i knew him for years and i love him
2006-11-13 03:53:12 · 21 answers · asked by Pink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him...offcourse he will have no problem.. unless if he's gay:P
2006-11-13 03:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old question give the year we live in. But here's the deal:
Next time you meet...
1. Tease
2. Relax
3. Have fun
4. Tease some more
5. Do something exciting (like a rollercoaster, a scary house, or something that engages you emotionally)
6. Tease
7. Go to either one's home
8. Watch a movie
9. Cuddle
10. Kiss
You take it from there. If he likes you, he'll go for it. If he doesn't, push a little further just to test, and then back down if he is still hesitant.
That's pretty much how it works.
Be safe.
And good luck.
2006-11-13 11:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience you have a better chance of the friendship surviving or becoming a closer relationship in the event that you tell him as you are a girl. This is not sexist, but girls to tend to freak when their guy-friends develop feelings for them - more so than guys do in the reverse situation.
Be careful though. Some guys are ruled by one thing above all else, so unless you are sure that your friend would either return your feelings genuinely or would accept them without taking issue, don't tell him. Some men would use that to take advantage.
You know the guy - if you think he feels the same, tell him. If you think he "wouldn't mind" but wouldn't feel the same, then tell him also. If you think he might use you for easy sex, don't say a thing!
2006-11-13 11:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He will look at you with new feelings. Hopefully sex will be great and you can love him forever. Nothing like having your best friend as the love of your life. At the same time, there is the possibility of sex being so-so and you guys being uncomfortable with each other after that. Will you be able to go back to being the same best friends prior to making love? Think about it. I say that you tell him for all its worth. I want it to so much happen for you. :-)
2006-11-13 11:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is open up and tell him what's going on in your head and your heart. Who knows, he just might feel the same way about you. So I think you should take a chance and find out.
2006-11-13 12:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him how u feel about him, ask him out and after a couple of months together he mite ask u if u want to have sex with him if he doesnt u should tell him
remember if u have someone in ur head and u cant get him outta there then he's meant to be with u
2006-11-13 11:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. Did you enjoy? If yes, tell him and also ask him to dream so but not yet real!
2006-11-13 11:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he also love you.then express yourself as he fills and attracted towards you for sex.but never ask him society dose not give a respectable for free mind lady discussion with opposite sex.
2006-11-13 11:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is free (no relationship), then just tell him and ask him if he feels the same way. That simple. Good luck.
2006-11-13 11:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him...or dont. its not a big deal. everyone has sex dreams about their friends.
2006-11-13 11:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess maybe you should tell him how you feel since he might feel the same way but dosen't know how you will react
2006-11-13 11:55:23 · answer #11 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋