i need YOUR advice plz help?

Question

What does it mean, when u r in this relationship and r still thinking about ur ex? Ive been with this guy for over a year, but i still cant stop thinking about my ex. Its been a while since me and my ex have been 2gether but i cant stop thinking about him. My current bf is really nice guy and he loves me a lot, but i keep having these dreams about my ex that i cant explain. i am very much so happy with my bf but plz help why do i still keep thinking about my EX

Answer 1

It sounds like you still care for him very much, also sounds like he still has your heart...If you are still in love with him then you need to tell him and see where it may lead, if not you need to let it go and move on..

Answer 2

I'm MARRIED and I still have random dreams about getting back together with my old boyfriends. I just dismiss them as weird and amusing dreams. I always keep in mind that there's a reason I'm with my current guy, and not with my ex-boyfriends.

When you're thinking about him (not sleeping). . . what are you thinking about??? Do you think you might still have actual feelings for him, or do you just miss something in particular he did to make you feel special (like kiss your forehead)?? Sometimes I used to miss the little things other boyfriends did, but then I realized that I am in a NEW relationship. Therefore, you have the potential to create new little quirks, greetings, pet names, etc. in the relationship that you are in. If you are finding that you still have feelings for the ex, maybe you should put the brakes on your current relationship until you can sort things out.

Answer 3

HI!
Look I have the same thing I still thiking about my x and waiting for an answer after I broke up with him. 5 years dating with my x and I still inlove with him cuz he is so far away from me. So I guess you still loving him in a different way such as a friend or brother, you don't want him to get hurt and things like that. But hey! MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!! even if is so hard don't hate me plz. I know is hard but later you will face the true just give ur slf a time to think and to make ur life more easy try to relax and if you have a pillow next to u just kick it as hard as u can and u will feel better well it works with me. so it will help u to get all ur anger go away or at least u will feel better and ready to face the true. u can b confuse now but let the time guide u.

Answer 4

Maybe you feel guilty that you've moved on to another person. Maybe you left things with your ex in a bad way and you didn't clarify an understanding when you moved on to your now boyfriend. You should tell your boyfriend that you need to talk to your ex just to make yourself feel better so you can get some weight off of your shoulders. If your boyfriend understands, then he's a great guy and you deserve eachother. Talk to your ex and make sure the breakup was mutual and say there are no hard feelings. You'll feel MUCH better, so you can move on to bigger and better things.

Answer 5

u still like ur ex. were you happier with ur ex when you 2 were still 2gether than your bf right now? your dreams are telling u that u'll be happier with ur x. and that even if ur current bf is nice and all that. probably ur just concious. the dicision is ur's. talk with ur x and find out what's wrong.

Answer 6

To me it says that you may not be over your ex. How long did you wait before going out with this guy? I'm guessing that maybe you need closure of some kind? I had this problem with an ex who cheated on me, or at least I wasn't sure if he did. I finally asked him straight out and he said he did cheat, so I was able to move on.

Answer 7

Its b/c u still have feelings for him and everything your new bf is doing is either reminding u of your ex or he is doing something wrong that u know your ex would never do.

Answer 8

Well, to tell you the truth, your still in love with him. If so many questions are running through your mind about your ex, I think you should talk to your current boyfriend, and tell him what's going on. He might be mad at you, but atleast you'll have someone close to talk with. Or you could talk to your ex. That's my advice to you :)

Answer 9

Could be that you haven't truly gotten over your ex. Have you seen your ex recently? I guess you should see your ex one more time and just see how you feel...maybe you are ready to move on after all you just need to see that you haven't really left anything behind...

Answer 10

You probably still have feelings for him and still love him alot. Just try not to think about him that much. Think about what toy have in front of you.