Foreplay is not in his vocabulary, whenever we have sex, I never attain orgasm. Even when I tell him, he just falls off. Sometimes I feel so bad & cheated. Yet we meet once in a blue moon though we're in a serious relationship. What can I do to improve on our sexual life. How can I make sex more pleasurable. He seem not bothered, sometimes I think that he cheats on me. Please I need help in this area. Anyone out there who knows some techniques that I can use to get him involved in the foreplay. He does not even kiss me.
2006-11-06 23:18:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a one-on-one conversation with him in a restaurant where the embience is complimentary. Let him know that the relationship means alot to you and you want to make it work. Besides being physical you do have your emotional needs as well. Perhaps you can consider getting those phono video to kickstart foreplay. However, don't get into trouble with the law though becos I'm not familiar with your laws on phonography.
Cheer up, won't you?
2006-11-06 23:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Helloooooooo "MCFLY"-----don't you read between the lines!!!
You're nothing more than a "BOOTY" call----what you perceive as a boyfriend is really a lying cheating DOG of a man---
Keep those legs closed and those panties on!! Have some respect for yourself----He doesn't do the things you want because like I said before "booty" call...Slam bam thank you MAM---In his mind you're nothing more than a sperm receiver!
You need to cut this relationship off----and find someone else who will respect you---give you the time and what you want in a relationship. You'll find if you do this the next relationship you have will be special and that person will do everything you want and more!!!
Kick your boyfriend to the CURB---and don't look back---MOVE on for the FUTURE is yours!!
2006-11-06 23:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry wendy but he's just using you. any guy who does not kiss you or show hardly any interest in you during what should be the most romantic and intense moments of your life is just using you. you can bet he does cheat, any guy who uses a woman as nothing more than a receptacle is a loser and you need to lose him and find you a guy that will appreciate you. the reason you aren't enjoying your sexual experience with him is because he is not a good lover. lose him, find a good man and you will experience what real love is about.
2006-11-07 03:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey I'm so sorry it sounds like he really doesn't care to you at all that you're just a piece of meat for him to enjoy.
You can try cutting them off completely and tell him know he can't have it until he learns to satisfy you may be at that point you listen but I'm betting if you cut him off he will come around I wish you the best. I don't he cannot help getting a quick as some people are that way I am but I've learned how to take care of her first in other ways so that that's not a problem good luck to you
2006-11-06 23:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by easymoney 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't ever let anyone cheat you of good things, your boyfriend obviously lacks something, he should talk to someone, if not you!! if he continues ignoring you then it's probably tim to move on and make sure he knows that. tell him i said he is very selfish for thinking he is the only partner who matters during sex!!
2006-11-06 23:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by chev-poison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a relationship? Please don't tell me thats its easier to have sex than talk? This really isnt meeting anyones needs and I have to wonder how the rest of the relationship is?
Until you can talk together about the mutual needs within a relationship, I just can't see how it will improve.
2006-11-06 23:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jeni-wren 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him tonight you are going to make love to him. Then give him a nice massage, lots of touching, gentle kisses, whatever you like. Take a break from him and let him watch you do what you like to yourself. If you want him to kiss you, tell him when and where. Then go back to him and pleasure him the way you like.
You are going to have to teach him. Take him to tantric sex or kama sutra websites. Share them with him. Choose what you like and implement it.
Sounds like a totally unskilled lover. Most men want to prolong their pleasure. He should appreciate lessons.
2006-11-06 23:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well...i wud sugegst that u plz talk to ur boy...as what does he really want?????? both in ur love life and sexlife???????? both lives shud b pleasureable....!!!!!! i mean...that ask ur boy what he expects from u.....talk to him very calmly n tell him wat u feel...!!!!! this wil help am sure....make love to him in a better manner...do things which can probably attract him...u shud b knowin wat things attract ur boy...!!! and if u dont knw, just ask him indirectly...then do those thngs nad he'll definitely fall for you...!!!! all the best...!!!! but remember....just sexual part is not imp...there are many aspects to a relationship...concentrate on those as well...!!!!
2006-11-06 23:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by ..ss.. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should take charge of the sex... You do oral on him... Then be on top and take the rhythm the way you want... And the speed and where he hits...
If you want more information about sex, I have a lot of websites that might be of use to you...
2006-11-06 23:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
im sorry it sounds like he cares nothing for you and your feelings -- if he did he would be more responsive and do more to please you
if he does not even kiss you ----- tell him one more time and if he still does not respond --- find someone who will care for you
2006-11-06 23:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋