this fren is also my ex schoolmates and happened that he is my boyfren national service mates.. he told me all these.. im confuse. As a gf i know i shld trust my bf.. but things cant just treat it nothing has happened! shall i confess him?
2006-11-20 16:18:47 · 16 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cant understand..but if you think he's cheating, let him explain first.. but if he lies, DUMP HIM!
2006-11-20 16:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend but give him some slack. People in the service and such - such ridiculous forms of gossip happen and people getting jealous of others. Geez, I was in the service once and bf was told by someone that I was going out with somebody else while we were engaged - but it was really nothing like that. Now I was being foolish to allow myself to be seen with that individual while engaged to be married to someone who was like 500 miles away from me at the time. But, it was totally platonic and it was a mistake for me to try to help the guy out because he needed a friend and possibly - he might have thought it could turn into something more than that - but I never did. I mean - I always had guys who were friends and when you're young - sometimes you just don't know how to really do what's really the best for your relationship yet and you're just not as mature as you'd like to be. In any case - someone - I don't even know who - told him that I was going out with this guy and on and on with stuff that wasn't true. Boyfriend comes back to me all ticked off - not realizing that it's simply not true. So, on the one hand you do need to talk - on the other hand - try to remember that this other guy may not have his cards straight and he may not be playing them honest because of jealousy - perhaps looking for him to make a mistake so he can tell you - people like to break up relationships too - this happens all the time. People in the military can be especially vicious and carry all kinds of spite. In any case - we had other issues in breaking up - alot of it being my immarturity at the time - but the whole gossip and lies going back to him - definitely contributed to the downfall.
2006-11-20 16:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a not ordinary question simply by fact it relatively relies upon on your daughter's relationship with you. She ought to turn yet even nevertheless somethings are greater valuable left unsaid, it is something which would be greater valuable suggested to her.. If she exhibits out later and then additionally exhibits out you knew, then she'll be offended at you for real. in case you tell her now, worse it ought to be is she'll hate you for "not liking her bf" and then do exactly not shop it a secret, and while she exhibits out approximately the different lady, she would be in a position to not be mad at you anymore and he or she'll understand which you have been basically attempting to maintain her from having her coronary heart broke into products. only positioned your self on your daughters shoes and ask your self how could you have chose to confirm, your mom telling you? or His spouse and infant telling you to stay the hell faraway from their guy???
2016-10-22 11:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first ...learn how to post your question so that we can make a little more sense of it , but from what i understand of the question , you should not go by hearsay abotu what your BF is doing, if you dont see it for yourself and dont have the courage to ask him yourself and see if its true then let it go until you find out for sure...no sense in accusing him, (what if that person is wrong, then you ruined a good relationship over hear say)...just ask him and then you wont fell left in the dark about anything ..dont accuse ASK!!
2006-11-20 16:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this kind of situation, when you're not sure who's been untruthful, i believe it's best to bring both parties together and confront them. Otherwise you'll never find out the truth, unless one of them confesses of course.
2006-11-20 16:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Cee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) write the question so it's easily understood. Spellcheck and GrarmmarCheck are your friends.
2) just ask him about it. be careful making a major decision on the words of a single person.
2006-11-20 16:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Alecto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess what to him? He's the one who should be doing the confessing!!! Smoke the loser out, and find out and give em the old heave hoe, if he was with another girl. Trust should be "earned" not "given". If you think he's screwing around, ask him!!!
2006-11-20 16:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U can frankly ask him who was there .. She may be her just friend or may be sister also.. Don't trust so much about other's people's word..... Unless u herself saw any wrong... Trust ur bf.. It's very essential to carry a relationship........
2006-11-20 16:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
find out first if the news is correct. you don't want to accuse him of something that is not true. don't confront him head on. he might just deny it. try to do some snooping so he is unguarded when reveals clues to you.
2006-11-20 16:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dear .I never agree with being too fast to judge.Dont do anything before being sure.You can even ask your bf ,it would be much better than listening to other's gossips.
2006-11-20 16:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not understanding whats going on...and i dont think im the only one...fren?
2006-11-20 16:22:38 · answer #11 · answered by KitKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋