ok, so im trieng to dump this guy, but i dont wanna hurt him, how should i do it
2006-11-20 16:11:05 · 16 answers · asked by thatperson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no easy way. If he's going to have hurt feelings, he'll have them no matter how you drop it on him. Just be honest with him :)
2006-11-20 16:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by ~Anna~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, there isn't a good/ gentle/ subtle way to do it. Whatever words or explainations or reasons you use, they all mean the same, you wanna break up with him. It will hurt him either way, so just tell him your reason and never look back.
The thing is that....the sooner the better.
2006-11-21 00:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him u think ur gay- lol just kidding
u could use the old its not u its me
or not
hmmm just say
"ive been thinking about us, i really like you as a person, but i just dont think i want to be in a relationship with anyone at the moment, but if its kwl i really wanna be good friends with u"
or something along those lines
2006-11-21 00:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use this: It's not you, it's me. Works like a charm. Explain to him that you just aren't ready for a relationship, you're afraid of being hurt... you name it. Just blame it on you, it makes it easier on him. It is a cliche though, so you might have to reassure him that "No really, I know ppl say that but I mean it."
2006-11-21 00:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by sunny_tennessee_25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to dump someone and they are going to get hurt.....just be honest and in the end they will respect you more for it...........
2006-11-21 00:13:30 · answer #5 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you then it is inevitable that he will be hurt. The best way to do it is just be honest and be ready to answer all his questions he has to give him closure.
2006-11-21 00:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shood tel him y ur leting him go and then offer him n e comfort that he might need or help him find the right girl and tell him about how good he is and what made you like him at the start.
2006-11-21 00:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by jayne s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how u do it, he's still going to get hurt. U can tell him or just quit talking to him.
2006-11-21 00:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him in a not explainind how u feel and why u want to break up but let him know u want to break up.
2006-11-21 00:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by lady t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never an easy way. Just do it sooner than later so he can start his recovery.
2006-11-21 00:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋