would you be mad if your bf/gf was reading through your texts messages while you were in the shower?

Question

or would you not be upset cuz you have nothing to hide? or is it still messed up...even if you have nothing to hide!?

Answer 1

complete disrespect for your privacy. if you had granted them permission to view your inbox, that's a different story.

Answer 2

Ok, I think there is more to this situation then just the texting. Your girlfriend should realise that riding a bike is inherently dangerous and multiply that by the fact that if someone drives in front of you while you are looking at your phone, you could quite easily die. Your safety is more important than some girl (girls in general), and the guy that can ride a bike and text at the same time probably won't be around for much longer. My girlfriend realises this, and in fact is still scared when I got for a ride, despite the fact I wear full leathers and a full face helmet, and have not even been close to an accident since I started riding 4 years ago. Or you could just say that you didn't know that you got a message as you couldn't hear with the wind noise (and take it off vibrate if you do this, it will help you stay focused as well )

Answer 3

I would be upset if my b/f went through my text messages while I was in the shower, but not exactly mad. Maybe he just wants to get to know you better?

If you have nothing to hide, I suggest you talk to him about it. Let him know that you aren't trying to hide anything from him, but it still feels like an invasion of privacy. You are entitled to have your own thoughts. And what about the people that you are text messaging with? They may not want a third person (your boyfriend) to know their business.

You may try asking him not to do it like that again. Tell him that it is ok to ask you about something if he is curious, but it is not your right to let him read what your friends have written.

Answer 4

Yes of course I would be mad if someone was checking my things. I mean people that do that are so insecure with themselves that they are always looking for ways to find wrong in the other person. I would ask your BF/GF what the problem was and if they feel the need to check your things to please ask, or at least do it when you are there. That way they get the idea that you know what they are up to and maybe will stop or think twice about doing it. Also just let them know if you had something to hide that you wouldn't be leaving your things laying around and to stop being so insecure. Good Luck

Answer 5

I wouldn't care. In fact, if the other person wasn't interested in the least, it would be a little questionable (like...does he even like me enough to be curious?). There's nothing wrong with curiosity. I don't have anything to hide, either.

Answer 6

There's definately something wrong with that in my mind. Even if you have nothing to hide, they should respect you enough not to go through your things.

Also, if you were in the shower, why were they on your computer instead of in the shower with you? ;)

Answer 7

It's you're bf/gf! You shouldn't have anything to hide, and if you do, make SURE you erase the messages you don't want him/her to read.
Don't erase all of them or you will look like you have something to hide ::wink::

Answer 8

LoL.. damn what the hell! ppl cant even take a freakin shower without their privacy being invaded and ****! .. i think it depends on the bf/gf and how paranoit they are about what ur up to when their not around

Answer 9

No. If there's nothing to hide then i'd have no reason to be mad.

Answer 10

If you feel your privacy is being invaded, and the other person feels there are trust issues, then there are deeper problems than the text messages.

Answer 11

I would be irritated regardless of whether or not the texts were incriminating. Unless you give him a reason not to, he should trust you and stop being so nosy.