Singles & Dating - 6 November 2006

I split up with my ex two months ago. She used to live with me but moved out. she wanted to end the relationship but every week or so she contacts me to say she has left this or that and wants to pick it up.. and it is always a small items like like DVD etc. I have told her that it's too painful to see her and would rather she stay away and leave me to grieve alone and move on. why does she keep doing this when she does not want the relationship any more???? I'm so confused!

2006-11-06 00:57:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half. Last week he told me he didnt love me and never had. I cant understand it because he used to tell me all the time, now he says he just said it to keep me happy. He says he's never loved anyone before so he might love me but he just doesnt know what it is. He doesnt want out relationship to end and he says i mean everything to him and would be devestated if anything ever happened to me. To me none of this makes any sense and i just dont know what to do. I love him so much and it feels like my world would be over without him. I live with him and we spend all our time together but i just dont know if im being treated like a fool. He treats me well too which makes this even harder. please help and give me some outside advice

2006-11-06 00:56:59 · 16 answers · asked by taylor17689 1

This last weekend I found out that.. awhile ago my girlfriend got drink and.... did something that changed our relationship. Any ideas of what I should do? and before any of you say something, I still love her and no i'm not going to break up with her.

2006-11-06 00:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by vampire_ryooshi 2

i feel sad is right or not if i die because i can not live with out him

2006-11-06 00:55:28 · 14 answers · asked by 2Q 3

my parents still havent allowed me to have a boyfriend and i have been talking to this guy for 5 months already, he is really nice and hes smart, and we like eachother alot, we messed around a couple of times too. my family knows his family very welll, but my dad is judging him from his family, since he dont liek his grandmother cause he thinks they do wichcraft or voodoo. but my grandmother wants me to be with him and she would help me get together with him if my dad accepts it. should i tell my dad the truth about how i really feel, i mean its like we love eachother and we cant stay away from eachother, i want to be him so bad but he wants my dad to accept him, so should i ask my dad for permission and pray that he understands how i feel about this guy?

2006-11-06 00:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by emaria 2

help

2006-11-06 00:52:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy friend that I'm pretty good friends with asked if i wanted to sleep in his bed last night. I was in his house and it was kinda late and I had to go home. Does any guy ask a girl to sleep in his bed in a platonic way or was he hinting at something more? Help - very confused!

2006-11-06 00:51:15 · 19 answers · asked by bella.donna0 1

Here's what I look like:

http://www.djgamble.com/7.jpg

I'm a really easy going bloke and treat women with a lot of respect. I just can't understand why I've been single for the past 6 months, and the last 2 girls I was with felt it appropriate to dump me over sms (not because I'd done anything wrong, but because they found someone 'better').

Where do I find someone who is a) interested in my type and b) not constantly searching for alternatives?

2006-11-06 00:50:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

after he gone i feel i want to die and i felt very hate him and i was cry about 2 day now after he gone i want to see him again but i don't know how

2006-11-06 00:49:48 · 7 answers · asked by 2Q 3

When a man enters his 40's, has a slight pudge and a balding head are there any women in their 20's/30's interested in his mind more than his body?

2006-11-06 00:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by Patrick B 3

I finished a 7 yr relationship and I regret it now, he was my first love and we grew apart, we moved in together then I found out he was cheating so I moved home we split up for 6 mths and then I took him back. I found it hard to trust him and I was going out more and I liked being single in them 6 mths, so I finished him over the phone. I know that is terrible and I really regret it now but at the time I knew if I did it face to face I would of chickened out! I needed to be single for a while and we agreed no contact but I want him back! How can I get him back????

2006-11-06 00:49:45 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2

I've been seeing my boyf for about 7 months. We've been friends for over a yr. Before me, my boyf had been going out with someone for about 5 years. He is 22 and I am 27. He broke up with his ex as he realised he had feelings for me. I think the world of him.
He had planned to go away with his ex girlfriend in September travelling and teaching English as a foreign language. This has been delayed but is still on the horizon. He has now been offered a job in Hong Kong, where his ex is now living and working. I feel really bad about him going away (he doesnt know how long he'll be away for and it all depends on how it goes) but especially bad about the prospect of him being in the same place as his ex. They obviously have alot of history together and are still in touch from time to time as they have savings together. I know he still cares about her and I understand this. I respect that he'd planned to do this and its part of his development. But i'm hurt and confused. Please help.

2006-11-06 00:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by kelly 2

This life is ful of mysteries! What if after the first time she/he decides to dump you, you forgive, the emotions start all over again and then they wait until you open up, become so vulnerable and then they hit you where it hurts most, again? Can that stop you from going back or into another relationship? Not to someone who has feelings for others, people with sincerety in thier minds, they learn to live again!

2006-11-06 00:48:08 · 24 answers · asked by Eljose 1

Your therapist says there is nothing wrong with living together without marriage. Your family is very religious, and they say they would accept it, but they would never like it. Actually you are a religious woman yourself. Anyway, you know you dont have many options as you are divorced, over 30 and it is not easy to get relationships... Anyway you dont like the siutation, and when you have to make plans for this 'living together' arrangements, you make them with a heavy heart and no enhthusiam. Should you do it anyway? Should you think: "At my age, at the 21rst century, what else should I expect to find?" Should you think you can get used to that later, and that living together can not be as serious as a marriage but it must be better than living alone? But if you tell yourself all these things and deep inside your heart you are still sad cause despite of what everyone says, you are not that person? You are conservative, you are yourself? :-( Which advice would you give to a friend

2006-11-06 00:47:12 · 6 answers · asked by Graça 3

There's a girl who is 20 and i'm 3 years younger. She did give me clue that we should get attach, but i'm just not ready. I don't want to lose her and i do know she really needs a bf. There's also another guy who is in his 20 and he likes her too. I don't want him to snatch away from me...Help...what do i do?

2006-11-06 00:44:38 · 11 answers · asked by Red Beret 1

It kills my hands cuz I have carpal tunnel and besides, I think the man should do that anyways!!

2006-11-06 00:44:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok first of all you're 19 and you're dating a 43yr old man who's been your best friend that you met online three years ago. Three years ago he dated your sister who was 14 at the time but she broke it off three years later.(I'm not any of them)

Ok since you are dating he's been calling this other girl on her twenties that you don't know about at all, he'd call her three to four times a week and they'd talk until midnight or later,. But how would you feel if your boyfriend was asking this girl what she looked like down there? wanted to know what every inch of her body looked like? And she didn't bring this on but you don't know that.

How would you feel?

2006-11-06 00:43:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 00:43:10 · 19 answers · asked by James E 2

just out of curiosity , what do you sleep with ?. ie bolster, pillows, soft toys ?

i have 1 bolster and 3 pillows as well as a comforter and a blanket. haha , there;s never enough room on my bed. lol

2006-11-06 00:42:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you determine if someone is looking for a quick **** or seriously interested in getting to know you without offending them.

I’m not looking for a one night stand, a hook up or anything like that (never appealed to me), but then again, I’m not looking for marriage tomorrow! I just don’t know how to determine this without offending the person (trust me I did that already and put not only my foot in my mouth but my ankle and calf too!)

I’m 29 years old, so I should have my “game” together, but I spent 7 years in a relationship and have been single/dating for the last 2 years. I dunno, any advice is appreciated.

2006-11-06 00:41:54 · 16 answers · asked by Lil Jello 3

ok seriously,, why is this question suggested to go into the gay and lesbian section.?? and ive been called rude......

2006-11-06 00:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by nodumgys 7

im scared to

2006-11-06 00:39:35 · 26 answers · asked by alex m 1

I was dating this guy for about 5 months and he is an amazing guy and was wonderful to myself and my 4 yr old but he has a past with drugs and lately he's been drinking which makes him act like a totally different person and I hate it. Over the past few weeks we've been a bit more distant because he's been acting unlike himself. Sat. we were going to spend the day together and when I got there the first thing he did was look through my phone and called the last few #'s from the night before which were my parents # and brother in law. We'll after he did that it seemed like he did a 360 and so I asked him if he wanted us to leave and he said yes. I left and he kept trying to call but I wouldn't answer. Finally he texted me that he got the point and basically we texted each other back and forth all day with really hurtful things. He started it and I should have stopped it but he was hurting me and I reacted. In one of his texts he told me he's been cheating on me. He's still trying..

2006-11-06 00:37:50 · 14 answers · asked by Tricia P 1

2006-11-06 00:37:41 · 16 answers · asked by Siu02rk 3

I've been dating a woman for 5 years, we met online, had a long distance thing for a few yrs, and finally I have relocated to her State and moved in with her.
We have been living together for 6 months now, her friends have started hanging out at her house, she said they never did this until I moved in, well a few of her friends started making passes at me, and I ended up sleeping with 3 of her friends. I am starting to feel little bad about it, I dont want to tell her, but i think if i stop sleeping with her friends they will tell.... Buts its really getting hard to keep up with all of them plus my old lady,, any advice?

2006-11-06 00:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by MikeDONG 1

A guy at work recently told me he's interested in me and invited me to church. He knows I have a boyfriend but he'd like for us to be friends (Rough patch w/ boyfriend, I'm intrested in him too but....). I haven't been to a service in 14 yrs, and unfortunately i didn't go due to work. Last night, Sunday, he told me he's a actual preacher!!! Honestly I was a little intimidated b4 because he seems to have everything in the world, and to like me, little miss dont have much, it was just a little intimidating bcuz i'm thinking he'd act differently if he really knew i dont have much. But now, I'm terrified. He's 28, preaching 4 7yrs, has a church staff, music production company, sings, writes, & produce, and i'm 20 doing a bunch of nothing. He's a nice person, but ....I just dont know what to do. Any ideas?

2006-11-06 00:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by jaye 2

2006-11-06 00:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by jazlovesblue 1

We know folks get together and become a couple, and attraction and stuff is important, but how important is compromising in a relatioship?

2006-11-06 00:35:47 · 19 answers · asked by Arthur D 3

i like a guy n' he's my class mate i don't know if he likes me or no
he always stares at me wherever i am n smiles at me . i know his number should i call him up or wait for him to take any step
please suggest!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-06 00:35:36 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

gangbang. How do you react ?

2006-11-06 00:34:59 · 8 answers · asked by titifricotin 2