Singles & Dating - 20 November 2006

Having sex before marriage or waiting until marriage?
I need answers by your real idea, leave your local traditions.

2006-11-20 20:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by HOTTürk 4

Though it hurts, I broke up wd him bcz havng a gf is his last priority. He told it to me himself. But he cud let me go as hs gf but not as a frnd cz I was hs only bestfrnd.

So bcz I cnt let go, I decided to give this friendship thing a try. For a while, it worked. We shared stories of our succeeding relationshps which neither lasted long. Sometimes, we still went to gatherings together, joked together and laugh together. Whn he cried for his brokenheart, I was d one he called.

What I stl felt for hm was nvr a secret to hm. But he continued to blurt out hs love problems to me & I continued to listen though it hurts a lot.

He still made effortsto surprise me at my birthdays & he still invites me whnver hs family is havng a get-together.

My friends told me we're jst fooling ourselves cz he stl loves me bt I cn feel he doesnt & I knew hm well.

Does it mean I'm just a special girl for him because of our past or do you really think he still loves me?

2006-11-20 20:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by ahnnah.reynoso 2

When we first got together i thought i was blessed with the best looking guy in the world but over time (over two years) his looks really changed..he dont have that baby face anymore that i used to love and he grew his hair out and got braids. Some times he just looks weird and it doesnt help that he's a goofy person that likes to make weird looking faces at me to make me laugh and it just disgusts me...dont get me wrong sometimes he have good days but most of the time im not attracted by him. And i cannot get turned on by him anymore..im a germaphobic and i can smell anything and i hate the way his breath smells and he always tends to have this scent on his lower area that i smell when were laying near each other...even after he showers or even washes his clothes..i hate to say it but last month i finally had my first orgasm with him (but it was orally) but never with intercourse. So the only time i get turned on is when he talks about eating me out..i love him but idk what to do.....

2006-11-20 20:28:44 · 25 answers · asked by Sweetheart88 5

i am seriously jobless and my husband makes about 100 dollars a week working at safeway and i have almost 6 years exsperiance being a live in nanny and now i have to be a live out nanny because i am married recently and cant find a job, i have elderly care exsperiance, and nanny and babysitting exsperiance and newborn exsperiance does anyone know what i can do? i tried doing the work from home thing online and in the end they want my credit card and stuff an di dont even have a bank account what should i do? im broke really need money to help support my husband and our new 2 bedroom apartment? im very upset and struggling can anyone help please? e-mail me at amandaelllen1985@aim.com

2006-11-20 20:27:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is about 60 lbs overweight, has ALOT of body hair, and eats a poor diet of diet soda, alot of pork & fast foods. He doesn't eat fruits/veggies/fish either. He only showers for 4 min/nite (I've timed him) & I don't think it's enough, since he has acne on his back (w/ back hair, yuck!). He smells like the nasty stuff you find behind your ears when you haven't washed your hair for a few days, except all over. His sheets, blankets & pillows all retain the stink &I can't stand it!!! I've changed his shampoo, body soap and cut his hair short and he still smells bad. I've tried to find a nice cologne/after shave for him but he refuses to wear it. He actually got angry with me when I tried to tactfully suggest he wear something!

I mean, even his skin tastes bad when he kisses me - sort of rancid and acidy. Could be some illness which is causing this? How do I tell him I can't stand his smell (he didn't always smell so bad - we're together a lot of years).

Thanks for any help.

2006-11-20 20:23:19 · 20 answers · asked by Frustrated 1

2006-11-20 20:19:45 · 25 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2

You better hurry, I have some big lungs.......LOL

2006-11-20 20:19:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

for the sake of this il give the people involved differnt names...
Jonah (the girl)
Stephen
Bob
me
ive known Jonah for 10 years, She is like my best :girl" friend and

Bob and Jonah were going out..... I was the one who got them together because Jonah was crying about Bob and Bob being one of my good friends told me he really liked jonah.. and i told her that when she was crying on my shoulder. They got together..

while they were together she fell for one of my other best mates Steve... Her And Steve were like closer then her and Bob for about 3 months... She broke up with bob and now she is "unofficially" going out with Steve.. All steves friends are pissed off at him except for me....
now she has told me she still might have feelings for bob.... steve has lost nearly all his friends coz of her.....
now to add my predicament.. i love her... so much that ive seen her with so many guyz... but she will never look at me that way... she tells me everything and i dont know what to do.

2006-11-20 20:19:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

they say that when you meet "the one" you can tell it. i just wonder if this is true. I met someone and within days we felt like we had been in love for years and a few weeks later we even feel marriage in our bones. am a 27 year old woman and have been infatuated before so i can tell this is different. could it be real or just a dream?

2006-11-20 20:18:40 · 13 answers · asked by cherie 1

I love him so much but I didn't feel appreciated enough as we would get together only when he wanted to or when he wants to have sex or when am taking him out. He told me he loved me just before I split with him and that makes me wonder whether I did the right thing coz he's gone quiet on me. I miss him and I don't know how to tell him without sounding desperate and confused

2006-11-20 20:18:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sly cat 1

I just want to make a survey on the members .

2006-11-20 20:17:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been friends with a guy for 3 years. When he gets drunk he starts telling me how much he cares about me and about our future. I don't really understand cause he doesn't say anything like that when he is sober. I don't think he is really trying to get in my pants cause I am not going to have sex without a relationship, I make no effort but he still calls me. Is he lieing to me when he tells me how much I care or is just to scared to tell me the truth when he is sober.

2006-11-20 20:13:48 · 23 answers · asked by Angela 1

I used to have feelings for a friend, our friendship started to fade when he knew about it. After almost a year i have moved on and have a bf.A girl who is my friend has been telling me bad things that my ex-friend said about me, i confided in her and told her how hurt i was, she told me things that even now hurt me, i could'nt help to cry everytime, i started to feel really angry,i confronted him, he lashed against her calling her a gossip. in return she justified herself by telling him that she told me all so that i would finally get over him, she also told him about all the times a cryied for him, i didnt want him to know that, i feel betrayed by her because i dont see why she needs to give me away so that he wont think she is a gossip, he has proved not to be our friend, now he thinks i am still hung up on him she made it sound like my life was a wreck without him. am i in the right here? did she have a reason to tell him about all the crap i went through?

2006-11-20 20:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by saminita 1

I met a man 6 months ago.He is the owner of the bar we are going and he is expert in PR.All women run after him.He knows what women want.When we met he started talking me like the other women but when he realised that i'm not a "tart" like the others he started looking me in other way. I can tell that of all women in the bar he is more serious with me and when i'm not going in the bar for a week calls me because he misses me and because he thinks i found a bf.And last Friday told me that he appreciates me very much and also likes me. I said to him that its hard to believe him cause of all these women,and he told me that work is work and in real life is other person.When i decide to go home i went to say goodbye to him he grabed me and kissed me in my lips! I asked him stund why he did that and he said: just because! From that day i'm thinking of him all the time, but i dont know what to believe. Is it possible for such a man to start beeing serious with a woman?

2006-11-20 20:11:45 · 5 answers · asked by maria g 2

whenever theres some girls I like, I search them on myspace or friendster, they all have bfs, and showing pictures of them kissing their bfs.

It pisses me off! I give up.

2006-11-20 20:11:07 · 6 answers · asked by luv2spwch 1

I've always been very hard on myself,especially when i make mistakes or embarass myself. I totally humiliated myself with my boyfriend yesterday and now he's probably thinking i'm a total spaz. I feel i cant do anything right,and i feel i'm a bad person and dont deserve anyone. I think i have a social phobia because i live in fear of embarassing myself infront of people(and it happens all the time).Sometime si think i'm better off locking myself away forever,how can i be braver when i've always been like this?

2006-11-20 20:09:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 20:09:07 · 6 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2

I am 25 yr old and not as outging as I want to be.

Guy#1 He is only 19. Have known him as a friend for two months but never thought of him as anything more and now he finally asked me out! I went to the movies with him and he is a great friend and nice good looking. He likes to stay at home and I LOVE his family.
Guy #2 He is 25 like me and Is better looking and I just met him and we have alot in common as we talk for hours and he seems to like to be a partier. Out going

2006-11-20 20:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 2

Is it because you don't really care about them? Even if this person has been murdered you don't really care enough?

2006-11-20 20:01:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

We always hear about girls dating guys with nice cars. How about the other way around? Would a guy date a girl who drove a nicer car than his?

2006-11-20 19:57:05 · 16 answers · asked by Marie 1

2006-11-20 19:56:54 · 28 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2

I know it's a useless question but then I am a curious guy. So people crack this one up...let's see how good your taste really are & yea, this question ain't just restricted to guyz...

2006-11-20 19:53:48 · 19 answers · asked by Software_pro 2

try 5 years ago!
Anyways I want to go to BC and drink...we take trips there often.
I am a mom, im under 30 and I am having a hard time with this, is it ok for me to go drinking?
My child will be with the nanny so he's taken care of, but I dont know if its alright for me to get hammered???
Is it ok after 5 or more years?

2006-11-20 19:52:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 19:52:08 · 9 answers · asked by princess 2

2006-11-20 19:49:16 · 12 answers · asked by t j 1

i have a girl freind that until recently i thought loved me untill i found her on here telling the world she doesnt and that she is in love with someone else the only thing is we have a 3 yr old son together what should i do ?

2006-11-20 19:48:59 · 6 answers · asked by craig m 1

I told my new bf a little lie. I hate my surname so much that i gave my mother marriage name instead and said that was my name. He found out anyway and he started questioning me about it. Then i started to get confused when he asked my sisters surname and i hesitated for what seemed like minutes and i didnt know what to say so i said she lied about her name aswell,and i dont know why i said that but it was so stupid and i feel so humiliated now,he's probably thinking jeez she dont even know her sisters surname and she must be hiding something(he's a cop which makes me feel more bad)i cant stop thinking about how stupid i been,how do i get over this or explain myself better?

2006-11-20 19:48:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

This the site we met ^_^ http://www.emilitarycenter.com/inter

2006-11-20 19:47:48 · 6 answers · asked by Linda M 1

2006-11-20 19:46:49 · 13 answers · asked by princess 2

I'm dating this guy, but it seems like I'm the one taking the initiative to see him and make plans. last time, I saw him he said "i'll call you, later" and laughed at me? Now, he hasnt called me in over a week. He called me however yesterday, I didnt pick up. Then he texts me 4 hours later,.. saying "goodnight"... should I sit back and let things unfold, or keep steppin'?

2006-11-20 19:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by 1212 2