Singles & Dating - 6 November 2006

Foreplay is not in his vocabulary, whenever we have sex, I never attain orgasm. Even when I tell him, he just falls off. Sometimes I feel so bad & cheated. Yet we meet once in a blue moon though we're in a serious relationship. What can I do to improve on our sexual life. How can I make sex more pleasurable. He seem not bothered, sometimes I think that he cheats on me. Please I need help in this area. Anyone out there who knows some techniques that I can use to get him involved in the foreplay. He does not even kiss me.

2006-11-06 23:18:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 23:13:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

for new year &any suggest for this event ?

2006-11-06 23:13:26 · 5 answers · asked by wolf 1

I want to go as tight as possible, but how to do it with at least some comfort.

2006-11-06 23:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 23:12:25 · 7 answers · asked by Kamya Satija 1

Do you think that I am attractive? Tell me what improvements you think I could make. There is a link to my picture below:

http://s125.photobucket.com/albums/p46/bongmasterextrodinaire/?action=view¤t=Jason.jpg&refPage=&imgAnch=imgAnch1

2006-11-06 23:11:49 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1

I was married for a long time.Single now for about 10 years.
Any down to earth guys out there looking for a pretty lady with a heart full of love. and looking for someone to grow old with. & walk hand and hand into the sunset

2006-11-06 23:11:04 · 10 answers · asked by cuttiestrawberypie 2

when approaching a girl who is not doing anything, just waiting for a bus/train?

Obviously I would wait till I caught her eye smile and say hi if I'm close enough.

Me: How's it going?
Her: Yeah, not too bad. Just finished exams.
Me: Congrats. How do you think you went?
Her: Pretty good I hope. Not so sure about algebra.
Me: Yeah I was never too good with that stuff either.

This is just an example, made it up. But as you can see there's a base topic - exams and algebra. Once that dries up, I am stranded cos I have no clue how to extend the conversation. This is my main problem, that once a topic is finished, I don't know where/how to take the conversation. Give me some tips on what to do please. And advice on what to talk about to a woman.

Are topics like work and things like news events taboo? Like you should never go there?

2006-11-06 23:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by Maggs 1

I really like this guy but he is socially different from me. We are in the same profession but he is....how can i say it.....very middle class compared to myself. he speaks properly and is a real gent around women. Is it possible that two people from two totally different backgrounds can have a relationship?i feel really common when im around him. (not that this is a bad thing, and he hasnt questionned my background or anything). am i just being paranoid?i feel as if he can do better than me.

2006-11-06 23:06:39 · 25 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1

Your pride and ego gets the best of you...attitude kicks in. You know that you have been letting yourself go...ignoring him, giving silly excuses. He's hung in there for a while but now he wants to move on. He hasn't entertained the thought of another woman yet...but you know it's possible. And you know that you are the cause of it. How good of a woman are you to straighten things out?

2006-11-06 23:05:45 · 12 answers · asked by No shame, No game 2

Okay, I have asked your guys'gals advice on my ex girlfriend. She dumped me a month ago because she said that she really needed to figure out what makes her happy and sort things out in her life. Her father passed away 4 months ago and she told me that she has been unhappy for a very long time. She is in therapy for these issues. When she broke up with me she asked me not to hate her and that the timing of us sucked because of her problems. She wanted to be friends, but I told her that I could not right away because I knew I would have hidden intentions cause I still had strong feelings for her. I needed time to get over her. So with her Bday coming up I asked you guys/gals if it would be okay to txt her on her birthday. You guys seemed to think that this would be a good idea because you think she would like to hear from me, but how do I know that she would like to hear from me. We haven't talked since the breakup?

2006-11-06 23:05:06 · 3 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1

I find that once I have taken the time to get a mans interest and we have dated and things get serious and we have sex that I become restless and want to end things and go back to being alone till I meet the next chase.....

2006-11-06 23:04:40 · 19 answers · asked by Jamesmommyfl 2

I've just discovered that my boyfriend of 5 years looks at porn regularly and has kept it hidden for years. I'm sure that I'm just being insecure but I can't help feeling that he must compare me to the women he looks at. Does he imagine that I'm someone else during sex?

2006-11-06 23:03:37 · 9 answers · asked by claire s 1

I want my bf to adore me again, what should I do to prove myself, I know he loves me, but what can I do to amaze him..??

2006-11-06 23:01:10 · 11 answers · asked by frizzylizzy 1

well tormmrow i sign a least with n.a.mi i have 3 other room mates/ but will be living there like saturdays, sundays, one day through the week. rest of time i will still be home.my father is 75 and doesnt like being alone at night. do you thimk im un friendly living like that.

2006-11-06 23:01:00 · 1 answers · asked by debbigeri 3

like me more?

2006-11-06 23:00:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was dating this guy for about 5 years in college. I cheated on him with one of he's good friends (several times).
Eventually, things didn't work out with my bf & the "friend".
While I was going out with my bf I met allot of people & became friends with all of he's friends. I became friends with all the parents too. Even closer to the one "friends" parents who I cheated on my bf with but became friends with them BEFORE I cheated. I'm sure all the parents knew what was going on with my bf, the "friend" & I.
Three years later & I've still remained friends with everyone & the parents.
Now I started talking to the "friends" younger brother (who hangs out with us). We hooked up one night in the summer & have been talking since. I've been trying to hide it cuz I feel ackward since I have a history with he's friend (my ex) & he's brother. I never want to go over to he's house cuz I don't know what he's parents think about situation or me. Do I relax and go for it and not?

2006-11-06 22:59:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

which gurl perfers unCircumcised or Circumcised cuz i'm unCircumcision

2006-11-06 22:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am just coming out of a 4 yr long distance relationship, and the reason i do not feel is due to the distance, however i feel totally used, i really loved her and made every effort to travel to see her 20 odd times a 7000 mile round trip, however my love was blind, she never would say she loved me, never came to visit me, hardly kissed never stayed over and we didnt sleep together even though i tried to move all these things forward and we discussed it, however tghe worst thing was that she created this dream for us about living together and slowly she coaxed more and more money out of me for rent and a car and then tried for a house deposit, then i couldnt afford it, i feel a complete ******* idiot so u dont have to tell me, i just want to know how i can stop this happening again, how to say no and to stop being manipulated like she did, i feel i am too much of a nice guy, the more she talked to me the more she conned me i feel, sensible answers please

2006-11-06 22:49:51 · 26 answers · asked by john d 1

Why am i so good at every thing I do mean every thing.

2006-11-06 22:49:13 · 8 answers · asked by cjett63 2

Here's what I mean ... I was thinking the other day about all the blokes I'd met over the last 10 years or so, most I wasn't bothered about, a few I had relationships with. There was this one guy in particular that I had a real connection with and he did with me. He had a girlfriend at the time so I did the right thing and kept it friendly but didn't get involved (and I would have loved to). We eventually lost touch but I since found out that he did have an affair years after, left his girlfriend for another woman and now they're married and really happy together. So is it really best to do the right thing or should you maybe do the wrong thing to get the right outcome??

2006-11-06 22:48:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 22:42:40 · 21 answers · asked by Chantell Adams 1

If a guy have found a girl that they're happy with and usually keeps them satisfied, why do they find it so hard to make a commitment to the girl? And If guys do not want to make a commitment to the girl, shouldn't they be trying to look for someone who they would want to commit with?

2006-11-06 22:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

it all started when my boyfriend and i had an arguement coz i was drunk snd he left and went out with his mates i tried going after him but he had gone so all i had to do was wait til the morning but when the morning *** his mates were @ his house and he was upstairs in his brothers bedroom with another girl she was on the top bunk he was on the bottom i asked him if anything went on and he promised me that nothing did and i believed him.but then he went out wiv his mates again one night phoned me up at 5 in the morning asking if i could go and pick him up from an area the other side of town i asked him why he was there and he reconed that he walked his mate from work home but when i looked at his phone there was this girls phone number on there that i didnt no so was he with someone else and just using that as an exuse?

2006-11-06 22:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 22:37:04 · 16 answers · asked by anubhav 1

I met this Girl over the internet approx. 6months ago and have been talking to her every day since and for about three months we have been talking on the phone as well and have become very good friends. The only thing that has kept me from meeting her already is the fact that I am in the military and have not been back home in the states since February. We have more in common than you can imagine, The more I get to know about her the more I feel like I am falling for her. There is not a day that goes by that I dont think about her. Am I just crazy or is it accually possible to fall in love with someone youve never met in person....Please help

2006-11-06 22:34:43 · 11 answers · asked by Abc D 1

2006-11-06 22:32:50 · 15 answers · asked by Beavis 1

Here's the deal ;

My bf calls me at 3am and then gets pissed at me for not answering right away, or for being sleepy. He only calls me 'baby' now when we have sex. He is pissed because he is getting a place and wants me to move in.

Yesturday, i was happy and i'd gone out with my friend. i came back and he said he was mad that i sounded happy when he's so depressed. I ask him why he's so mad, and he says he's just frustrated because he's lonely, and he wants me there. Later he said his Grandma is sick, and he blames me for not being there, that his Grandma 'only dies once' and I'm not there for him. I couldn't believe he blamed me for that!! i'm there for him just not in front of him. This goes on ALL the time now. All this in one day.

2006-11-06 22:31:26 · 5 answers · asked by maria h 1

Seriously, wtf? I am so tired of hearing people say "yeah I was _ when I lost mine and I wish I would've waited"...waited for WHAT? I lost my virginity at 16, and I NEVER regretted it--why would I? It was great! I guess people tend to confuse love with sex, and try to make sex into something that it is not.

Sex is not about love, and it is not something "special" to be saved for that "special" someone....it is something you do because it's fun and it feels good. I'll tell you something else--I've been in love a couple of times, and the sex felt exactly the same. So much for that theory!

So I guess my real question is; why are people so desperate to believe in a myth?

2006-11-06 22:31:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

he don't love me, but shows a signs that he is having some feeling for me.

2006-11-06 22:30:28 · 14 answers · asked by tina 2