I am 25 yr old and not as outging as I want to be.
Guy#1 He is only 19. Have known him as a friend for two months but never thought of him as anything more and now he finally asked me out! I went to the movies with him and he is a great friend and nice good looking. He likes to stay at home and I LOVE his family.
Guy #2 He is 25 like me and Is better looking and I just met him and we have alot in common as we talk for hours and he seems to like to be a partier. Out going
2006-11-20 20:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by Elizabeth B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to pick #2. Just the way you talked about both, you can tell by your typing that you are more into #2 as a boyfriend interest. Guy #1 is more like a little brother you want to hang out with and watch movies.
2006-11-20 20:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by ycard70 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi! a relationship in my opinion is a compromise, a give and take, although you may like staying at home, you may discover that you will have a great time going out if you went out with the right people/person (25 yr old). one fact that i would like to point out is that guys mature 3 yrs slower than girls, they are much more childish as well.i think that you should go out with the 25 yr old guy simply because both of you are on the same page, with the 19 yr old guy, he is only just begining his life, his experiences are only just starting, when you are ready for a committment, do you think that the 19 yr old is going to be ready as well, i think not, he's going to tell you that he still wants to experience life and at that age guys are still hung up on that "play boy" image, so i suggest that you safe guard your heart and go with the hotttt 25 year old. Goodluck!!!
2006-11-21 04:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sw8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what are you looking for in a relationship? Sex, fun, parties.
or are you at age 25 looking for someone to be the father of your children, your husband, your friend, your lover? IF it is sex, fun and parties why choose, go for both. If you are looking for your future mate then keep looking. Neither is for you. Consider that once you meet your future mate it will, or at least should, take several years of dating and getting to know one another before marriage. You will need at least 3 years after marriage to solidify your marriage before having children. You are now 30 + years old. A good age to have children and mature enough and wise enough to make a marriage work. Don't waste time on guys that still have 5 or more years of maturing. IF you are looking for the father of your children, don't they deserve the best you can give them? Don't you deserve the best you can have?
2006-11-21 04:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the 25 yr old sounds better but feel it out, tell the other guy we will see how it goes lets take it slow dont rush, tell him you don't want anything serious right now so you can see how this other guy is, you might like him alot
2006-11-21 04:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ä°f I were you I would choose 25 years old one.....
2006-11-21 04:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy #2.
2006-11-21 04:10:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy number one should remain a friend . or you wouldn't be so attracted to guy number too.let your instincts lead you.
2006-11-21 04:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by kathy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you want to bang both ot them and then decide.
2006-11-21 04:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋