Are there any girls out there, who'd like to have a REAL relationship, instead of just using guys? We (guys) would like to find at least ONE female that is not into being users. Y'know, saying they want to be with us, then, as soon as you get what YOU want, you're gone. With NO regards for OUR feelings.
2006-11-13 03:04:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, girls wonder this very same question about guys all the time. Guys certainly don't have the monopoly on being fed-up with the opposite sex. Be patient. You'll find someone soon enough.
2006-11-13 03:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by SuperAmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have been hurt and your still pretty angry. I won't go into, the door swings both way. Sometimes it may be the choice in women. A lot of men are looking for show pieces. Someone they can be proud to have on their arm when they walk into a place.
I have known girls that were considered hot. But that was all they had to offer. All they cared about was their appearance (Hair, nails, clothes, etc) They were out to get what they could. They felt the world owed them and they deserved everything.
I on the other hand. Love to dress up like a girly girl, go to clubs and shopping. Yet I am an artist, a writer. I love to go for nature walks, fishing. I am not worried about breaking a nail or getting dirty. My appearance isn't everything to me. I support myself and always have. I don't need a man in my life. I want one.
So to soothe your wounds. Not all women are gold diggers and users. Get to really know someone first. Get past the cover and read the book inside. From a real chick.
2006-11-13 03:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, I find this true of both men and women. It is getting harder and harder to find someone who truly wants to be in a relationship anymore. I'm lucky to have found a man who has been true to me. It seems like the world is falling apart at the seams and everyone is cheating on everyone. My big question today is "Does anyone have morals anymore?" I feel you and just know that Miss Right is out there. Don't give up hope.
2006-11-13 03:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do! I love my husband very much and I simply don't know what I'd do without him. I married him when he didn't have any money, just the love he could give me was enough. Now, he's got a wonderful job and makes a lot of money and so do I, but no sum amount of money will ever replace him if something happens to him. I love him! Good luck and I hope you find a girl that loves you the way that I love my sweet husband.
2006-11-13 03:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rosalind55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since my last boyfriend was an alcoholic who only kept me around for sex and dumped me over the phone as soon as I started saying you know, it bothers me that you haven't called me for the last four days, I have to say that it cuts both ways.
As for your specific questions, you're probably going for the wrong girls. Try looking beyond the surface, because a lot of women (not all of us, but an awful lot of us) who look great on the outside don't have much going on on the inside.
2006-11-13 03:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh whatever, get over it. In every relationship there is using. Guys use chicks also, yes even you. You may be afraid to admit it, but I dont need you to...we all know the truth. And if you were naive enough to let someone rip you off then consider it a learning lesson. Dont be offended by what I say just consider it.
2006-11-13 03:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by starbrite 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow i'll tell you something for nothing mate, that's exactly what i find only with the opposite sex, so instead of it being the using girls, i find that it is the men that use and abuse etc etc. But when you really think about its really just a matter of finding the right person for yourself isn't it?. xx
2006-11-13 03:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by muncher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same for us women, all we get are the guys who only want to have sex with you and the one guy who wants a relationship is in one.
2006-11-13 03:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I am such a down to earth girl. I have been told by like alot of guys. I seem to always have the REAL problem with guys. (no offense) but it is true.
2006-11-13 03:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by kalikute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what your problem i but not all girls are like that because im not im actually looking for a real relatonship but all the guys i date are players so technically it goes the same for the girls not all guys want a real realtionship so yeah
2006-11-13 03:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋