Ok, so my best friend is a girl (i'm a guy) we are 15 (mature) and have known each other for 2 years. Recently-for about the last two weeks- she has been asking for hugs alot, almost every day, and keeps saying she loves me. She had never done either of these before. But the thing is, she has a boyfriend (16), so I dont know what is up with the hugging etc. all of a sudden. I like her more than a friend and I have to tell her (I will wait till she breaks up with the guy), but I want to know, why might she be getting more touchy so much so quickly? If I am walking her home she puts her arm around me, and the other day I just made the flippant comment; hey, the cat's giving me a back rub, none of ye are that nice (to a group of friends) and she said "I'd give you a back rub". I find this behaviour odd since she has a bf. And whatever you think on the matter, could you try to give reasons, because I am trying to work this out.
2006-11-13 03:13:43 · 11 answers · asked by flaminious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Enjoy it!!
She's probably not happy with the guy that she's with. I think she REALLY likes you. Go for it.
BTW...There is no mature 15 yr olds. You'll learn that later.
2006-11-13 03:20:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, we sometimes realize we like someone and really don't know what the other person will say about it, so we "hint" that other person in order to get something like a response. If you like her and you are such good friends I'd say you talk about this situation with her, make sure you are in a neutral zone and nobody else can listen to the conversation; this will let her be open and tell you what is really going on. Remember to be careful with the words you chose and your body language if you want an honest answer.
I hope that helped.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-13 11:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by estudiante confundida 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she's more into you then her current bf. Why? Well that's the real question here aint it. Maybe he's cheat(ing)(ed) on her and she knows about it. Or she's breaking up with him cuz of non compatability or some thing. It's a deffinate that she's into you and wants you as a future bf. But maybe you should just ask her. Don't scare her off tho. Hmm. Good luck with all that.
2006-11-13 11:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not really sure but i THINK she kind of started to feel like she loves u (in a boy f way) coz she might b having a prob. w/ her current bf so she wants 2 no that some1 loves her and feels safe with. mayb u should talk to her. she might also want 2 get rid of her bf and she wants u 2 ask her out or something.
2006-11-13 11:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by sαrαн♥mıss ©υяlz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i have to ask......are you from nfld by chance? just something in the way you wrote that....
anyway in answer to your question...yes the girl has developed more than just friendly feelings for you. perfectly normal. at 15 you are allowed to do this. you are supposed to do this. not a thing wrong with it. why don't you try talking to her about it and see what happens.....you will be amazed at how easy it is once you actually just start communicating and stop trying to guess what the other is thinking.....good luck
2006-11-13 11:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by bella36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you ask her why she has changed all of a sudden. Ask her of its cool to act this way knowing she has a boyfriend because if she is doing this to you , and has a boyfriend, she would do it to any boyfriend she has, even it turned out to be you next. You should just find out what her intentions are.
2006-11-13 11:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Thumper 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK you just need to ask her if she has feelings for you and if she says yes then tell her how you feel maybe you will start dating
if you need someone to talk to just I'm me
2006-11-13 11:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by softballengend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i'm 15 and there is no such thing as a mature 15 year old...but anyways go for the kill...in other words...BANG her already
2006-11-13 11:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her too make a move
2006-11-13 11:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by girl24gr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young....her having a boyfriend doesnt mean she doesnt have feelings for you...she probably does.
2006-11-13 11:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋