what would you do if you had a guy who from the beginning, i knew he didnt trust me but he promised he would try to change and i thought he did.
then recently he went out and got another e mail address just to see if i was honest . i talked to the guy ( him ) coz he told me he knew my brother so thats how the conversation started then, he asked me if i knew this other dude and i said yeah so therewas no raw deal there.
today morning he sends me mail telling me how unfaithful i have been he knew i was cheatn on him and i cant do anything to change his mind.i guess what made him mad is that i talked to the other guy and maybe he dnt want that but now he doesnt wanna listen to me.
whats worse is that he's in india and i aint.
what do i do coz i fell in love with him but i guess he doesnt believe me right now
2006-11-20 21:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by valery p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In form him matter-of-factly that without trust, he Will die a lonely man. Inquire where this lack of trust emanates from, was there some kind of betrayal in his past?
Some people use that attitude as a manipulation tool: they're victims of some kind of conditional love, so in turn, try to put conditions on their relationships.
Beware, unless, of course, you too enjoy conditional relationships...
2006-11-20 21:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by thrag 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy wants a woman who will never ever talk to another male if he is not there that may be fine in his country and culture but unless you are willing to completely change and become totally under his rule (like doing what he says when he says, not talking to anyone without him being there, probably wearing and eating only what he says when he says) then this relationship can go nowhere and will only end in your total misery.
2006-11-20 21:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him. he's an *** to not trust you. i mean just because you talk to some other guy that doesn't mean that you have a relationship with him already. but if you want to continue having a relationship with him then you should probably just isolate yourself. aside from that, why would he use another e-mail add ? and long distance relationships are usually screwed anyway. you probably just shouldn't let this get to you.
2006-11-20 21:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by animegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its verry unfair that he is testing you by falling to such difgraceful levels !! its verry sick how he treats you ! tell him that you will have to have conversations with other men in work place and he claimed to know your brother so y would you blow him off??
tell him all this
tc
2006-11-20 22:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋