what do you think he's getting at, and what should i do?

Question

Here's the deal ;

My bf calls me at 3am and then gets pissed at me for not answering right away, or for being sleepy. He only calls me 'baby' now when we have sex. He is pissed because he is getting a place and wants me to move in.

Yesturday, i was happy and i'd gone out with my friend. i came back and he said he was mad that i sounded happy when he's so depressed. I ask him why he's so mad, and he says he's just frustrated because he's lonely, and he wants me there. Later he said his Grandma is sick, and he blames me for not being there, that his Grandma 'only dies once' and I'm not there for him. I couldn't believe he blamed me for that!! i'm there for him just not in front of him. This goes on ALL the time now. All this in one day.

Answer 1

this guy is a control freak dump him before he ruins your life.you only have the one life so enjoy it,this guy will ruin you!

Answer 2

Sounds like your man has some issues. He needs you in order to feel ok I guess. I don't know. But I couldn't handle that kind of bs. You went out w/ your friends you didn't know his grandmother was sick so that's not your fault. And he can't expect every time he wont's you for whatever reason that your gonna drop everything your doing and run straight to him. Sounds a little insecure to me....

Answer 3

This is a very manipulative guy and he could become scary eventually. Too posessive. Get away from him. He is gonna ruin your self esteem.

Answer 4

I feel that either he has got someone else in his life or he is really frustrated of life. try to comfort him and all will be ok.

Answer 5

if he cant appreciate you stay away from him. then maybe he will realise what he is missing. if not, you've had a lucky escape.