My ex had an ex wife and two kids, he lived with his mom and was in debt, he even owes IRS and sometimes his wages was garnished. He is also a motivational speaker, and is well known in his community for his atletic accomplishment in high school, college and even professional. He is a local hero and people admire and look up to him. He is very handsome and has a very nice body. What I don't understand is why is he so insecure, why is he always trying to shine and prove things to people. Why when he got an apartment he changed and treated me like he didn't care. We were always having problems because of his accusations and insecurities and I was always trying to brake up with him but he would never leave me alone. I feel that he changed me I felt myself being a grouch and being jealous and insecure. Two insecure people can't be together, I hated the way he treated people like he was above and always angry. He was a caring passionate romantic boyfriend but I just don't understand!
2006-11-13 03:26:44 · 4 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
zzzzzz.....what?...oh, sorry, fell asleep!
2006-11-13 03:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, what??? You cant be an accomplished person and a total loser at the same time... well, at least REAL people cant.
You say he's an accomplished person, yet he cant keep the
IRS off of him?
Looks like the first thing he needs to do is get some self-respect and maturity... unfortunate for him, it's not something you can buy or coax people out of.
2006-11-13 11:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that people are like metals, you have to rub them to find out what exactly they are made of. Seems like your ex belong to that era of your life: The Ex. Keep him there.
2006-11-13 11:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a new man who will treat you better.
2006-11-13 11:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by webwriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋