2006-11-20 00:53:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well..he's my first bf and on our previous experiences on kissing we went really too far..like petting and even humping..maybe because we missed each other a lot..but after that..i really regreated it..because it doesnt go with my beliefs...and i am very afraid if it would get too far..like having sex..both of us dont have the control..we're too young..pls help...
2006-11-20 00:59:16 · update #1
Well everyone needs to learn how to have self control with themselves and we all need to practice self control b/c i know how you feel b/c i was in the same situation last year and i finally had to learn how to say no to what im feeling and just relax and tell myself everything will come at the right moment. when im ready to have sex with my bf i will not when he's ready for me to have sex. so you need to practice some self control and know that almost everything comes with a consequence. i hope i helped you out an good luck..
2006-11-20 01:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by heatherstike2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all before you go totally out of control as is sex, you should make sure that you love him and then you shoudlthink about whether you are going to make a commitment with him. There are too many STD's out there to just have casual sex anymore. I'm not saying it's wrong but you should think this through before going all the way.
2006-11-20 01:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by tdbeaargirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean you've lost your ability to get him to do what you want, then he might have taken it away because you "gave in" Well, this guy sounds like he's there for sex, and not a serious relationship.
DUMP HIM!
2006-11-20 00:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Danny G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and how is it against your belief. in all things exercise self control. geniune love does not behave indecently. dont fall prey to the devil. always have the spirit to say no and mean it. exercise SELF CONTROL i know its not easy but just try
2006-11-20 01:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by lose control and if you are old enough to "lose control"
2006-11-20 00:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by lose control? We need to know a little more!
2006-11-20 00:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation
2006-11-20 01:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by pawan c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either dont kiss him or do him-one of 2 options
2006-11-20 01:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuhhh well hmmm !..... ok well i guess you could just tell him how you feel and then explain that even though ur happy to see him you just want to settle down and take it slow
2006-11-20 01:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indeed it is. You are suppose to act with restraint, at all times.
2006-11-20 00:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋