Singles & Dating - 13 November 2006

My friends say that his friend says that he likes me (got it. hope so) ne way the basically say that he likes me but i so shy that i dont know wat to do. do i wait for him to make the first move or do i ask him if its true. we are currently friends but i am soooo confused some help!!!!

-please give nonhurtful answers. Thx.

2006-11-13 03:54:40 · 1 answers · asked by *Dat*-*Libra*-*Cutie* 3

* 6 years relationship
* he still madly in love with me (he turns violent to prevent me from leaving him)
* I dont trust him anymore
* No future or developement seems ahead

2006-11-13 03:54:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know him through my bestfriends family, he's a great guy, has never been married and doesn't have kids... but wants them. he just went the career path and those he's dated have cheated and left. there's always been flirting between us and I helped him move into his house... people thought we were moving in together cause i helped him shop for new things, sheets, lamps, dishes.. then I spent the day with his mother fixing the house up. I get along with his brothers and mother very well.. I am afraid to get involved more with him since I am only 21 i want to make sure its what i want before dating him I wouldn't want to hurt him.. this would be a big thing for both he an I to go through with how can I be sure its what I want, cause I know if I do date him and things go well for awhile he will ask me to marry him and that scared me, he already tells me what a great wife and mother I'd make one day. I just need some advice the story overall is long so if you want to know more email me.

2006-11-13 03:54:03 · 3 answers · asked by mk2004 2

ok lat week i told some one that i loved him and really care about him. he is yet to tlk to me and i am to scared to say ne thing to him. should i wait to see if he tlks to me or tlk to him? im sooooooo confussed he is like my best friend and im afraid i might have ruined it. 2 more blocks and i will c him but idnt know what to do.

2006-11-13 03:53:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my boyfriend 2 1/2 months ago. We were together for 4 years. I thought I was doing pretty well. I started a new hobby, made some new friends, got in touch with my old friends. But, I still find myself clinging to my ex. I don't need a loser like him in my life! He has a new girlfriend. He was mean to me and lied to me the last year of our relationship. I tell myself that I'm going to get rid of him for sure, but the next day I find myself calling him. And he calls me too. My friends seem to take forever to return my calls, but he's almost always available. I find myself checking my phone to see if he called. Sometimes I don't talk to him for days. Other times we talk 3 or 4 times in one day. I do miss the person he was the first 3 years of our relationship, but that's not who he really is. Maybe at first I wanted him back, but even if it's good at the beginning again, everything would go right back to the way it was. What's my problem?!

2006-11-13 03:53:15 · 12 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7

i knew him for years and i love him

2006-11-13 03:53:12 · 21 answers · asked by Pink 1

2006-11-13 03:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think he feels the same why I do, we have told each other how we feel, but never mentioned the big "L".
Do I wait for him, or just tell him? It’s killing me; I want him to know how much I really do care for him. BUT I don’t want him to feel he has to say it back. We have both been hurt in our last relationship - his last year, and mine early this year. We are both over it, but still scared of getting hurt!!!!
We spend every night together, and when we do spend the odd night apart, we are always txting each other till the early hours of the morning.
HELP

2006-11-13 03:48:12 · 18 answers · asked by Jelly 2

We love each other. We're attracted to each other. I treat her like a queen. So she pulls away. What's the deal? I saw her last night and everything was great, until we left. We kissed and she left, said she, "had to go home" like in a frantic way. Why do people deny themselves what they seemingly want? I am sure men do it, too, but what scares a woman about the prospect of a great relationship?

2006-11-13 03:47:53 · 9 answers · asked by randyken 6

I went on a few dates with this guy and it didn't work out and when he asked me why I told him it was because he wasn't mature enough and he got angry and stormed off. I thought that it wasn't a good way to handle it on his part but what do you guys think. Should I have been less stright forward or what? I just don't see skirting around the issue as a good way to let someone know something. I said it in as kind of a way that I could...

2006-11-13 03:47:31 · 17 answers · asked by kalynn h 2

why is it that a guy kisses you but doesn't ask you out or yet... what does it mean when he protect you and holds your hand??? why does he show off he is a pretty good driver....hugs , ect......
what is this really leading to??? tell me your predictions
even by being under the influence >>>>> i know he knows what he was doing.

2006-11-13 03:44:58 · 10 answers · asked by gina g 2

Is it a good idea to bring the girl to the zoo and have some fun on the first date???? capture all the nice moments with a digicam during date??? instead of bringing her to movies, which is a norm.

2006-11-13 03:44:22 · 31 answers · asked by tommyboy 1

eg first base, second base......etc

2006-11-13 03:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

We are not in a relationship yet but things are looking up. I was wondering how offten should i call her or text message her to say whats up. I don't want to bother her or seem like im always on her.

2006-11-13 03:43:25 · 4 answers · asked by Q 2

What should i do?
I kinda like a girl in the grade below me and i said that some friends and i are going to the movies tonight and u are more than welcome to come and then i said the same thing about going to a volleyball game. Before this she was really happy to see me and really cheery. Now she doesnt seem to notice me as well. Some people that know her said that before i asked all this she thought i was "pretty cool". Now they asked if she likes me and she told them she isnt sure or she doesnt know.I dont know now but what may be her problem and what should i do so she thinks i am pretty cool again? I also know that one of the kids in my grade dated her and he said she was HARD TO GET. how should i go about this if she is just playing hard to get?

2006-11-13 03:43:13 · 3 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1

2006-11-13 03:41:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HAVE CHILDREN AND I LIKE THIS GUY I AM SHY PLEASE HELP... he doesn't have children but he wants kids and when iam sad he asks me whats wrong and hugs me and doesn't care forhis girlfriend she treats him like ****. how do i show him i care? i would do anything for this one and i would hate myself if i passed this one up.please help me its driving me crazy. i want him to know but i don't want to cause a breakup. i just know that i would be good to him and he would treat me like a queen. my feelings are deep.

2006-11-13 03:41:24 · 4 answers · asked by rachael s 1

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now. Everything seems to be great, he's told me he loves me, and I love him. The only problem (for me, at least) is that he's still really close to his ex. He dated her for 3 years (they even lived together). They broke up right before he and I met. He's seen her once since they broke up, and apparently, she really wants him back. He assures me that he's over her, but I'm still really worried about him going home for winter break. He lives far away, and he said he thought it might be "too serious" or "too big of a deal" for me to come visit. I can understand that because we haven't been dating that long. At the same time, I'm worried about him seeing his ex again. Should I be worried or am I just being paranoid?

2006-11-13 03:41:09 · 4 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

Hi, there's this girl in my class that i really like. We speak to each other whenever we get the chance and she talks to me about how her weekend was and things she does in her spare time. When we speak to each other we allways make eyecontact and smile a lot.
She also sits next to me whenever she gets the chance. When we do, our feet make contact, but it's not like I hug her or hold her whenever I'm with her. Also when we say goodbye, she just smiles, waves and says see you tomorrow. Shouldn't I be like giving her a hug or something? I'm 15 and she's 16, I've never been in a real relationship, because I wasn't interested till i got older.

I recently heard she broke up with her boyfriend (which i didnt know about) and she is really starting to hang out with me more.
What I want to know is, does she like me more then just a friend, we've known each other for about a month now. We share a lot of hobbies and we hang out with the same people, so we have a lot in common...

2006-11-13 03:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My now ex-boyfriend shane got locked up for something and while he was locked started writing me letters accusing me of cheating on him. He never once would have thought such a thing until he got locked up. He was in jail for maybe 4 months and he recently got out. The entire time he was locked up I wrote him every day but yet now he doesn't want anything to do with me. He won't even speak to me at all. How should I emotionally take all this?

2006-11-13 03:40:53 · 10 answers · asked by Holly B 1

2006-11-13 03:39:00 · 20 answers · asked by Evan 1

I met a guy two weeks ago who lives pretty local. Ive spoke to him every day since and we've been in contact by text a few times each day.

He stayed over on Friday night and one thing led to another. I did say that i didnt want him to think bad of me as I never do this whole sleeping thing after such a short time!

He said that he wouldn't, that I'm lovely, he likes me etc etc, and he did text yesterday with all the "babe" and kisses etc but will he now lose interest taht ive given him what he wanted too early?

How do i go about finding out what he wants? do i wait to hear from him? or ring him or text etc?

2006-11-13 03:37:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 03:36:51 · 24 answers · asked by Johnboy 3

I have a boyfreind and we have been dating for 3 months but there is this guy that i meet and i relly like him im having trouble deciding witch one

2006-11-13 03:35:13 · 9 answers · asked by partybabe_59 2

Aren't you sick of answers that aren't really answers? Why doesn't anyone on this site actually ANSWER the question. The answers are always "neither" or "maybe" or a rebuttal question, never definate, never decisivie, never yes/no, never real. Instead it's some crap that make the answer look like, "hey, look at me, I'm thinking outside the box and I'm smarter than you, ha, ha."

Geez, anyone feel the way I do?

2006-11-13 03:34:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i used call this girl ova and ova and she told me to leave her alone, she said she didnt want me and neva did heres the trick she called my house and asked too speak too me, but when i confronted on it she said she never did? she says now i can call when eva i want, she said her mother told her if u cant beat them join them, she has a boyfriend who's 25 and has anitha baby by a girl ................is that relationship gonna last betrween them i neva met her in person only the net?

2006-11-13 03:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by robert t 1

I broke with my bf 6 months ago (we were together for 10 years) and we have a baby girl 3 years old. Although I feel I'm not over him yet, I'm seeing someone now, but it's nothing serious. I feel anxious about the relationship I have right now (if I can call it like that), and I really like this guy, who is a complete different version of my ex. As a matter of fact, I want to sleep with this guy, even that we have nothing serious. Don't take me wrong, I'm a very serious person, I'm not adventurous or like one-night-stand relationships, but I can't avoid feeling this way. Is it possible that my break up could be responsible of feeling like this? Sometimes I feel I have to force myself to date someone new, 'cause if I don't get over my ex, I will be alone forever. Help me, pls!!

2006-11-13 03:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by marylapana 2

Hiya guys

As some of you are aware i am quite shy and quiet and have liked this guy in work for awhile. The thing is we had 3 new girls in our room and the two are quite flirty and he had to train up one of the flirty gals. Since she started she has been over flirty with him. She had a boyfriend at the time but has now since broke up with him and now im worried shes after the guy i like as she made a comment today ohh had a haircut have you?and she seems to initate conversation everytime he comes in the room. So either she likes him as a friend, is generally flirty or wants more but if she does want him i dont stand much of a chance. Shes so much more confident than me shes been to uni so ozes confidence. Before she turned up i thought i was getting somewherre with the guy as we were getting to know oneanother as hes shy also

2006-11-13 03:29:39 · 12 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 years, and we live together. I discovered his online postings yesterday afternoon while trying to type in a URL for another website (a singles website appeared on the location bar, that's how I found out). I had planned to go with him on his business trip to Vegas this weekend, but all of a sudden I "couldn't", and now I know why. My boyfriend picked up the woman he's seeing, and they went up together. I feel like a complete moron, not to mention my heart is beyond broken. Any advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated. We've been working on the growing pains in our relationship, and right up until yesterday, I had been so happy with the way things were going. Now, I'm just shattered. Thanks.

2006-11-13 03:28:10 · 19 answers · asked by misswrite1 6

Most of our lives we have believed that size matters. Well in some cases it is very true. But, have you ever had that one. Who is probably not as well in doubt as some of the others. But, for some reason he is so much better in bed.

2006-11-13 03:26:59 · 14 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3