Singles & Dating - 13 November 2006

My ex had an ex wife and two kids, he lived with his mom and was in debt, he even owes IRS and sometimes his wages was garnished. He is also a motivational speaker, and is well known in his community for his atletic accomplishment in high school, college and even professional. He is a local hero and people admire and look up to him. He is very handsome and has a very nice body. What I don't understand is why is he so insecure, why is he always trying to shine and prove things to people. Why when he got an apartment he changed and treated me like he didn't care. We were always having problems because of his accusations and insecurities and I was always trying to brake up with him but he would never leave me alone. I feel that he changed me I felt myself being a grouch and being jealous and insecure. Two insecure people can't be together, I hated the way he treated people like he was above and always angry. He was a caring passionate romantic boyfriend but I just don't understand!

2006-11-13 03:26:44 · 4 answers · asked by Smile 2

Everyone always tells me that he's womanizer, but he doesn't act anything like that around me. He's sweet, gentle and caring. He doesn't deny that he was a player in the past, though. He says he's changed. Should I believe him, or is it just a game he's playing with my head?

2006-11-13 03:25:59 · 21 answers · asked by AJailah T 1

so what is acceptable in the area of flirting and where does the line stop ?

2006-11-13 03:25:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Assuming you are not very attracted to your wife or not at all,do you still look at her like she is the sexiest women or would you only look at her that way if she actually was that sexy to you?

2006-11-13 03:25:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 03:25:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf stays with me and he told me he was going to give me some money on the bills.well a whole week went by and nothing. i know he has it in the bank too. he also has seen me struggling a little also. well as soon as i started acting like the relationship needs to be over thats when he says he will give me the money today. he knows i like to go ahead and pay on my bills. why was he holding off so long? and he didnt forget about it either cuz he said once he was going to give me the money. he said it with a little attitude also. he has done this before. its like he wants to see me whine and argue about it before he give it to me. he should help pay cause he stays here too. should i break up with him because i have had this conversation with him before. he is 43 and im 37 and he should know better.its too stressful asking someone over and over to pay their share when they already know they should.should i just go ahead and put him out. or get the money and then put him out.

2006-11-13 03:24:46 · 5 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

Do you think it is okay to bribe men to do chores using sex as their reward? I mean it always works, but am I the only one using it to my advantage and is it ok?
Before you send me harassing answers, keep in mind I have been with this guy for many years and have four children. There is a lot of work to be done and he is some what lazy.

2006-11-13 03:23:02 · 42 answers · asked by ? 3

When mybf and i have sex he lasts like 3 minuts and im not satisfied, anda he only does oral sex for less than 3 minutes he is the only guy i'va been with, i have only had a an orgasm once i dont know how to tell him, i do love him but i dont think he can make it last more than he does..

2006-11-13 03:22:48 · 9 answers · asked by sofitaps 2

How long can a woman and a man stay attractive and still can turn some heads?

2006-11-13 03:21:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

like when i ask him to go with me some where he makes up lies like i have to go study for my test.
Is he tired of me??
am i doing something wrong??
what should i do??..........................HELP ME PLEASSEE!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-13 03:21:06 · 15 answers · asked by ~deelishis kisses~ 1

2006-11-13 03:21:00 · 7 answers · asked by cindy 1

is it wrong to go further than kissing a guy, when he asks you back to his place if you really like him (and would like a relationship with him) and he says he likes you?

2006-11-13 03:20:55 · 13 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

So its sex with the lights off till your 18

2006-11-13 03:20:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sat I went in bed 13 and took off my ring to put on lotion. I didn't realize until after closing that I left it. Today is the 13th (and our 14 month anniversary) and I'm going to get the ring back. I called, they have it. We have this wierd thing between us about 13. It's our lucky number (except Sat b/c I left the ring). But isn't that wierd that I'm getting it back on the 13th?! Should I tell him, now that I'm getting it back today or not? My 13 yr old daughter thinks I shouldn't because he will give me a hard time but now that I know I'm getting it back I think it's a little funny.

2006-11-13 03:17:17 · 8 answers · asked by Scorpio 4

he is not in india..v do talk abt everything n he takes interst in my everthing but he dont say dat he loves me tell me sumthin dat is it luv or attraction n he also loves me or not

2006-11-13 03:16:39 · 9 answers · asked by chocolate 1

my ex bf, we work together and i though i was over him, but i am not! he's back with his old ex now, and he says he is in love with her... I would really love to have him back....i ask but he says that there;s no point!!!

i love talking to him, but cant stand it when he has "love you suuss'' on his msn.. breaks my heart every time..

i want him back so i though that if we could just be really good friends he could she he still likes me, but i dont think i can stand one more ' i love u suus'' stuff!!!

i know i cant make him love me :(

so what should i do?? i really want him back!!!

i should remain friends and talk to him etc and when they break up... how knows...????

should i leave it and see what he does.... ????

please help me, i tried looking really hot around him, but it backfired, he realised i only did this because i wanted him back :(

please help me, i want him back...

2006-11-13 03:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Simone 2

2006-11-13 03:13:52 · 15 answers · asked by MJ 6

Is it wrong to talk to a 21 yr. old even though you are 15? I mean we have so much in commom and we like each other. The problem is our age differance.

2006-11-13 03:13:44 · 21 answers · asked by Crazy K. 2

Ok, so my best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) we are 15 (mature) and have known each other for 2 years. Recently-for about the last two weeks- she has been asking for hugs alot, almost every day, and keeps saying she loves me. She had never done either of these before. But the thing is, she has a boyfriend (16), so I dont know what is up with the hugging etc. all of a sudden. I like her more than a friend and I have to tell her (I will wait till she breaks up with the guy), but I want to know, why might she be getting more touchy so much so quickly? If I am walking her home she puts her arm around me, and the other day I just made the flippant comment; hey, the cat's giving me a back rub, none of ye are that nice (to a group of friends) and she said "I'd give you a back rub". I find this behaviour odd since she has a bf. And whatever you think on the matter, could you try to give reasons, because I am trying to work this out.

2006-11-13 03:13:43 · 11 answers · asked by flaminious 1

I really like this guy for months now. I want to tell him i like him so then I start to wonder if he ever liked me and if i should've told him. I'm just so scared to tell him but don't know how to do it. I just want to do it because I've really never told guys my feelings only one. But that didn't do good has I hoped.

2006-11-13 03:11:27 · 10 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3

What's weird is that we're comfortable making eye contact at each other, however, I've managed to say "hi" or "good morning" but all I get from him is a really "nice" smile. How do I know if he's interested? Is he shy? How do I come on to him with out being too aggressive?? what should I do? I think I like him.

2006-11-13 03:10:54 · 8 answers · asked by betrayed 1

My parents are really strict and pretty old fashioned, even though I'm 24. I am going to be moving in with my boyfriend in February and I'm very hesitant about telling my parents. How should I tell them?

Please, no gross or joke answers.

2006-11-13 03:09:07 · 10 answers · asked by GK2006 3

I am 24 years old and I think that my relationship with women is very very odd. Ever since I have know I have been attracted to women that have had problems in their life, both at School and when I was at University. I believe that I can help them in some way or another.

This all came to a head when I met a bipolar older woman at work recently and we had a relationship. She is divorced with 3 kids and sleeps around with other men a lot having unprotected sex. I have recently had to break this friendship up as I said to her that I wanted to be more than friends believing that I could help her in some way to get back on the straight and narrow and to get her back on her meds.

Is there something wrong with me in people's opinions. I find it really hard to concentrate on myself and I enjoy looking after other people. Sometimes I concentrate on other peoples problems so much I don't see mine, but I really cared for this woman at work she was very special to me.

2006-11-13 03:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by pol d 1

In your opinion

2006-11-13 03:06:56 · 7 answers · asked by T-Mo 1

My girl friend of 6 years has become lazy in every way imaginable. She doesn't take care of me the way she used to. Now she has become unappriciative of anything I do, any attempt at talking is quickly concume by the threat of arguing and nothing ever gets solved. she just does or says whatever is neccissary to end the argument no matter if thats what she really feels or not. By doing this she has completely closed all lines of communication and I am at fault for all the arguments and anything else that goes wrong. Know matter how I take care of her or try to make her happy nothing seems to work, not even talking. We have children together and I'm trying to make things work between us but all to often it seems that I'm the only one. Even the sex has gotten awful, boring and dull. There is no passion or fun anymore. What should I do, should I leave her or try to work things out again?

2006-11-13 03:06:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

am i missing something here? or are we just that lame that we think bowling is something fun todo? or am i missing the social aspect of it, hanging with friends, and I am thinking too much like a guy, and bowling being a sport. (competition?) ugh.

2006-11-13 03:06:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short, I have been with my bf now for over 3 years (and 2 years prior to this) and we've moved in together about 3 months ago. I love him and he loves me but our sex life sucks. This has been an ongoing issue for a very long time now and I'm fed up.

He thinks I have an overactive sex drive and that he is normal but I assure you, it's not. He has rejected me time and time again and I've tried everything. From sitting down and talking with him to putting the moves on him and even trying very open minded things.

Now, recently I've told him that if our sex life didn't improve that I would leave him. So you would think that he'd been pulling in overtime trying to please me but it's the opposite. He hasn't changed anything at all.

My self esteem is completely shot down. I have not changed in appearance and I know he is not cheating on me. So I'm at the end of my rope. Any suggestions as to what to do or even why he is being like this would help. Thanks.

2006-11-13 03:06:17 · 20 answers · asked by Minouners 3

Everyone has a different opinion on who they think is a good kisser. A 'good kisser' to someone might be a 'crappy kisser' to someone else. Do you think this depends on how much you like a person?

2006-11-13 03:05:42 · 12 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

I've liked this boy i've known since freshman year in high school and im now a senior in high school. I didn't know he liked me even though he would put himself out there. He knew i liked him though...but anyway everyone in my school knew we liked eachother during our freshman year he had a girlfriend that i didn't know about, they were on and off in their relationship. We would talk do things like go to the movies, go out to dinner , and just chill together. He's been over my house a few times and he even came to my house for Easter dinner.During that time he had a girlfriend and im thinking to my self why isn't he with her? he would also say things like he imagines what it would be like if he was with me and he wants to be with me but he can't break up with his girlfriend because he doesn't want to hurt her they've been together for 6 years now. I still like him but is he with his girl just because he doesn't want to hurt her ? and does anyone think we have a chance together?

2006-11-13 03:04:57 · 6 answers · asked by *~Pretty Smile~* 2

Are there any girls out there, who'd like to have a REAL relationship, instead of just using guys? We (guys) would like to find at least ONE female that is not into being users. Y'know, saying they want to be with us, then, as soon as you get what YOU want, you're gone. With NO regards for OUR feelings.

2006-11-13 03:04:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous