like when i ask him to go with me some where he makes up lies like i have to go study for my test.
Is he tired of me??
am i doing something wrong??
what should i do??..........................HELP ME PLEASSEE!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 03:21:06 · 15 answers · asked by ~deelishis kisses~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him to sit down and have a talk with you. Ask him things that are on your mind....like---
- Is something bothering you?
- Is everything ok with you in school, with your family, on your job? (Ask that first, your relationship may not be the problem. He may be having personal problems, but you can still help with that....to show you care)
- Are you happy with me?
- Are you happy with our relationship?
- Do you care about me....do you care about us?
- Is there anything that I could do different to make this relationship work?
Also, just be open and honest with him and tell him that it bothers you that he doesn't want to go out with you and do things with you. Doing things and being together is what couples do.
Best of LUCK!!
2006-11-13 03:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I helped my friend on this problem a long time ago. You will have to get him to talk to you and tell him how you feel, and if he has this "I Don't Care" attitude, then you need to leave him alone and let him go. Maybe he has goten too comfortable with you and think that nothing is going to happen between you two. You need to let him know this, or he's not going to want to be around you anymore.
2006-11-13 11:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was you... I would ask him about it. Make sure it is just you and him alone and talk about and see what he tells you. Dont argue just talk. I thought the same thing about my husband before we got married but it was just that he was under a lot of stress and had a lot going on in his head. So just ask him how is feelin and what is goin on?
2006-11-13 11:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him, ask the brother to tell you what is going on,
is he tired of you?
does he mind being seen with you in public places?
like why is he acting up, tell him how you feel and he should be able to straighten out things for you.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 11:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by buttercup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time that you are going somewhere, don't ask him, and if he says why you did not ask me, then you say, every time I use to ask you, you had an excuse. Now if you want to know what is going on with him, then you have to ask him. he is the only one who can tell you!
2006-11-13 11:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some space..he might just be getting frustrated with school work and everything..it happens..go out for an ight with your girls and tell him to go out for a night with the boys, u guys just might need some space..
or here's a thought
Ask him? hun we don't know whta he's feeling the only way to find out is, is you have to sit him down and talk to him.
2006-11-13 11:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Newfie_Girl_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, There's no way anyone on here would know. If you have questions about your relationship, the best person to turn to is the other person. If you can't do that then its not a relationship.
2006-11-13 11:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is using this time to be with someone else. I would just come right out and ask better to find out now then later. You have to communicate and just ask him whats up.
2006-11-13 11:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time just say "whatever! " With slight attitude. and if he stops you and gives an excuss you will have to decide if it is real or not. if so give him a break. and if not a good excuss and he bla, blas then move on.
2006-11-13 11:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ay,talk to him but babe if he is an oASSo then why stress???!!.If you got him you can certainly get another.Don't chase-just replace the mofo.p.C!R>
2006-11-13 11:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by Shalimaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋