Singles & Dating - 6 November 2006

Hi i am 44 years old i have been married twice and divorced twice i have been divorced now for 7 years i know the reason my past marriages failure was because God was not in these marriages i have been feeling fery alone in life even tho i know Jesus loves me and he will never leave me i have Godly morals and i am seeking my soulmate who is also a Godly woman when i was young my Grandma always told me to go to church to meet a good woman, i do go to church but do not feel this is a place to go to look for a date.
So to you single Christian women were do you go to find a date and what do you look for in a man?
Do any of you have this same problem i do believe there is a woman for every man and a man for every woman.
I don't go to bars because i know i wont find them there i have put a prifile on these dating sites but i think the word Christian turns them off i am even willing to move anywhere in this country to be with the right woman because i don't feel like i belong were i am at

2006-11-06 02:29:00 · 4 answers · asked by jamnjims 5

2006-11-06 02:28:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were together for 6 months, I was starting to doubt whether we had anything in common and if we should stay together--only because I am afraid to get close to ppl. He said the best things in life included the most risk and, if I could let my guard down and commit, the benefits from it would be endless. He went to a party and girl came onto him and they ended up kissing, but then he pushed her off. He said he afraid of losing me and thought this was going to be our final fight. He said he loved me and knew he didn’t deserve me/ took me for granted, he regretted kissing her. I said I could forgive him because I loved him but I kept bringing it up and it hurt our relationship. We spent too much time with each other and, when we weren’t together, I always worried where he was and who he was with. He dumped me saying he didn't see it as long term anymore and he didnt think he loved me as much. A month went by,he says he has realized he still does love me.

2006-11-06 02:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 02:26:25 · 12 answers · asked by flignar 2

well it is more than just me and him.i have a girlfrind too.im bi.he knows we are goin out and stuff so it is like a triangle.we are all going out with eachother.she has had sex with him already and im woried if i dont have sex with hiim soon he will leve me for her.she is 15.i like him alot and im still a virgine.what should i do????

2006-11-06 02:25:39 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

Ok, this guy I have liked for ages FINALLY asked for my number on Saturday night, and walked me home :-) I have kissed him a lot of times before but nothing else has happened and we have kind of been playing games with each other I guess. (which we both apologised for and admitted that we don't really like, whoops!) I actually got to speak to him properly Saturday night and made it clear I like him and I am fairly sure he likes me too.

When he said goodnight to me on Saturday he said to text him so I did just to say thanks for walking me home. He replied and said it was cool and good night etc. I just sent one back saying good night and left it at that.

I know its only been a day so I know he might be playing it cool. Should I do the same or just go for it?! Now that something has happened between us I want to pursue it but I don't want to come on too strongly. Why are these things so complicated :-p!

2006-11-06 02:25:00 · 15 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2

Ok serious question here. I was one of those guys brainwashed into being classy towards a woman. I know the mistakes in the past by bringing flowers to the girl on the first date anda ll and takeing her to very nice places right away, but let me ask what is doing too much or going overboard too soon?

2006-11-06 02:24:07 · 10 answers · asked by Arthur D 3

For the women in the forum. Would you be less attracted to a man who shaved his head because he was balding? Assume that the man has a relatively nice face and eyes.

2006-11-06 02:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by Tom W 1

2006-11-06 02:22:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

they once broke up and i thought that maybe we would get together then he went back with her. i claims to be so much in love with me buts he is not making any effort for us to be together. he has been my bestfriend for years and i always knew that i loved him but never really told him until now. and it seems that now that i told him i regret it because i put my feeling out there only for him to take advantage of them. i really feels like he is the one i would love to spend the rest of my life with.

2006-11-06 02:20:21 · 7 answers · asked by jordan 1

How long do you think a girl should wait be4 sex if she doesnt want to be considered fast or easy or even a whore....

2006-11-06 02:19:26 · 21 answers · asked by KaKes 2

I have heard that you can judge a man's character by how he treats his mother? Is this saying true?
My current boyfriend of four years is really horrible to his mother cursing at her, pushing, stealing, and not being grateful for everything she does.

2006-11-06 02:18:56 · 22 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5

2006-11-06 02:17:33 · 12 answers · asked by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4

2006-11-06 02:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy uses the word "darn" because he has plans and cant meet up with you. And says that you look "fab", is he abit of a dork or a proper gentleman?

2006-11-06 02:15:15 · 27 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

hey out there.....i am on the bridge in finding a boyfriend.....but eveytime i think its mr. right i am wrong!!!

2006-11-06 02:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been dating for a little over a year & have been really good friends for maybe a year before that. I have always been head over heels for him & Im crazy about him. But whenever we get into an argument, its always about the same thing & I just dont know if I should continue trying to fix things b/c it doesnt seem like its getting fixed. He never really tells me how he feels unless I ask him (if Im having a bad day or something, its just nice to hear, ya know?). He doesnt have a job right now, & I have been working full time for 3 years (Im 21, hes 24), he still lives at home, which Im 95% okay with, but I feel terrible for his mom b/c she is always doing the cooking, cleaning, mowing the lawn, etc! I just feel like if he is that way not, what if we end up getting serious or getting married? Is he going to grow out of the habit of letting the woman take care of everything? He had a job for a couple months out of the year & a half hes been out of school. (Graduated)

2006-11-06 02:13:51 · 3 answers · asked by hisbebe821 1

ive been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years, 1st relationship over one month, have been living together for 1.5 yrs, feel im asking myself the question, is this it a lot lately, i love him but i dont know if im in love with him, we spend all our time together and maybe thats half the problem. sometimes i wish iwas single, and feel maybe im missing out on something, but then again i dont know what id do without him, im afraid that il do something il always regret, either way. can anyone help?!

2006-11-06 02:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Cause i know when i get intamant with my lover i don't want her down stairs to look like a gorrila,hair yes but to much no.

2006-11-06 02:11:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a good friend who has everything but no one cares and his not happy about it and the other one got lots of friends but dont have much money?

2006-11-06 02:11:40 · 38 answers · asked by weng 2

Have you ever had that happen to you? Did you get rid of the man or the pet?

2006-11-06 02:10:49 · 18 answers · asked by Optimistic 6

2006-11-06 02:09:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was dating this guy who i really cared about and was pretty sure he reallly cared about me. then i got worried b cuz he was going back to Chicago for part of the summer and i thought he would hook up with all his old girlfriends. so i broke up with him. i've tried to move on to other guys but i can't get him out of my head. i really regret breaking up with him and want to try it over again. but how should i tell him?

2006-11-06 02:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by mugglebornordermember 1

Okay, my boyfriend of 4 years got arrested two months ago for selling drugs in my house (I obviously was not aware of anything) and I've told him that I'm done with him and will never get back together with him. He's since told me that he's cheated on me like 8 times while we were together...yuck right? Anyway, I've stuck by his side to help him out with his lawyer and such because his family won't but he keeps writing me these letters and telling me how much he loves me and we are going to be together forever. Well, I've started hanging out with this guy and I REALLY like him. The draw back is he was friends with my boyfriend. Neither of us care what everyone is saying about us but what should I do? Should I stick by my ex until he goes to prison or just break it off completely right now? I am torn because I am a very compassionate person and don't want my ex to be totally alone but I also don't want him to think he has a chance with me. Please help and what do I say to the ex?

2006-11-06 02:08:20 · 14 answers · asked by gbsunshine 2

2006-11-06 02:06:35 · 7 answers · asked by Prince C 1

What does it mean when you raise your eyebrows while looking at a girl?

2006-11-06 02:05:51 · 12 answers · asked by S. 4

Can you tell a most romantic and a creative idea of proposing a girl on her birthday?

2006-11-06 02:04:44 · 20 answers · asked by ithunderhyderabad 2

2006-11-06 02:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was dating this guy who i really cared about and was pretty sure he reallly cared about me. then i got worried b cuz he was going back to Chicago for part of the summer and i thought he would hook up with all his old girlfriends. so i broke up with him. i've tried to move on to other guys but i can't get him out of my head. i really regret breaking up with him and want to try it over again. but how should i tell him?

2006-11-06 02:04:05 · 5 answers · asked by mugglebornordermember 1

Live with an artist.He is intelligent except when it comes to criticism .At times he seems weird or stange.Moody man really knows where to hit to hurt.Any sence in hoping for change?I really lke his kind and loving side when it is given.I am easy going and tolerate this quite well just seeing if anyone is in same sort of situation,thanks.

2006-11-06 02:03:53 · 11 answers · asked by yp_annie_buffalo 1