15 answers · asked by shelda b 1

2006-11-20 00:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by k2_amol 1

do you hurt when you broken heart from someone if you love her/him very much not only fancy because fancy and love does not mean same , fancy only want to sleep with have sex or something else. love is give every thing to some one you r loving and want to close forever so i do. i hurt very much i cried i don't know what to do

2006-11-20 00:49:04 · 7 answers · asked by 2Q 3

2006-11-20 00:47:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, ive recently got into a relationship with a girl. we are loving it and except, on myspace she is quite popular, and she says she luvs me and stuff and we meet all the time and things, but on myspace she get alot of attention from guys.. she has alot of guy friends on there and she says to them that she loves them and stuff. if i confront her with this, she'll get angry and i DONT wanna do that. i was hopeing, someone could give me a list of things that i could put in my blog of "what makes a guy feel bad" and then answers like "when the girl u love flirts with other guys" and so on.. i hope someone understands what i mean, and ill put it in my myspace blog and say i found it on the net in there. and i'll just say i sposted it cuz i thought it was good. or something :S please.. anyone got anything? ive looked everywhere.. nothing.

2006-11-20 00:47:29 · 6 answers · asked by Jack 1

i really really like this guy.. for like 3 years now. and at some point, i'm pretty sure he liked me too. we started out as friends, talking at parties and such... but a few years have gone by now and i only see him in the halls. he'll focus on me in the crowd, and is extra quiet around me. and if we ever talk, he'll look at my lips. (my friends tell me all this- before they even knew i liked him) he's really shy and according to my friends, doesn't treat anyone like he treats me. anyway, i was wondering how i could get him to loosen up around me without actually asking him out. (that would be awkward since i haven't talked to him for so long). also, do you think he likes me?

2006-11-20 00:46:34 · 7 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4

Okay , heres The Deal . Me And This Guy Have Known Each Other Our Whole Lifes. He Used TO Baby Sit Me . Well A Couple Months Ago. We ( Me And my Dad ) Went To His House because His Mom And My Dad Are Best Friends . They Went To A Lake . And It Was Just Me and Him and we really flirted alot. So I Kinda Formed a crush on him. We Have Talked On The Internet/I.M Every Night And I Really Really Like Him And I told him i was Like I like You And He Was Like Well You Worry To Much About If I Like You And Everything Just Go With The Flow And I Was Like Okay Okay And Like He Has A Girl Wanting Him And There Was A Comment On Myspace That He Kinda liked her and they go to the same school . And We Really can talk about anything. I Just Came To The Conclusion That He Thinks Of Me As A Friend or Like A Lil Sister Cause Hes 17 And Im 14 And My Dad Really Likes Him. And I Mean So I Just Came To The Decision To Just Stay Away From him . And Just Try To Forget It Should IHave Done That ? Or No ??

2006-11-20 00:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by untouchedangel06 2

My ex and I have been on and off for 6 years (long distance 9000Kms apart). I left him for someone else and then we got back together and I kissed someone else again after cuz i didnt want to go back into this. I think i was in love but I do everything to end things and hurt him..he is super insecure now and recently we went back together for one night and upon my return he hacked into my email to find about another person I had kissed WHILE we were broken up and threathend to kill me if i ever came in front of his eyes. I cant believe what an invasion of privacy that was and not to mention it was him who obsessivly tried to get in touch with me when I was in his city. We loved each other so much but there were too many deceptions from my end for him..I have a different lifestyle and kissing isnt a crime for me when we are not together but for him its apparently worth killing! I dont understand why I am feeling sad instead of being happy this is over for good this time!

2006-11-20 00:44:45 · 2 answers · asked by Curious George 2

I am dating this girl and we have been dating for six months. I have broken up once because of bordom. I am now back together with her but still bored. I got back together with her to see if it would just pass, but it didn't. What should I do?

2006-11-20 00:43:31 · 12 answers · asked by Slider 3

2006-11-20 00:42:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a girlfriend i just started talking to, almost a week, but everytime were on the phone she always wants to have phone s*x, maybe this is all she wants,can someone explain

2006-11-20 00:41:13 · 15 answers · asked by Tyronne M 1

i met my ex bf 4 years ago,after a relationship of 3 months we broke up.
Last year we met up again after 3 years,nothing happened and we both regretted. last month i visited him again and we had sex. it seemed like he loved me again. but when i came home he was totally different than he was when i was in england with him.
he said he never loves a girl because no one has ever earnt it off him yet!
and cricket goes before any girl.
he was jealous when i talked with a friend of him,he told me he was thinking of me when he had sex with another girl but if i dont mean anyhting to him then why did he think of me and why was he jealous. is it because he is afraid because of the distance between us? I really dont know what to think this time!
its so hard because i dont want to lose him as my friend,not again!!!

2006-11-20 00:40:24 · 10 answers · asked by charlie 1

Ok Broads, the shirt said "Women want an honest guy, "Yes, You're Fat", if that pissed you off, then I'm too honest for you".

http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-Nr4iWwE.f6MWSl0AAmWri2pV9rCIp6CCpNR3?p=2

2006-11-20 00:39:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do i have to say to get inside girls,what do i have to say...!?

2006-11-20 00:38:58 · 6 answers · asked by The Love! 1

I've been dating a lovely guy for over a month now. I lied about my surname because i hate it so much so i said another name. I realised after that he probably knows my real name because we both work in same building and my name would have been in the sign in book. I feel so stupid now and he mentioned it today. Will he think i'm a liar?i told him it's because i hate it so much.

2006-11-20 00:35:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous