Its been two months since our split. His made it clear no reconciliation and I even of last week felt like a reformed women – going to gym, nails hair all in check looking after myself. … at night whilst in bed I pray that we reconcile. I even cry sad slow tears as I remember the good days although I know he was very nasty to me during the whole brake up. But I don’t know why im so low some times and on a high on others. I actually think my mental health is being effected and im going a little loopy over the whole thing. What do you think? I even come on yahoo answers as I feel I have no other to talk to unless and being judged. My family- sweet n bless them ask me everyday if his called. My best mate even states you still have him – what how is that then! I just feel so alone n trapped. I feel the high days are an act without me even knowing am putting up a front of everyone around me.
2006-11-20 22:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in your same boat a few months ago after my break up. The problem is that when you go to sleep you are alone and are not being kept busy with the work and other things you do during the day. And usually it was that time that you and your ex used to meet. to overcome this problem, don't keep on thinking on the good things you have done together and don't thing on his good qualities he had but keep on thinking on his bad qualities such as bad habits he had, you said he treated you nasty, think on those too and things like that. Good luck.
2006-11-20 22:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thisis normal. You are not the only woman out there who has had a broken heart. All of us have at one time or another. Time will bring healing. Prayer is also a great help. You may not be ready to date again, but that day will come and you will forget all about how sad you were in the first place. This sadness will then be a thing of the past. Just take one day at a time and do things that make you happy. Try not to be alone all the time, and maybe even join a support group. God Bless
2006-11-20 22:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over your self gurl, you dont need a lousy guy to make you feel happy, go get a pet or sometin.
2006-11-20 22:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋