I've liked this boy i've known since freshman year in high school and im now a senior in high school. I didn't know he liked me even though he would put himself out there. He knew i liked him though...but anyway everyone in my school knew we liked eachother during our freshman year he had a girlfriend that i didn't know about, they were on and off in their relationship. We would talk do things like go to the movies, go out to dinner , and just chill together. He's been over my house a few times and he even came to my house for Easter dinner.During that time he had a girlfriend and im thinking to my self why isn't he with her? he would also say things like he imagines what it would be like if he was with me and he wants to be with me but he can't break up with his girlfriend because he doesn't want to hurt her they've been together for 6 years now. I still like him but is he with his girl just because he doesn't want to hurt her ? and does anyone think we have a chance together?
2006-11-13 03:04:57 · 6 answers · asked by *~Pretty Smile~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to hurt your feelings, but the short answer is no.
Honey remember, liking a boy and a boy claiming he likes you is much different from him being honest and making a committment" to you. That is the magic word. All else is garbage. Start learning now, not to be someone's "sloppy seconds." If he has a girlfriend, bow out with your dignity still intact. Make a man honor you.
Him spending time with you when he has a girlfriend of 6 years is cheating, plain and simple. Ask yourself if you would like to know that your boyfriend was spending time with another woman when he wasn't around you? If not, honor their relationship. Remember, Karma is a (MF).
You sound young and believe me you have a lot of life to live and alot of boyfriends to come, don't waste your precious time and reputation on a cat like this. He is trying to juggle two women, and it sounds like he really doesn't know how.
2006-11-13 03:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by tigertate2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't love her , he is already hurting her, the best thing he can do is let her go so she can find someone that love her, and he is just scared to do some thing , because if you think that she is happy , i believe that she is the the most hurted person in all this and this has to stop
2006-11-13 11:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm...this is hard. you know what? i bet his girlfriend is more worried than you are, she's probably thinking "why is he having dinner with her instead of me? why is he at the movies with her...?"
i bet she knows there's something wrong here. you should talk to him, ask him if he is seriuos about his girlfriend. tell him that he shouldn't string her along, if she knew, it would probably really hurt her that he's only with her out of pity...ask him straight out: "do you want to be with me or with her?", coz you can't stay like this forever
2006-11-13 11:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u shuldnt mess wit him if he has a gurlfrend!!!
thats a big NO NO NO!! n i bet the only reezon why hes at cho howse is cuz prolly he is free loadin off you..
jus leave him alone n if he wont brake up wit her he still must care...
2006-11-13 11:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by Precious J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so but shall decide when we meet!
2006-11-13 11:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only God knows the answer
2006-11-13 11:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋