So, I have been seeing this girl and we have a great time together, but she says she does not like talking on the phone. Although, if I call, we can talk for hours. So, I want to talk with her more often.. like every other day. So do you think I should call her?
2006-11-20 16:27:45 · 13 answers · asked by Bucky for Prez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say that sometimes when I realize I've spent a few hours of my afternoon on the phone and should've been doing other things. Try not talking so long when you do call. Sure call her but make it a bit more brief!
2006-11-20 16:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by kissgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't like talking on the phone because she likes to be face to face with the person she's conversating with. Sometimes actions can show how sincere a person is, more than their words could ever tell. Most of us who are looking for someone with a bit of sense are seeking sincerity in a person as well as a good conversationalist. Somewhere in the past, she could have also ran across a lot of people who like to breathe on the phone when they have nothing to talk about. That's annoying and rude and might've turned her off towards talking on the phone. Sometimes, a nice long conversation can be just as good as going out for coffee or dinner. But if I were you, I'd switch up every now and then. Be spontaneous and keep her wondering what's gonna happen next. One night, talk until both of you guys get tired, then a few nights later, invite her on a date. Tell her you would like to spend time with her because you have things on your mind that you would like to share and ask her how her week went. She'll appreciate the fact that you care to know what's going on in her life. Don't limit yourself to just talking on the phone because after a while it kinda plays itself out. Not to mention the huge ***** of a phone bill. Not offering to take her out or insisting that you guys meet somewhere to talk or hang out rather than just doing it on the phone, might just cost you her interest.
2006-11-20 17:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥aNgeL eYeS♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told this guy I'm with that i don't like talking on the phone, but i only told him this because i was nervous talking to him when our relationship was young and i didn't feel completely comfortable talking to him on the phone, but now i wish he called me more often, girls want you to call, even if she doesn't like it that much at first , at least she'll know you want to talk to her and care enough to go out of your way to call.
2006-11-20 16:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Magdalena S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she obviously likes talking to you. Maybe she is trying to say even though she doesn't like talking on the phone she loves talking to you so much she is willing to talk for hours. Call her!!!
2006-11-20 16:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah if u like talking 2 her i dont see why not, and she obviously likes 2 talk if she spends hours on the fone with you
2006-11-20 16:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by airforcebeauty06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call her but dont talk with her too long on the phone because she might get annoyed.
2006-11-20 16:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by raelynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes call her!!!!!! it wil show ur really like her. even though she doesnt like talking on the phone if u call her it will make her feel like she matters and feel speical, that u took time. and it shows u were thinking of her to.
2006-11-20 16:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think callbut to ask her out not to have a chat.
after all you can talk face 2 face
2006-11-20 16:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just email her or talk to her in person whenever you can, maybe there's a good reason she won't talk to you over the phone.
2006-11-20 16:32:43 · answer #9 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like talking to her and when would it be OK for you to call her.
I feel exactly like she does....I would rather e-mail.
2006-11-20 16:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋