Guys..when you stare at the opposite sex what are you thinking (what is running through your mind) I hope you are thinking of more than just sex..also....why are guys so much more obvious when they stare at a girl than girls are? And guys do you realize it when you are staring at a girl or are you just in la la land?? hehe thanks! :)
Sometimes it is flattering to a girl, other times if it's just point blank staring, it can be a bit creepy to girls.
2006-11-20 16:26:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on the guy. He may be working up the courage to go up and talk to you. He may be in a committed relationship but enjoying the view. He may be gay and wondering what the hell you were thinking when you paired that purse with those shoes. If it's me andf I find you attractive you won't have to wonder for long. I will walk right up and let you know whats on my mind.
2006-11-22 13:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I stare at a girl, I really couldn't tell you what I'm thinking except that I like what I see. The sight of a beautiful woman has an almost hypnotic effect on me. Of course, this happens when the woman is sexually attractive. I think its human nature. I realize when I'm doing it, though I try not to stare too long, and I guess I continue because I want her to notice I notice her. I guess guys are more obvious with their stares than girls because we are usually expected to be the initiator in relationships. A stare is a sign of intent that might be considered too forward for some women. Although, I like when the girl is somewhat aggressive. Makes things easier.
2006-11-21 00:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
We don't have as good of a memory as you. That's why. Plus we are visual in nature, as opposed to emotional or mental. We like to study her so we can memorize each splendid feature. The perfect proportion, vigor, and yes even the girl inside.
We enjoy seeing beauty.
Sometimes it's sex we're thinking about. Sometimes it's companionship. Sometimes it's family. Sometimes it's even marriage. But it's always about the beauty, like a work of art.
Sometimes I know I'm in la la land.
We all try to be discrete.
2006-11-21 00:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the uppermost and the only thing in mind when guys STARE at girls while girls though not so obvious make comparisons with their existing or ex bfs
2006-11-21 00:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by money money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya see, this may very from guy to guy. I tell you what, most average, WUSSIE guys, will stare at a girl, and only wish to be with her. And yea, they are in la la land, thinking about sex, to be honest.
But then theres other guys, who look at her body language, and notice her voice tone, and see if they feel attraction for the women. They usually look for security and self-esteem issues with the girl, all by looking at her body language.
A lot of girls get an ego-boost off the typical wuss-bag who checks them out and asks for a number. Yet NEVER captalizes, and/or gets a fake number.
2006-11-21 00:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, when I stare at my 'certain person', I tend to do it just to watch her exist, watch her breathe, take all of her in, the tiny details. And the obvious ones like her smile, her eyes, her hair etc.
I don't recall ever looking @ her and thinking 'Oh man, I wanna hit that' etc which doesn't mean it isn't true (and doesn't mean I haven't looked @ other girls like that before), it's just far from being the most important thing about her.
2006-11-21 00:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Random Mandom 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well, sometimes we are in la la land, sometimes when we stare we are just thinking about sex (depends on the girl). but it could just be "man she's fine, she's got a great body" or it could be "man she's really nice, i really like her" really it all depends on the girl. and depending on how we feel about the girl we want you to see us staring at you, but i think if a guy really likes you he'll be a little more timid, and get and turn away when you catch him staring. so guys who just stare are prolly just checking you out. but it depends on a lot of things.
2006-11-21 00:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by Striker MG 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when i stare at a female that i may be interested in it will only be for a sec or two the goal is to see if she stares back.
2006-11-21 00:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by Millenium Man 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
when i stare at a girl i like i think of doing stuff with her or the beauty of her...
2006-11-21 00:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by rusty s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes i stare at girls because they have a big mole on their face, or some kind of interesting facial feature. Other times, im checkin out that booty to see if it will bounce properly. big up
2006-11-21 00:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋