Everyone always tells me that he's womanizer, but he doesn't act anything like that around me. He's sweet, gentle and caring. He doesn't deny that he was a player in the past, though. He says he's changed. Should I believe him, or is it just a game he's playing with my head?
2006-11-13 03:25:59 · 21 answers · asked by AJailah T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes people do change when they find that special someone. Only u will be able to tell if he is sincere or not. Try being around him but don't wear your heart on your sleeve and fall fast. Even be honest with him and say " Look I would love to spend time with you and get to know u , we both know your reputation so it will be a slow go, if you're expecting for us to jump into bed and tell u I just love u , it isn't going to be that easy. If he isn't pushy and really wants to get to know u, it could turn out to be a good thing. Just be careful. The other thing if u can't be with him and constantly wonder if he is with another woman when he isn't with u, that could be a problem. GOOD LUCK Remember everybody deserves a chance.
2006-11-13 03:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by confused/hurt/angry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really a womanizer, he wont tell you " baby am a player so be careful with me", hell no, the man will be gentle and caring, which is what he is doing.
What does your heart tell you, he may say he has changed and all when all he wants is you, brace yourself for a heartbreak, once a player, oways a player.
2006-11-13 11:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by buttercup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havn't you heard the snake story. "let me type it out for you". A guy walking down the road on a cold day seen a snake in the road that could talk. The man was taken back by this and asked why the snake was in the road. Cold and almost froze to death the snake replied that he was on the brink of death and that if the walker would just put him in his jacket and warm him up he would not bite him. The guy does it and soon they are walking and talking about lifes problems. About 10 miles into it the snake bit the man causing him to fall to his knees. The guy asked why did you bite me after you said you wouldn't. The snake laughed and said. I am a snake. That is what I do. Moral of this story........This guy will bite you as well!
2006-11-13 11:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Players are sweet, gentle, caring, romantic, and very very supportive! With you, and her, and her, and her....
If you think he has changed, then proceed with caution. Seriously, take your time with the whole thing.
Players have patience beyond your imagination! Since you know his past, you can protect yourself until you know he is a nice guy, and has changed for the better.
2006-11-13 11:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by LucyLinnae M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you. As long as you keep in mind that people have this concept of this person. Red flags are up high, but if you chose to play your flag might burn. Is this what you really want for yourself? What would you tell a friend, if they asked you this question? Your answer is within, the only thing is making it surface. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-13 11:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by sheriff groupie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ay,once a cheater always a cheater.People do change when they want to but when they do truly change they will explicitly show it because it will important to them.If you have doubts going into it then why bother investing in to a potential situation such as this.Are you desperate?Take it slow because people always reveal themselves-you just have to accept what is shown.If you dive into this situation then forgive me for Being an asshole but you deserve what you get!!!!!!p.C!R>.
2006-11-13 11:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Shalimaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't bother with him. Him being sweet, gentle and caring is all part of the game.
2006-11-13 11:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by KokoCutie272006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be either one, the bad part is that you have to decide which one it true for yourself. I would say watch his actions when you are around others, if his eyes wander around the room a lot then it might be best to let him keep looking.
2006-11-13 11:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Smoke Eater 512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are falling for the trap. The non-denial is part of the trap as well. I am not saying he is a bad guy, but if you want to make yourself another statistic, get involved with him.
The risk is yours to take, so don't blame him if you end up getting hurt.
2006-11-13 11:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by konstipashen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why they call him a womanizer!
Give him a chance if you want but KNOW that he's probably playing you. Turn the table and play him. That could be fun.
2006-11-13 11:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋