i have a girl freind that until recently i thought loved me untill i found her on here telling the world she doesnt and that she is in love with someone else the only thing is we have a 3 yr old son together what should i do ?
2006-11-20 19:48:59 · 6 answers · asked by craig m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what should you do? isn't that kinda obvious? dump her and get a DNA test cause odds are she probably cheated with the person she is in "love" with. get a backbone, be a man and move on.
2006-11-20 19:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad one! OK, so first, you have to confront your g/f with the fact that you now know she doesn't want to continue the relationship. You then have to decide what you are BOTH gonna do about your child. Explain to her that your main concern is now the child you share and then come to some agreement as to visitation etc. Try to get the agreement in writing to cover your butt at a later stage if she changes her mind! Good luck, and don't worry, there is someone out there who will appreciate you like your g/f obviously doesn't. Be strong and get on with your life. You sound like a really nice guy.
2006-11-21 03:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her but not in an accusing way and find out what the problem is. Ask her if she is happy and if not what she would like you to do to revive your relationship. Be attentive to her needs.
Give her a lot of attention like the way you were when you had just started dating. That should get her to at least rethink being in love with another and realise that she still has a very good relationship.
2006-11-21 04:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is going to leave you sooner or later. just decide if you want your son to live with her or with you. as a woman/girl, I can tell you that begging her to stay is the last thing that will keep her in the relationship. talk to her. let her know that you care about her, but love and relationship require time, energy , and compromise. the fairy tale fantasy love stories are not applicable in our 21 century society. tell her that!
then let her know that you respect her decision, but before deciding to end the relationship, is there any way for improving it or not? maybe she is mad at you?
and if she tries to act too confident, just tell her calmly that you respect her so much that you want her to be happy, but tell her that once she is gone she is gone for ever!
maybe you gave her too much attention and now she is spoiled. or maybe you didnt give her enough attention and this is a way for her to get some. but talking to other people about personal issues between you is so immature and should be discussed between you two first.
2006-11-21 04:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mariami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss these things with her. Given the third party (the child), you folks will have a lifetime connection no matter what. Even if she doesn't love you, she has a child with you.
2006-11-21 03:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by brooklyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her.
2006-11-21 03:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋