CrazyK, if you're so conviced that you love each other in the way you've portrayed it here, then forget about age difference, and continue with your love life. I'm an un-repentant antagonist of age-mate loving. The most important thing, to me, is LOVE and nothing else. Cheers!
2006-11-13 03:31:37
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answered by mykemejeje 5
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By 21 this guy has had multiple sex partners and has experienced a lot of the sourness life has to offer when you're an adult. I think that a 21 yr old who finds a 15 year old attractive is a pedophile. So say you start talking because you like each-other. You get knocked up. You turn 30 in 15 years. You now have a husband who is a pedophile with a 15 yr old in your home. If I had a dollar for every time I've seen this situation. I'd be rich. NO it's not OK for him to like you. It is normal for you to be interested because you're growing up. You're not quite there yet though. Think hard about this issue. I had guys hitting on me when I was 15 that were in their 20's and some in their 30's. At the time I was smart enough to know they were perverts. But now that I'm in my late 20's I understand fully how sick these types of guys are. I hope I have helped you.
2006-11-13 11:19:07
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answered by Anonymous
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You know...life can be so complicated...especially at 15...why add confusion to an already confusing time in ones life...You have to ask yourself...is this really going to add to my quality of life...or is it going to take from it by making it really complicated...I can understand how an older guy (assuming it is a guy), seems more interesting, not to mention no longer being in the boys stick together club (high school)...but you just need to be happy being15 right now...don't get involved with something that is never going to go anywhere...anywhere good anyhow....If you are lonely and find it difficult to be involved in school activities....look outside of school, find a way to be involved in something positive, like raising money for a worthy cause...live beyond yourself and you will find fullfillment in that for a season...good luck dear.
2006-11-13 11:25:41
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answered by ticklemeblue 5
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Yes, it is wrong....You are only 15 years old, what the heck would you have in common with a 21 year old?
2006-11-13 11:15:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Well there's talking and then theres _talking_. There's nothing wrong with it per sé, but the 21yr old should be acting very responsibly and you should be questioning his/her intentions.
I know I may sound like a patronising old whiner - but when you get to 21 yourself, you'll understand why people raise eyebrows. Trust me.
Everyone should be able to speak to who they want to - i'd recomend just to be VERY careful.
2006-11-13 11:19:31
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answered by Sir Digby Chicken Bhuna 3
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I'm 25..take it from me...if a 21 year old guy likes you...he wants to sleep with you,he may think you are nice,but he definately wants MORE than friendship,and someone to "talk" to..
2006-11-13 11:20:43
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answered by Anonymous
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As long is talking is all that is going on, well that should not be wrong. You are too young for anything serious now, in my opinion anyway and he should be old enough not to start anything serious. Being friends is harmless. Enjoy it if you have alot in common. You can never have too many friends.
2006-11-13 11:17:23
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answered by chocoholic_40 2
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yes how can you have that much in common? When I was 21 I didnt have anything in common with a 15yr girl. Guy just wants to get in your pants.
2006-11-13 11:16:48
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answered by intel233 4
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What could you possibly have in common with a 21 year old. He wants one thing and one thing only. He'll tell you anything you want to hear to get it.>
2006-11-13 11:16:48
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answered by Captain Comment 4
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Wait 5 years and see how you or he feels at that time, because then it wont be a problem.
2006-11-13 11:21:32
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answered by Anonymous
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