Singles & Dating - 6 November 2006

You hear the word combination everywhere (Media, Conversations) and the attitude towards it has changed from negative to humorous. Is it now changing into positive? God or Bad: What do you think?

2006-11-06 16:46:38 · 25 answers · asked by Alexandra M 2

Im in love with this girl and we broke up...we had to many problems and rumors lead to arguments, and we just got done talkin and setting a plan of how we dont wanna fight anymore, she says she still thinks about me and stays up real late doing so, its been 2 weeks since we broke up btw, I think she still loves me she tried going out with a guy to get over me but she dumped him cuz she diddnt love him and stuff but ya we have arguments still till recently we decided to stride to stop but I Still love her but she says we cant go out now cuz its just not the right time we have to prove are problems are gone and she has other stuff to focus on as do I but I still love her and I know she still loves me, should I move on or keep waiting for her and trying to get her back

2006-11-06 16:46:27 · 6 answers · asked by Justin_plays_guitar 1

I'm a 23 year fairly attractive bisexual black male who's from Northern California. I've been searching for a compatiable person for a long while now and its been very fustrating to me and plus I have been going through some personal issues lately.

I have had only two very short relationships with two men, but haven't found any luck yet as of since then. And thats when I was only 16 years of age. I have had some people I liked before, but they always tell me that I'm not there type, not interested or either that I'm too young.

I even met people I really didn't like and told them that I wasn't interested as well because I haven't found Mr. Right. It seems like for other people its easy to find some one right for them and attractive, likes its no big problem, but for me its hard, ver hard and I'm getting upset.

I've seen people I liked,but didnt have the ability to approach them and ask them, so thats my bad.

Don't no what to do next besides wait for him to appear.

Help?

2006-11-06 16:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by Shaun M 1

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-06 16:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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1 day ago
her messages have said . . she doesnt understand why we cant be friends. . even though she does know why and just stupid little things to try to get me to respond . . . like u said u would be there for me and stuff like that

2006-11-06 16:42:39 · 17 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1

2006-11-06 16:41:38 · 10 answers · asked by Mikey W 2

2006-11-06 16:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by Courtz 1

if he acts like he cares but he just doesnt say the right things...how to read between the lines? :)

2006-11-06 16:38:22 · 4 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3

2006-11-06 16:38:00 · 13 answers · asked by Keerthana S 2

the guy I'm thinking of is a comp nerd(not a dis I love him, he jus says that's how is he)I was his first g/f,he was 21,I was 23. we recently started seeing each other at my work again.I know he really cares 4 me. He told me he really liked me I think he just got scared off one night.I wasn't myself.long story but I got emotional cuz I thought I screwed up going a little too fast(just heavy making out and touching with clothes on).I didn't respond 2 him trying 2 cheer me up the car ride home,I went 2 kiss him on the lips but then he "really" kissed me.I pulled back cried,told him I didn't wanna confuse him. I saw him recently and he told me he could see how attached 2 me. I think that's what he was talking about when he said it clicked that he didn't like me when we kissed then.could we have a 2nd chance now that we're kool and talking/seeing each other(at my work)?

2006-11-06 16:36:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what I can do I have two penis by birth and doctors says we cant remove ether one and I have to live with this. As you know my GF left because when I disclosed about my thing. how can I get her back she says its not normal and even she have told to all of her firends and I can see by their smiles.

2006-11-06 16:35:04 · 18 answers · asked by killer 3

2006-11-06 16:34:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 16:34:17 · 30 answers · asked by muddyboy01 1

Being a true blue aussie in an asian body i was just wondering how caucasion guys generally feel about Asian chicks, attraction -wise?

2006-11-06 16:34:11 · 14 answers · asked by aka 1

A guy I can't get over was here for a few months working. When he went home to Canada, we kept in touch but didn't say much beyond "how's life." I missed him more and more. Finally I wrote him a letter telling him how I really felt about him (short of saying I LOVE YOU). He never answered and stopped writing. Then he came back a year later (for five days, for work) and called out of the blue. We got together twice. He seemed happy to be with me, but I didn't bring up the letter or ask why he ignored it. I also didn't sleep with him this time. He acted a bit distant and weird before leaving again, said he was trying to get assigned back here again "someday," and then when he went to hug me goodbye he was trembling. That was six months ago, and I haven't heard from him still. Am I crazy to keep hoping? I've never been in love before him, doubt if I will feel this way for anyone else. We're both 30. I know through a mutual friend that he hasn't had a girlfriend since we met. Help!

2006-11-06 16:32:02 · 4 answers · asked by BeenThereDoneThat 2

I am a single guy who has been trying to meet women on line and i am having no luck.Is there any sights that are ligit anymore? I live in a small area in southern il.The problem for me is i dont like the bar scene and i dont go to church.So i thought i would give this a try.Anyone have any suggestions?

2006-11-06 16:31:55 · 5 answers · asked by mike 2

2006-11-06 16:31:49 · 15 answers · asked by soundlady 5

My boyfriend went hunting a couple of days ago, and he wont be back for about a half a week still. I miss him like crazy, and i want to do something really special for him for when he gets back. I'm an attractive girl and I do like to seduce him. Can you give me some ideas for a great night for when he comes back? What do guys TRULY like?

2006-11-06 16:31:13 · 11 answers · asked by happygolucky003 1

2006-11-06 16:29:05 · 17 answers · asked by sha_la_la 3

2006-11-06 16:26:52 · 9 answers · asked by sha_la_la 3

Please Answer!! Guys do you find it romantic when...?
A girl who is everything out ever wanted and more(you two are going out) falls asleep in your arms?? She's not fat jus ta 5'1 and weighs 90lbs. She doesn't look skinny, she looks normal.Would you like this on a normal day??Let's say it was cuz it was a yr ago that she was molested and didn't feel safe with any1 but you. She just wants to know some1 cares 4 her. Why or why not??
Thanx!!
Would you have no problem falling asleep with your arms around her??
Would you mind or enjoy it??
would you ever abuse it??

Ladies why do we love this so much??*I becuz of my past)

2006-11-06 16:25:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 16:24:02 · 13 answers · asked by Male 1

Well I am single and often times feel depressed, one way out I got is porn. But porn is considered wrong when you are a married man it causes problems and stuff. But what about if I am not married? I mean I couldn't find ms.right, and I don't want to endulge myself in the dating drama world.
Plus ,don't suggest church activities, because I live in a small country town and I am a foreginer from Africa, so no one wants me around, I mean they won't tell me to go but still I can feel the unwantingness.
Any ideas as to why I can't atleast get over my boredom and loneliness with porn?

2006-11-06 16:22:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean, when u r in this relationship and r still thinking about ur ex? Ive been with this guy for over a year, but i still cant stop thinking about my ex. Its been a while since me and my ex have been 2gether but i cant stop thinking about him. My current bf is really nice guy and he loves me a lot, but i keep having these dreams about my ex that i cant explain. i am very much so happy with my bf but plz help why do i still keep thinking about my EX

2006-11-06 16:21:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

Additional Details

21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-06 16:20:33 · 3 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1

you were awakened by your girl having started without you?
I have a fantasy about waking my man up slowly, but I don't want to surprise him too much. What do you say?

2006-11-06 16:19:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-06 16:16:24 · 19 answers · asked by Timmy Mic 1

So i've been with this guy off and on for 5 years. We have two kids one is just 4 months old. I love him very much but i recently found a profile of him on a singles site. It was made the month I was dueHe tried lying first until i convinced him i would have to be a mushroom to eat this bull chit. He says he was just looking and wqas worried we would break up again. We broke shortly after the birth of my first. i have a hard time trusting anything now and am so hurt that I keep bringing it up. He says he loves me and wants to get married and I love him. I know I'm still good looking, I went out the other night and got hit on hordes, we have sex 4-5 times a week so it's not htat he wasn't getting any. What should I do? How can rebuild the trust?

2006-11-06 16:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by krissy 5

There's just no way to explain it...i just love him...so confused with things and people pulling me back

2006-11-06 16:14:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay people, I have a huge test tommorrow, I haven't really studied, I still have to take a shower, yet I am online at yahoo questions answering and asking questions, I don't really want to go to bed because it is empty, and I wish I had someone to cuddle with, it has been two years for crying outloud, but why am i still on this computer? What is wrong with me? Please help

2006-11-06 16:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by heynow 2