A guy at work recently told me he's interested in me and invited me to church. He knows I have a boyfriend but he'd like for us to be friends (Rough patch w/ boyfriend, I'm intrested in him too but....). I haven't been to a service in 14 yrs, and unfortunately i didn't go due to work. Last night, Sunday, he told me he's a actual preacher!!! Honestly I was a little intimidated b4 because he seems to have everything in the world, and to like me, little miss dont have much, it was just a little intimidating bcuz i'm thinking he'd act differently if he really knew i dont have much. But now, I'm terrified. He's 28, preaching 4 7yrs, has a church staff, music production company, sings, writes, & produce, and i'm 20 doing a bunch of nothing. He's a nice person, but ....I just dont know what to do. Any ideas?
2006-11-06 00:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by jaye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Joycelyn, don't be surprised if he has enough information about you already. Why should you underrate yourself in love? Try and give him a chance, at least to see the direction which is towing in starting a relationship with you. If at any time he's not doing it right according to your standard then you back out. But the greatest mistake you'll make is NOT to give him a chance at all. Good luck and have a fulfilling relationship. Cheers!
2006-11-06 00:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 20, nobody's expecting you to have shook the world yet. Actually, there are men, particularly in his profession, who don't want competition, just a gf. I can't tell from what you've said whether he's romantically attracted to you or just "saving souls." Probably the latter. Go to church if you feel like it. If not, don't!
2006-11-06 00:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is catholic, meaning priest, he is untouchable and he is sinning.
Otherwise i think that if his denomination allows dating for preachers then i think that you should date him. And if he was a real man, he wouldnt really care what you do or howmuch you own.
2006-11-06 00:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Iriskent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter what he has or you have, or what you dont have, if you like him and he likes you, just follow your heart, if it doesnt end up as anything romantic,
then maybe you will have a new friend.
And..........if someone doesnt like you for what you "dont have", then they arent worth knowing anyway.
2006-11-06 00:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by MikeDONG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preachers date too, just make sure that with all he has that it does not include a wife!
2006-11-06 00:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get to decide if he likes you or not, that's for him to do. Just be yourself and get to know him, you may find that you aren't interested in him like that.
2006-11-06 00:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to him and if he really does what he preach then he is not going to care about what you have and what you don't have so don't worry about it and give him a chance.
2006-11-06 00:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a chance. Get to know him better. It doesnt mean you should date him...
2006-11-06 00:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by Rona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋