Singles & Dating - 20 November 2006

I'm 21 and I have just come out of a 5 year relationship with my boyfriend. I haven't been with anyone else besides him..I lost my virginity to him. Its been nearly 4 months since we've broken up.
It was a mutual break-off.

I was out a couple of weekends ago and I saw my ex-boyfriend with another girl..it KILLED me to see him holding her hands, laughing with her.. (he didn't see me)..I ran off and cried driving home..I know I sound like a COMPLETE LOSER and that I should just get over it..

I went out with a guy (with other friends) last night.. and it felt so damn weird/awkward without my ex-boyfriend there. And when he drove me home and kissed me..I kinda cut the kiss short and said 'thanks bye' and got out the car.

I know you're all thinking 'just get over it'..but its hard. It feels all too weird to be kissing someone else..My friends aren't any help..
Is it too soon to be dating someone else?

Please give me your advice/thoughts.

2006-11-20 16:30:16 · 19 answers · asked by rHiaNna`` 1

How many day can you stay without doing or looking or even thinking about the girls? I can stay only 2 weeks maximum.

2006-11-20 16:30:01 · 21 answers · asked by mypetispig83 3

When ever I'm sitting close to him, I feel this urge to kiss him, even if its just on the cheek. I'm very good friends with him, he knows I like him. I'm pretty sure he likes me. Should I do it?

2006-11-20 16:28:43 · 24 answers · asked by L♥G 5

Mi brothers friend is funny and veary weared (like me) I love him but I don't know if he looves me and I whant 2 know but he iz 2 years older than me I don't know what 2 do!!! HELP!!!!

2006-11-20 16:28:38 · 5 answers · asked by fallon41394 1

So, I have been seeing this girl and we have a great time together, but she says she does not like talking on the phone. Although, if I call, we can talk for hours. So, I want to talk with her more often.. like every other day. So do you think I should call her?

2006-11-20 16:27:45 · 13 answers · asked by Bucky for Prez 1

Guys..when you stare at the opposite sex what are you thinking (what is running through your mind) I hope you are thinking of more than just sex..also....why are guys so much more obvious when they stare at a girl than girls are? And guys do you realize it when you are staring at a girl or are you just in la la land?? hehe thanks! :)

Sometimes it is flattering to a girl, other times if it's just point blank staring, it can be a bit creepy to girls.

2006-11-20 16:26:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Twice within a week a woman has done this in front of me. We are in a conversation and they take both their hands and pull back or adjust their hair, once the woman redid her skrunchie thing holding her hair back. The first gal did it at a cologne counter when she was the saleswoman. The second was a friend of my sister's at a funeral for her father! Any subliminal messages being sent? In both instances, it was as it the way in which they used both hands to pull back and adjust their hair gave me an explicit view of their chests. Am I reading too much into this or is there some unspoken body language going on that I don't pay attention to? Talk to me.

2006-11-20 16:25:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 16:23:18 · 25 answers · asked by andrew b 1

ok so im seeing this guy and im really into him. but the problem is when we have sex he goes way too fast, if you know what i mean. i dont think he does iton purpose, buts its really frusterating. i need my cookie too. WHAT DO I DO? HOW DO I BRING IT UP???

2006-11-20 16:23:03 · 17 answers · asked by Viper 2

what are the odds of that?...i know that there must be an "invite" and "accept" exchange for messenger friends lists...silly girl....still, i like to check and see if i am the one who could be mistaken....comments?.....

2006-11-20 16:21:15 · 10 answers · asked by just someone 2

this fren is also my ex schoolmates and happened that he is my boyfren national service mates.. he told me all these.. im confuse. As a gf i know i shld trust my bf.. but things cant just treat it nothing has happened! shall i confess him?

2006-11-20 16:18:47 · 16 answers · asked by Its me! 3

2006-11-20 16:17:44 · 30 answers · asked by utopian.outcast 3

2006-11-20 16:17:40 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so the guy I like. We were talking online. He's really good at break dancing. I dance too, but jazz and ballet and I always joked around how he should tech me his moves. So he just got back from a breaking battle comp. and he was all excited telling me about it and he's all inspired again. So I was like wow you make breaking sound so fun, how about sometime over thanksgiving break you teach me some really easy stuff? And he said haha sure :) what do you want me to teach you? and I was like hmm well I don't know the names of things just like...what was the first thing you learned? And he's like ok I'll teach you what I learned first.. a HANDSTAND and we laughed and talked but bottom line we're both not doing anything over break but he won't make a move to actually agree on when to meet. Does he not want to? Should I bring it up?

2006-11-20 16:16:39 · 7 answers · asked by Laura 2

Should I pick up a hooker for some company?

2006-11-20 16:16:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

personaly isn't even that great. For some reason though, I find myself wanting to talk to her whenever I see her. Does this ever happen to anyone else? Should I pursue this at all, or am I just intrigued by curiosity?

By the way, she's a weird anime girl that always has these stupid fake cat ears on. I used to be big into anime, but for the most part I stay away from the typical anime fan because they tend to creep me out.

2006-11-20 16:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 16:14:04 · 10 answers · asked by FJ84 2

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2006-11-20 16:12:42 · 16 answers · asked by Zach S 5

after crying for three days with him telling my kids i might have aids then after say just kidding it was my way of getting bak at u. but wuts worse is that the signs wer all there he was living this lie and acting it out very very good. so i took a test and its negative but . would your life be the same ever again?

2006-11-20 16:11:50 · 9 answers · asked by yummy 1

2006-11-20 16:11:17 · 11 answers · asked by Thebronx 5

ok, so im trieng to dump this guy, but i dont wanna hurt him, how should i do it

2006-11-20 16:11:05 · 16 answers · asked by thatperson 1

2006-11-20 16:10:28 · 51 answers · asked by andrew b 1

I talk to him thurs nite everything was all good, we talked about what we were going to do with each other this weekend, hung up with him at 1230 am. Havent heard from him since. He is intentionally avoiding me and I have no clue why.

2006-11-20 16:09:37 · 13 answers · asked by lxndria1979 2

or would you not be upset cuz you have nothing to hide? or is it still messed up...even if you have nothing to hide!?

2006-11-20 16:08:37 · 18 answers · asked by cuteness 4

I have this kid I knew from a few years ago who would always tease me and I kind of had a crush on him. The teacher would always say that he liked me, but he would always pick on me and I hated him! So I started going to school with him again, and I kind of remember my resentment from the past, yet now he's trying to apologize for being mean in the past and not talking to me in the present, and we im now. He says it kinda sucks that I mostly remember him as the kid who picked on me and he sent me a shirtless picture of himself and told me how he doesn't have any stds... I'm just wondering, do innocent childhood crushes/bullies ever become anything more?

2006-11-20 16:06:02 · 14 answers · asked by Jenny 4

i was reading on here about how women/men like watching each other masterbate....then what the hell is the difference if u want to watch someone on cam to do it....same thing if u ask me..and how come they like to be watched but they wont do it on the cam for ya????

2006-11-20 16:04:45 · 5 answers · asked by kal-el 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and it has always been a little rocky. When we first start dating (like every relationship) everything was perfect and it just seemed like we were meant to be together. He is a work-alcoholic and I'm usually lucky if I see him once a week. We've always had that problem and we argue about it a lot, but lately it has gotten worse. Not only do I not see him but now we barely even talk on the phone. He has been promising me that he will change and he's in the process of getting a different job. I still love him with all my heart, and I know he loves me, but am I just supposed to wait around until he changes? When is it time to say enough and move on?

2006-11-20 16:04:45 · 30 answers · asked by Chocolate_Lover 2

To break it down for ya, im an 18 YO male, and i just got out of a 9 MO relationship wih girl "A" due to her leaving 2 HRS away for college. I trusted her completely just did not wanna commit myself to her if she is in the enviornment that i do not trust, College parties. Then there is girl "B" that i dated for two and a half years prior to my relationship with girl "A". Now, Girl A realizes that she still likes me and comes home on the weekends and we hang out pretty much 24/7, and act like a couple. When she is off to college during the week, i hang out with girl B, and act like were in a relationship. Im in a dilemma with both of them and dont know what to do. This is a "high quality" problem. They both know about eachother but do not suspect much. I have mixed feelings about each of them. Its just hard to hang out just as "friends" with either of them, because i dateted them and have so much temptaion when we hang out. Any advice?

2006-11-20 16:04:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-20 16:03:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why don't chicks ever make it obvious they like me? Or do they and I am just too dumb to realize it?

2006-11-20 16:02:34 · 17 answers · asked by utopian.outcast 3