for the sake of this il give the people involved differnt names...
Jonah (the girl)
Stephen
Bob
me
ive known Jonah for 10 years, She is like my best :girl" friend and
Bob and Jonah were going out..... I was the one who got them together because Jonah was crying about Bob and Bob being one of my good friends told me he really liked jonah.. and i told her that when she was crying on my shoulder. They got together..
while they were together she fell for one of my other best mates Steve... Her And Steve were like closer then her and Bob for about 3 months... She broke up with bob and now she is "unofficially" going out with Steve.. All steves friends are pissed off at him except for me....
now she has told me she still might have feelings for bob.... steve has lost nearly all his friends coz of her.....
now to add my predicament.. i love her... so much that ive seen her with so many guyz... but she will never look at me that way... she tells me everything and i dont know what to do.
2006-11-20 20:19:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive known this girl for 10 years now... she is different to every other girl i see... she is the one girl that i wake up thinking of and think of b4 i close my eyes to rest...
2006-11-20 20:30:16 · update #1
she knows me better then anyone... but im so lost for words right now...
2006-11-20 20:31:02 · update #2
back off. let them work it out or you will end up being the bad guy.
2006-11-20 20:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by kathy c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! Tell her how you feel but just remember that you may be put in the same situation that Steve was in, so think this through, at the same time i think that Jonah really enjoys the attention that she's getting and wants to be "the girl" and i wouldn't want you to end up with a broken heart, but at the same time don't let this be a life long regret for you. Goodluck!!!
2006-11-20 20:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phew! Tough one!
OK, firstly, talk to this girl and tell her that her "playing" with Bob's heart, not to mention Steve's, is just not on. Tell her that her actions have caused Steve to loose his friends! This should make her take a good look at herself - she probably won't like what she sees (if she has a concience that is!) OK, now you need to tell her how you feel too. Tell her that her actions are causing you pain also, and that she needs to make up her mind. Tell her you will always be her friend, but that you cannot accept her actions.
Personally, I think this girl doesn't know what she wants. My Mom always told me that if you can't choose between one or the other, then you don't actually want EITHER. Good luck to you AND your mates!
2006-11-20 20:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are Jonahs best guy friend. And you have been her "sponge bob" ever since and she likes you that way. At this point where she's never takin any interest with you and she's goin out mostly with your friends, and never gone out seriously among them, just maybe, your missing her signals to you. It could be that it was you that she wanted to get attention. It was you whom she wants only youre too blind to see. goin out with men which happens to be all your friends is odd. think about it. try expressing your feelings towards her. it doesnt matter if your friends got hurt what matters is things will be corrected. In love, its like a battlefield, where some win, some loose. do something about your feelings or you have a lifetime to regret it.
2006-11-20 20:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by REBEL SAINT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl don't know what she wants sounds like a good time. you best bet is to wake up. look for your girlfriend and let everone else fend for them self. Make your heart happy before worring about others.But not with this girl even if she dated you (which she most likely won't as you been in the friend zone way too long.) she would eat you alive and you don't need that kind of pain.
2006-11-20 20:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW that is complicated!
Um maybe you should just give them all space so the girl can figure out her feelings. And maybe later on at the right time when its all settled down you could have a little talk to her about your feelings and hers! you never know she could like you but thinks you would never love her in return!
Hope i helped a bit!
Good luck ;-)
2006-11-20 20:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 04:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your little friend should put in her application to the Jerry Springer show!
You have seen how she is ....get over her!!!
Don't feel too sorry for Steve, he made his own decision to go out with his buddies ex.
Do yourself a favor and get over this girl...there are so many other people out there who have integrity and strength in their character!!!
2006-11-20 20:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice will affect your happiness .
An incorrect choice will add years of misery to your life. When you are happy with the one you are with, nothing else in life will matter. Trust and faithfulness will be the key. IF she is not certain of what she wants you will have a rocky ride. Your choice will affect your life positively or negatively for years to come.
2006-11-20 20:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and i know how she really feels: upset and hurt. I care because i do care. That is what i am like. You can stick it if you do not like me really.
HER TRUE FEELINGS ARE WITHIN HER and it is probably really difficult for her to deal with life. She probably has more difficult problems which you cannot imagine because you and not really kind enough to look after this fragile person.
2006-11-20 20:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen that girl could work a garden all day
she's with tom, dick and harry, better off staying back and see where this one lands.
Good Luck
2006-11-20 20:25:45 · answer #11 · answered by jawtar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋