my ex bf, we work together and i though i was over him, but i am not! he's back with his old ex now, and he says he is in love with her... I would really love to have him back....i ask but he says that there;s no point!!!
i love talking to him, but cant stand it when he has "love you suuss'' on his msn.. breaks my heart every time..
i want him back so i though that if we could just be really good friends he could she he still likes me, but i dont think i can stand one more ' i love u suus'' stuff!!!
i know i cant make him love me :(
so what should i do?? i really want him back!!!
i should remain friends and talk to him etc and when they break up... how knows...????
should i leave it and see what he does.... ????
please help me, i tried looking really hot around him, but it backfired, he realised i only did this because i wanted him back :(
please help me, i want him back...
2006-11-13 03:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not sure you want to know what you should do...because You know you have to move on and you still think about him might break up with his current gf?
why do you want to be the second choice while there are many who can make you feel real love...Just delete and ignore him and try to forget about him..past has passed ..so live in present..you'll find the right one i promise!
2006-11-13 03:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that we all felt what you are feeling at one time or another and the best answer i have for you is take a step back and be extremely honest with yourself...The real question is why would you want to start a relationship with someone new or old based on insecurities like jealousy and rage because that is what the situation sounded to me? Love is not something that brings out those emotions, only fear, insecurity, lloneliness and low self esteem can make you question on if you should persue this guy...take care of yourself, take this time to learn who you are and figure out what you want in life so that way you will know where to look for love because you will know exactly what you are looking for. I wish you well and i hope everybody in your situation the same. Love yourself because your sound like someone that deserves it. Be happy
2006-11-13 11:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tanya F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too help yourself you may need a change, change jobs! You two can't be friend right now, especially that he doesn't want it. Try your hardest to stay busy and focus on things out side of him so you can clear your head. Its going to hurt like hell and sometimes you may not be able to help yourself, but do it for you. You maybe feeling jealous now that he has someone, thats normal just don't go out of your way to imbarrass your self or impress him. Please try to move on it only fare to you and also I know you don't want to hear this but the woman he's with. Be a woman about it, you would hate another woman to be after your man. So just try as hard as you can.
2006-11-13 11:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to just leave it,he's made it clear hes not wanting a relationship with you and your only going to hurt more the longer you carry this on. If it upsets you that much with the messages on his msn then just delete his contact so you cant see them,your making things worse for yourself. I know how hard it can be to let go,I've been there myself but you have to.
2006-11-13 11:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i now how you feel. something very similar happened to me. take my advice stop talkin to him. just let go of him nd i would even change jobs too. and once time has passed without seeing him then you will realize that maybe it wasnt love. get out there and date. and then time will heal you. just try not to think about him. believe me its going to be hard but its the only way. if anything just hit me up.
2006-11-15 11:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, he has made his feeling clear...you cannot be friends ..once lovers can't go back to being friends..it doesn't work
2006-11-13 11:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
olly kow,,,whats ur problem,,i think u need profession help
2006-11-13 11:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋