I am dating this girl and we have been dating for six months. I have broken up once because of bordom. I am now back together with her but still bored. I got back together with her to see if it would just pass, but it didn't. What should I do?
2006-11-20 00:43:31 · 12 answers · asked by Slider 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to spice things up by being spontaneous, but if you honestly don't start to feel something then its time to move on. A relationship can't work if you're bored with the person, and if you are still bored after trying to be spontaneous then you should let her knoe because it wouldn't be fair to either one of you to stay in a boring relationship.
2006-11-20 00:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by homeiggyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first of all you have to see whether you feel something for this girl or not. If you feel something and is willing to build up the relationship between you two, you have to see what is making you so much bored with her and what are you seeking in your relationship so that you don't get bored. But then if you can't find the solution for these questions then break up and tell her to move on and you move on too and find someone else that will make you less bored.
2006-11-20 08:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though it will hurt her you may just have to let her go. i mean yeah it will hurt her feelings but you need to do what makes you happy. it is not like you and her can not be friends or something like that right. i am sure she will be in pain but you know what you and her will soon move on to people that make you happy.
but be careful what ever you do because once you make a move it will be to late and she may not take you back.
than again it may just be riding out through a hard time in the relationship or just waiting till it passes.
i say give it another week or two and see what happens
best wishes
2006-11-20 08:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by cool cat2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are young and have no strings, move on. Life is too short to be bored in a relationship. If you are past your teens, she isn't going to get better looking, more exciting or really change much for the better, so don't expect her to change for you. Best of luck!
2006-11-20 08:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by knowledgeisgood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now. You are both wasting eachother's time. If there are no sparks flying in the relationship then there is no point in forcing it to work. You should let her go so that she can find someone who wont be bored with her, and you can do the same.
2006-11-20 08:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by LaLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple. you dont love her. so, stop coming back to her. dont try harder or it will not work. The reason for loving is to be happy. Boredom should not exist in a relationship even it takes years. It takes two to tango. If only you feels that way, then you had problem with your confidence. You dont know where you stand. get out of confusement.
2006-11-20 08:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by REBEL SAINT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with a girl that bores you. Gees there are millions of girls out there find one that you can have fun with. LIFE IS TO SHORT. Is the real problem your lack of confidence?
2006-11-20 08:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think first of all you need to convince your mind that she is not a boring kinda girl, problem is you have convinced yourself that she is boring unless you do not love her or are jst pretending then the best way is for you to get out of that relationship!
2006-11-20 08:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by sam Blazer"king handsome&qu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. No sense in keeping her around if you're bored with her, you can both be with someone who will make each of you happy...It's selfish to keep her.
2006-11-20 08:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Evan is due May 18th! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect her and her wishes, And just wait like she asked you to do. Instead of trying to force here into a negative situation by breaking up with her................................. You have someone that is always at your side, you know that you will never be lonely. And you have someone to share your thought with, and you have all of that but you are bored............ Please take that bull crap elsewhere................................................
2006-11-20 08:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋