I like a guy who's 31 this year. I am 21. Do you think our age gap is too wide?
2006-11-20 22:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not at all, as long as you are happy together that's all that matters.
2006-11-20 22:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "age gap" is the least of your problems at such a young age. There tends to be little emotional maturity difference between 21 and 31 in most people (yes, a generalization but legitimate regardless), especially in the case where the man is older. Exceptions to the rule exist, of course. But what is more important here is "are you happy?". Personal experience: When I was 26 years old, I was with a 51 year old woman. Age gap? We didn't care. It's all about how happy you are.
2006-11-21 07:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nodtveidt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she made love an issue here.
Yet anyway that's a question no one here can answer truely. Just make sure you two are in the same stage of life; I've seen that kind of age gap go sour when the older one starts talking of marriage/kids when the other's not ready for it.
And actually the fact that you went on and ask this question may be a reason for you not to. Because people *will* talk about that if you do pair up; you have to be prepared to not care about their opinions.
2006-11-21 07:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you love someone then that's all that matters. But the age gap can cause some problems especially if you are not that well suited.
2006-11-21 07:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lex T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, so long as you are happy together. Throughout history, lots of older men have been with younger women, and is lots of cases everybody involved was happy with it. Now sometimes older women are with younger men, and that should be ok too if the 2 people involved love each other.
2006-11-21 07:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermm it is a big gap but as long as you can trust him it shouldnt matter, if you are not thinking about marrying him why dont ypu find some one your age coz otherwise when your like 70 he will b 80 or maybe even dead. thats my advice buy
2006-11-21 07:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! You're giving into a sociological perception if you let age play a role. Age is not an issue.
2006-11-21 06:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as both of you love each other, I think age is never a problem
2006-11-21 07:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter so long as the other is not under age.
2006-11-21 07:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not to wide but older men come with bagged make sure your no in over your head.
2006-11-21 07:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Low 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋