I was dating this guy for about 5 years in college. I cheated on him with one of he's good friends (several times).
Eventually, things didn't work out with my bf & the "friend".
While I was going out with my bf I met allot of people & became friends with all of he's friends. I became friends with all the parents too. Even closer to the one "friends" parents who I cheated on my bf with but became friends with them BEFORE I cheated. I'm sure all the parents knew what was going on with my bf, the "friend" & I.
Three years later & I've still remained friends with everyone & the parents.
Now I started talking to the "friends" younger brother (who hangs out with us). We hooked up one night in the summer & have been talking since. I've been trying to hide it cuz I feel ackward since I have a history with he's friend (my ex) & he's brother. I never want to go over to he's house cuz I don't know what he's parents think about situation or me. Do I relax and go for it and not?
2006-11-06 22:59:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to know if I should feel ackward about the situation. He doesn't feel ackward and wants to have a relationshop with me. I'm worried about what allot of people think. They all met me through my ex-boyfriend and are all close to the new guy, I am talking to now.
I really don't know what to do. If I should go for it and relax or should I be worried about what other people (especially the parents) think about the situation.
If I didn't know any of the parents or friends, I don't think I would feel as ackward.
2006-11-06 23:04:23 · update #1
Sounds to me like you've played around enough with these men, their hearts, and their family. First I think it's totally wrong for you to cheat on ur bf w/ his "friend" if the guy was really his friend he would have never hooked up w/ you. Seconed it's crazy isn't there any more guys out there that aren't around this little click. The bf and the friend weren't good enough for you now you have to go after the freinds little brother. You need to STOP while your ahead and while ppl still tallk to you. Rumor spread and ppl talk. And your gonna be the one their talking about. The chick who jumps from guy to guy. And there all part of the same group and r famliy. It's crazy no don't relax his parents are gonna think your totally crazy for coming after their younger son when you've already been w/ their older son and his friend. Just stop.
2006-11-06 23:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a mess. To be honest with you, I'd stay away. But if you're really liking this guy and want something long-term to happen, then you're going to have to do it eventually so you might as well get it over with. However, if this guy is just another fling-type relationship, don't bother. So it all depends on how you feel for this guy. I'm sorry for being a smart*ss, but you need to expand your circle of friends since you're dating too many guys within this circle. It makes you look like a ****. (again, I'm sorry but it's true)
2006-11-07 07:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to date brothers, or relatives of guys you've dated. Odds are, the parents have a very low opinion of you. Only you can decide what to do, but I hope you start making better decisions than you have in the past.
2006-11-07 07:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful you are looking for a fall, the parents will be protective over this situation. You have already hurt one of their sons...
2006-11-07 07:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by frizzylizzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to STOP! You are setting yourself up for disaster.
2006-11-07 07:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well chill gal.................take it easy.................parents knoe u were kids then.............nd these things in life keep on happening.............nd if u wnt go.............u wont get to knoe abt their feelings....................why spoil such a gud reporitre u have with them.........
2006-11-07 07:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by screwurattitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋