Just do it!
I had this huge crush on this guy for 4 years but i didnt say anything. When we left school, i regretted it. Then i met him at a pub. I was drunk. I spilled it all as a joke. I still remember the look on his face.
Anyways, we got together.
2006-11-13 03:15:35
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answered by fantacia 2
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Putting yourself out there and telling a guy you like them is always a risk. But think about this: You don't have him now because he doesn't know. You may not ever have him if you don't tell him. What do you have to lose?
Find a way to tell him that's private, to protect him from having to deal with a public display if he wants to tell you he likes you, and to protect you if he turns you down. Be prepared for either answer and ready to accept a turn down, just in case.
Guys deal with the same issues when they are interested in a girl. Hopefully, he is mature enough to realize that and take your feelings into consideration.
Don't scare him by using the word "love" or coming on too strong. Just tell him your enjoy being around him and are interested in getting to know him better. Suggest that if he would like to get to know you better too, you'd like to date and spend more time together to see how things develop.
Put those thoughts in your own words and go with it. Again, be prepared for anything he might say. Most guys are at least flattered that a girl is interested in them. They are pretty egotistical about it actually! LOL So even if he turns you down, if he's any kind of a man, he will turn you down graciously, and have concern for your feelings. If he doesn't, he sure wasn't worth it anyway. :o)
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-13 03:23:01
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answered by newbiegranny 5
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A favorite quote of mine is this: Why not go out on a limb? That's where the fruit is. What's the worst thing that can happen to you if you tell him? You won't die, that's for sure. Be brave. Most people love to hear when someone likes them. who wouldn't? If he freaks out, at least you'll know he wasn't worth it. but you'll never know unless you try. You can also write him a few lines on a card and give it to him. That way, if he rejects you by not responding, you save face and have your answer. Be confident and go forth. You are a young woman of strength and power.
2006-11-13 03:16:44
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answered by Nose 2
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Just tell him how you feel. It's not necessarily how you do it that matters but it's all in just letting him know. You could also try being more flirty or checking him out looking at him or always being near him. He'll get the picture hopefully. Don't be too overbearing tho. My advice is just say it girl. "I like you (his name) and I think you're really cute. Do you wanna date me some time?" Some thing like that. Try it.
2006-11-13 03:16:40
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answered by dave_83501 4
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Well you talk then send littel hints like fix your hair or tell your freinds that cant keep a secret and it's the same thing
2006-11-13 03:14:58
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answered by partybabe_59 2
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Just pull him to the side,and tell him that you're intrested in him....rejection may happen,but hey what's life without some risk!
2006-11-13 03:15:27
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answered by Anonymous
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take him aside discreetly one day, so not many people notice you are gone, tell him subtly, and finish by saying: "i just wanted to let you know"
good luck!
2006-11-13 03:21:53
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answered by Anonymous
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whever u and him r alone say, 'u don't need 2 get mad @ me or anything. but i'm dying 2 tell u that i kinda have feelings 4 u...kinda like...i dunno...mayb love??'
2006-11-13 03:15:15
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answered by sαrαн♥mıss ©υяlz 3
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Well try this, (persons name) I like you and was wondering if i could get your number?
2006-11-13 03:14:33
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answered by Saints friend 3
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get a daisy,,and pluck its pedals,,he love me,,he loves me not,,he love me,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
2006-11-13 03:15:25
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answered by Anonymous
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