Why don't chicks ever make it obvious they like me? Or do they and I am just too dumb to realize it?
2006-11-20 16:02:34 · 17 answers · asked by utopian.outcast 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha, ok this sounds like me! When I was in school there were so many guys that liked me and I didn't find out until much much later. They said that I was intimidating... though I don't see why! You usually can tell if someone likes you, whether it is there body language or the smile that they can't quite seem to wipe off there face when they see you. But let me ask you this... do you make it obvious when you like a girl? Try being bold... confidence is very attractive. If you like a girl, don't wait for her to show you a sign... just ask her out! You don't have to make it a "date", just hang out and have fun.
2006-11-20 16:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, no one wants to put themselves into a vulnerable situation when the feelings might not be returned.
Second, women want to be the sought after, not the sought, so you might have to go out on that vulnerability limb and just hope that she likes you. Women expect men to be able to pick up on hints, and after 5 years of marraige, I know there is no bigger waste of time than to wait for a man to pick up on hints. I can understand your frustration, but I think that if you want a girl, you need to be the one that shows the interest.
2006-11-21 00:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do... or they think they are making it obvious... but it might not be obvious to you. if they smile, they think they are making it obvious, but you may need them to tell you directly "i like you" for you to figure it out! but they'll never say that! if they come and talk to you at all and you're alone, you can assume you have a shot! if they smile, you should be thinking "she wants me". that's the only way you'll ever get a woman!
2006-11-21 00:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you ever make it obvious you like them? everyone pretty much feels the same inside, just as unsure, etc. don't worry, you're not too dumb!
2006-11-21 00:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by allison 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women play hard to get. If they know you know, then where is the fun in that? And if they knew you knew they probably wouldn't like you anymore. Just have fun - who cares if someone really likes you? Good luck.
2006-11-21 00:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by gabber1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one wants to be rejected, and in my experience, some guys just never get the hints you give them.
2006-11-21 00:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Single girls are like ice skating elephants. They don't really make too much sense to those of the male sex.
2006-11-21 00:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should leave the chicks to the roosters and go after real women...
2006-11-21 00:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mintee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you just see the signs, are you shy? i was and did not know when someone liked me .. pay more attention i was super stupid i did not know that i was pretty and guys liked me ask!
2006-11-21 00:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by glitsyjewels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they just don;t like you and don;t want to give you false hope
2006-11-21 00:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋